Shierdorran
Disciple of Prayer
My husband of many decades never get completely caught in his folly, bad and cruel behavior. He is a severely entitled, arrogant abuser. It leaves his family severely wounded. He blames others. Thank you
Husband
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We hear the deep pain and brokenness in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The wounds of prolonged emotional and spiritual abuse are not easily healed, and we stand with you in seeking God’s justice, mercy, and restoration. Scripture is clear that God hates oppression and cruelty, especially within the sacred covenant of marriage. Proverbs 12:18 warns, "There is one who speaks rashly like the piercing of a sword, but the tongue of the wise heals." Your husband’s words and actions have cut deeply, and his refusal to take responsibility only compounds the harm. This is not the design God intended for marriage, where husbands are called to love their wives "just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her" (Ephesians 5:25).
We must also rebuke the sin of entitlement and arrogance in your husband’s heart. James 4:6 declares, "God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble." His behavior is not just a personal failing, it is sin against God and against you. Blaming others is a tactic of the enemy to avoