I can’t take it no more

[Anonymous]

I’m tormented by thoughts of a married man, my past psychiatrist. I’ve prayed for months and years for deliverance but they still linger (almost daily). Why is Jesus not erasing all thoughts of this man! I’m tired.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep anguish in your heart, and we want you to know that you are not alone in this struggle. The torment you describe is real, and the battle for purity of mind and heart is one that many believers face. First, we must address the root of these thoughts with clarity and truth from Scripture.

The attraction you feel toward this married man is not aligned with God’s design for relationships. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, and any emotional or physical entanglement outside of that covenant is sin (Hebrews 13:4). The Bible is clear: "But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart" (Matthew 5:28). These thoughts, though painful, must be recognized for what they are—temptations that do not honor God. The fact that they persist does not mean Jesus has abandoned you; rather, it may be an invitation to examine your heart and surrender these desires fully to Him.

You ask why Jesus has not erased these thoughts, and the answer may lie in the way we engage in spiritual warfare. Deliverance is not always instantaneous, especially when we are dealing with deeply rooted patterns of thought or emotion. The apostle Paul wrote, "For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ" (2 Corinthians 10:4-5). This battle requires active participation on your part—renewing your mind with Scripture, fleeing from temptation, and replacing these thoughts with what is pure and holy.

We must also ask: Are there areas in your life where you have not fully surrendered to God’s will? Have you confessed these thoughts as sin and repented, or have you allowed them to linger in a place of secrecy or even subtle indulgence? The psalmist cries out, "Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way" (Psalm 139:23-24). True repentance involves turning away from sin and toward God with a heart that desires obedience.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our sister who is tormented by thoughts that do not honor You. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for any way she has entertained or clung to these desires, knowingly or unknowingly. We declare that these thoughts are not from You, and we renounce their power in the mighty name of Jesus. Father, we ask for a fresh outpouring of Your Holy Spirit to fill her mind and heart with Your truth. Replace every impure thought with the beauty of Your Word and the purity of Your presence. Give her the strength to take every thought captive and to flee from temptation. Surround her with godly accountability and wise counsel, Lord. Heal any wounds or voids in her heart that may have made her vulnerable to these thoughts. We pray for complete deliverance and freedom in Jesus’ name, knowing that where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty (2 Corinthians 3:17). May she experience the peace that surpasses all understanding as she fixes her eyes on You. In the precious name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.

We encourage you to take practical steps to guard your heart and mind. First, cut off all contact with this man if possible, and avoid situations where you might be tempted to dwell on these thoughts. Fill your mind with Scripture—meditate on passages that speak of God’s love, His design for marriage, and the freedom found in Christ. Consider sharing this struggle with a trusted, godly mentor or counselor who can pray with you and hold you accountable. Remember, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13).

You are not defined by these thoughts, but by the One who loves you and gave Himself for you. Jesus is not distant or uncaring; He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Keep pressing into Him, and do not grow weary in doing what is right. His grace is sufficient for you, and His power is made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). You can walk in freedom, but it requires a daily surrender to His will and a refusal to entertain anything that dishonors Him. You are not alone in this fight, and we stand with you, believing that God will bring complete victory in His perfect timing.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, and we understand the pain and confusion you're feeling. It's like you're trapped in a cycle, and it's exhausting. But remember, Jesus sees you, and He cares deeply about your struggle.

You're right to question why these thoughts still linger, even after months of prayer. It's important to know that God isn't ignoring you or punishing you. Instead, think of it as this: He's inviting you to a deeper level of surrender and trust. He wants you to understand that true freedom comes from choosing to obey Him, even when the old patterns of thought want to pull you back.

We need to claim the promise in Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." It's not about our own strength or willpower, but about Jesus empowering us to make the right choices.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Jesus, we come to You today, feeling overwhelmed and tired. We ask for Your forgiveness for the times we've entertained these thoughts, and we renounce their power over us. Fill us with Your Holy Spirit, Lord. Help us to take every thought captive and make it obedient to You. Give us the strength to flee from temptation and to choose what is pure and holy. Surround us with godly friends who can support and encourage us. Heal the wounds in our hearts that make us vulnerable to these thoughts. We trust in Your love and Your power to set us free. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Let's also take practical steps to guard our hearts and minds. Cut off any contact with the person you've mentioned, if possible. Fill your mind with Scripture, especially passages that remind you of God's love and His plan for marriage. Share your struggle with a trusted mentor or counselor who can pray with you and hold you accountable.

You're not alone in this fight, and we're here for you. Keep trusting in Jesus, and keep taking those small steps towards freedom. He sees you, He loves you, and He's fighting for you.

 

[Anonymous]

We hear the deep anguish in your heart, and we want you to know that you are not alone in this struggle. The torment you describe is real, and the battle for purity of mind and heart is one that many believers face. First, we must address the root of these thoughts with clarity and truth from Scripture.

The attraction you feel toward this married man is not aligned with God’s design for relationships. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, and any emotional or physical entanglement outside of that covenant is sin (Hebrews 13:4). The Bible is clear: "But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart" (Matthew 5:28). These thoughts, though painful, must be recognized for what they are—temptations that do not honor God. The fact that they persist does not mean Jesus has abandoned you; rather, it may be an invitation to examine your heart and surrender these desires fully to Him.

You ask why Jesus has not erased these thoughts, and the answer may lie in the way we engage in spiritual warfare. Deliverance is not always instantaneous, especially when we are dealing with deeply rooted patterns of thought or emotion. The apostle Paul wrote, "For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ" (2 Corinthians 10:4-5). This battle requires active participation on your part—renewing your mind with Scripture, fleeing from temptation, and replacing these thoughts with what is pure and holy.

We must also ask: Are there areas in your life where you have not fully surrendered to God’s will? Have you confessed these thoughts as sin and repented, or have you allowed them to linger in a place of secrecy or even subtle indulgence? The psalmist cries out, "Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way" (Psalm 139:23-24). True repentance involves turning away from sin and toward God with a heart that desires obedience.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our sister who is tormented by thoughts that do not honor You. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for any way she has entertained or clung to these desires, knowingly or unknowingly. We declare that these thoughts are not from You, and we renounce their power in the mighty name of Jesus. Father, we ask for a fresh outpouring of Your Holy Spirit to fill her mind and heart with Your truth. Replace every impure thought with the beauty of Your Word and the purity of Your presence. Give her the strength to take every thought captive and to flee from temptation. Surround her with godly accountability and wise counsel, Lord. Heal any wounds or voids in her heart that may have made her vulnerable to these thoughts. We pray for complete deliverance and freedom in Jesus’ name, knowing that where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty (2 Corinthians 3:17). May she experience the peace that surpasses all understanding as she fixes her eyes on You. In the precious name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.

We encourage you to take practical steps to guard your heart and mind. First, cut off all contact with this man if possible, and avoid situations where you might be tempted to dwell on these thoughts. Fill your mind with Scripture—meditate on passages that speak of God’s love, His design for marriage, and the freedom found in Christ. Consider sharing this struggle with a trusted, godly mentor or counselor who can pray with you and hold you accountable. Remember, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13).

You are not defined by these thoughts, but by the One who loves you and gave Himself for you. Jesus is not distant or uncaring; He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Keep pressing into Him, and do not grow weary in doing what is right. His grace is sufficient for you, and His power is made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). You can walk in freedom, but it requires a daily surrender to His will and a refusal to entertain anything that dishonors Him. You are not alone in this fight, and we stand with you, believing that God will bring complete victory in His perfect timing.

Thank you! I’ve done all these things but still nothing

 

[flora]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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