I Am Done Over Functioning—Let Them Part 3

Let Them, Part 3 // Become // Pastor Mike McClure, Jr.

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Pastor Mike McClure, Jr., shared these words in the first 5 minutes of this message “Let Them” Part Three

If milk, food, and your battery can have an expiration date, so can people in your life (their assignment). And we have to stop living in this place where people walk around assuming that their spot in your life is forever. You cannot act any way, treat me any kind of way, don't come through for me, don't help me become who God called me to be, and assume because God is in me, you get to stay next to me. In this season of my life, I am at a place where I am done over functioning, allowing people to get the best of me while giving me the least of them.

Your emergency is not my urgency. If you haven't been walking in what God has called you to be, this will be the season of your life where the weight gets lifted. Not because you got an attitude, not because you being selfish, but because you finally woke up and realized not just who you are, but who you are to be to who you have in your life."_

My notes from the book Let Them by Mel Robbins and my personal notes I felt God speaking to my heart.

Let Them…Think what they want to think about you… (You can’t control someone’s thoughts). Let them show you who they really are.

Let Me…Stop wasting my time on things I can’t not control…trying help or rescue people who don’t appreciate it or want to be rescued...Stop helping people and trying to rescue people God never told me to. I am done over functioning

Let Me…Learn how to care about people without taking on all their problems.

Let Me... Let Go And Let God Deal With Them…

Let Me….Give them a gift, the present of my absence….

Let Me…Keep My Focus on God…Protect My Peace…Guard my heart…

Let Me…Study to be quiet, mind my own business, work with my own hands to achieve my God given dreams and goals for the glory of God...

Let Me… Obey God And Stay In My Own Lane...

Let Them, Part 3 // Become // Pastor Mike McClure, Jr.

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Linda is an Ordained Minister and a Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. She received the highest level of credentialing from the American Association of Christian Counselors-Board of Certified Life Coaches (BCLC). She has certifications in Hope Coaching and Christ Centered Biblical Spiritual Formation Coaching from the American Association for Christian Counselors. Her credentials also consist of a Master of Arts from Liberty Baptist Theological Seminary and Graduate School in Christian Ministry with a focus on Pastoral Counseling. She has a Bachelor of Science with dual majors: Christian Leadership and Biblical Studies from the College of Biblical Studies. Liberty Baptist Theological Seminary and the College of Biblical Studies are both regionally accredited institutions.

Linda specializes in Christian Life Coaching which includes: Christian Leadership, Christ-Centered Spiritual Formation, Hope, and Prophetic Coaching. Linda is a lifelong learner. She is always seeking to grow and excel in her relationship with God, as a Professional Christian Life Coach, Encourager, and Educator for Christ. She is also a National keynote and motivational speaker for workshops, seminars, and conferences. God uses Linda to minister in the gifts of teaching, inner healing, encouragement, writing, and ministering in song. She has written published articles for Inspired Women’s Magazine online.

As an orator for God, Linda proclaims the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Her teaching and life coaching style is encouraging, upfront, straightforward, and life changing. She teaches the importance of knowing God intimately for yourself, walking in obedience to the Word and will of God for your life, and living a Christian lifestyle informed and shaped by the gospel; so that you will grow spiritually, live a victorious life in Christ, and accomplish your God given purpose. Linda believes that Christianity is not just something you talk about on Sunday. It is a day to day fellowship with the Lord that causes a Christian to have an ever growing intimate relationship with God so that they can live a victorious life.

Linda’s focus is on Christian Life Coaching and ministering to the youth of this world. Her desire is to encourage and equip those she coach and or minister to with the confidence and the tools that are needed to fulfill their destiny in Christ Jesus. Using the Word of God, she lets them know they can do all things through Christ who will give them the strength to succeed. That one person can make a difference in this world if they will have faith in God, believe in themselves, pray, live a lifestyle shape by the Gospel, work toward achieving and never give up on their God given goals and dreams. She believes in providing positive leadership and guidance through love, acceptance, support, and discipline.

Linda believes that young people should have the freedom to express themselves knowing that there is JOY and liberty in serving the Lord. But all the while teaching them about the boundaries that God has set up for their protection. She enjoys teaching youth to give God glory in ministering in the performing arts for the advancement of the Kingdom Of God.

It’s Linda desire, by God’s grace, to play her part in reaching the world with the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Linda believes in the Apostolic Doctrine. She believes in all the gifts of the Holy Spirit that we see exercised in the Scriptures have not ceased with the death of the last Apostle or the closing of the New Testament canon. They are available today and are to be eagerly desired and practiced in submission to the Holy Spirit speaking through the Scriptures (Romans 12:3-8, 1 Corinthians 12:4-11; 2 Corinthians 12:12; Ephesians 2:20; 4:7-12).

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