Hypocrisy and Loneliness.

[Smuelxira]

Dear Lord Jesus. My parents don’t like me talking about puppets at church with my fellow Churchgoers because in the past, I talk about something and I repeat and obsessed about it because of my ADHD autistic behavior. But I am being on top of the situation of not being redundant and just calling and asking for help and prayers to get my puppet production going. I never mean to deliberately disobey them, but I am sick and tired of them being hypocritical towards me. I’m over the age of 30 and I should be out on my own living on my own. But I lost my job and was forced to move in with my parents. I’ve had enough. That is why I asked for prayers with fellow churchgoers to get my puppet production going, but I don’t talk too much about it and try to keep it more on the down low. While they did like a few schizo mind that I sent to friends other times, they are embarrassed, and they don’t think I will ever be able to send my ideas to streaming services. They want me to be a zookeeper despite so many past and fatal experiences of discrimination being out in the sun for too long having sensitive skin and sense of senses of autism and then humiliated to do manual labor and not allowed to do the things that I love doing like entertaining people, and trying to stay in the shade being out in the sun is fatal for anybody. But then they watch videos on YouTube go to someone else’s presentation and enjoy it while they don’t always appreciate mine or let me talk about it towards other people. They also don’t let me grow my hair out down to my shoulders, even though they see other people and get along with other people who have their hair in ponytails past their shoulder and I’m talking about gentlemen. They’ve also friends with people who have piercings tattoos on heavyset and have health issues that they put upon themselves or people smoke or do bad things or get drunk dressed poorly like bad adult humor that uses your name in vain. What I wanna do is I wanna become a puppeteer and go join a streaming service and help spread wholesome Christian entertainment and help autistics get the brake deserve. I’d like to grow my hair out. Live independently. Be happier if anything of a zookeeper it’d be a part-time zookeeper while still working on my puppets to compromise and probably won’t be like that forever because I want to gradually shift and I could make a living from puppets and streaming service or something like that, but I need your help to get their Lord and I’d like my mom to continue her sewing to help me get there and we also found a puppet maker friend. It’s because I told them about the puppets despite when my parents told me not to say. Please get my puppet production going and stop living this hypocritical life allow me to grow my hair out down to my neck as I desire able to one day get my youthful hair back, thicken it and reverse my hairline. It really hurts that they can accept other people with long hair and their professions they like to present or watch videos that people made that they find funny or that I don’t find funny and then have to share it with me, but I can’t even get any glance of my artwork. I try to use and wholesome good Christian media. In Jesus Name Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart, and we stand with you before the Lord, lifting up your pain, frustration, and dreams. First, we want to affirm that your desire to create wholesome Christian entertainment and bring joy to others—especially those who may feel overlooked, like individuals with autism—is a beautiful calling. The Lord sees your gifts and your heart to serve Him through your creativity. "For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them" (Ephesians 2:10 WEB). You are not alone in this vision, and we believe God has a purpose for your puppet ministry.

We also want to address the hurt and loneliness you’re experiencing. It’s clear that the hypocrisy you’ve described has wounded you deeply. Your parents’ double standards—accepting certain behaviors or appearances in others while restricting you—are not only unfair but also contrary to the love and grace God calls us to extend. Jesus Himself spoke against hypocrisy, saying, "Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitened tombs, which outwardly appear beautiful, but inwardly are full of dead men’s bones and of all uncleanness" (Matthew 23:27 WEB). Their actions may stem from fear, control, or even their own insecurities, but that does not excuse the pain it has caused you. You are right to feel frustrated, and we want to rebuke the spirit of hypocrisy that has taken root in this situation. We declare that God’s truth will prevail, and that your parents’ hearts will be softened to see you as He sees you—a beloved child with unique gifts and a purpose.

We also want to gently address the way you’ve described some of the behaviors you’ve observed in others that your parents accept. While it’s understandable to feel anger at the double standards, we must be careful not to judge others or compare ourselves to them. Jesus warns us, "Don’t judge, so that you won’t be judged. For with whatever judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with whatever measure you measure, it will be measured to you" (Matthew 7:1-2 WEB). Instead, we encourage you to focus on your own walk with Christ and the calling He has placed on your life. Your worth is not defined by how others treat you or what they allow, but by how God sees you. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14 WEB), and your gifts are meant to glorify Him.

Your struggle with ADHD and autism is real, and we want to acknowledge the unique challenges you face. The Lord sees your efforts to manage your tendencies and your desire to honor your parents even when it’s difficult. We pray that God will give you wisdom and self-control as you navigate these challenges. "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law" (Galatians 5:22-23 WEB). We also rebuke any spirit of discouragement or self-doubt that may be whispering lies to you. You are capable, and God has equipped you for the work He has called you to do.

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother, lifting up his heart and his dreams to You. Lord, You see the pain he has endured, the hypocrisy he has faced, and the loneliness that has weighed on him. We ask that You would heal his heart and fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord, we declare that he is not defined by the limitations others have placed on him, but by Your love and purpose for his life. We ask that You would soften the hearts of his parents, that they would see him through Your eyes and release the control they have tried to exert over his life. Give them wisdom, Lord, and help them to trust You with his future.

Father, we pray for his puppet ministry. You have placed a vision in his heart to create wholesome entertainment that glorifies You and brings joy to others. We ask that You would open doors for him, Lord. Provide the resources, connections, and opportunities he needs to bring this vision to life. We declare that his gifts will not be hidden or silenced, but that they will shine brightly for Your glory. Raise up people who will support him, encourage him, and partner with him in this work. We pray for the puppet maker friend he mentioned—bless that relationship and use it to further Your kingdom.

Lord, we also pray for his independence. You have promised to provide for Your children, and we ask that You would make a way for him to live on his own, free from the constraints and hypocrisy he has faced. Give him favor in finding a job that aligns with his gifts and allows him to pursue his calling. If it is Your will, Lord, we ask that You would even open doors for him to work part-time in a way that doesn’t harm his health, so that he can continue to pursue his passion for puppetry.

Father, we ask that You would restore his hair and reverse the effects of stress and genetics that have caused him concern. We know that You care about even the smallest details of our lives, and we trust You to work in this area as well. Help him to see himself as You see him—beloved, valued, and full of potential.

Finally, Lord, we pray for his emotional and spiritual well-being. Surround him with a community of believers who will love him, encourage him, and stand with him. Help him to find his identity in You, not in the opinions of others. Fill him with Your joy and peace, and let him know that he is never alone. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to You. Amen.

We want to encourage you to hold fast to your faith and your dreams. The enemy may try to discourage you, but remember that God is greater than any obstacle. "What then shall we say about these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31 WEB). Keep pressing forward, even when it feels like no one understands. Seek out a community of believers who will support you and pray with you. You are not alone in this journey.

We also encourage you to continue seeking God’s wisdom in how you communicate with your parents. While it’s important to honor them, it’s also important to set boundaries that protect your heart and your calling. Pray for them, even when it’s hard, and trust that God is working in their hearts as well. "Bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you" (Luke 6:28 WEB).

Lastly, we want to remind you that your worth is not tied to your productivity or the approval of others. You are a child of God, and He loves you unconditionally. Rest in His love, and let it be the foundation of your identity. "The Lord your God is in the middle of you, a mighty one who will save. He will rejoice over you with joy. He will calm you in his love. He will rejoice over you with singing" (Zephaniah 3:17 WEB). You are deeply loved, and we are praying for you.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend,

We hear your heart's cry and we're here for you. We understand your frustration with your parents' hypocrisy and the loneliness you feel. It's not fair that they accept certain behaviors in others while restricting you, but remember, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud" (1 Corinthians 13:4). We pray that God will soften their hearts and help them see you through His eyes.

We also understand your passion for puppetry and your desire to use it to bring joy and wholesome entertainment to others. God has given you a unique gift, and we believe He wants you to use it for His glory. We pray that God will open doors for you, provide the resources you need, and raise up people to support and encourage you.

We know that living with ADHD and autism can be challenging, but remember, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13). We pray that God will give you the wisdom and self-control you need to manage your tendencies and honor your parents, even when it's difficult.

Lastly, we want to remind you that you are a beloved child of God. Your worth is not defined by your parents' approval or your productivity, but by the fact that God loves you unconditionally. Rest in His love, and let it be the foundation of your identity.

We're praying for you, and we're here if you need to talk. You are not alone.

In Jesus' name, Amen.

 

[bobr69]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.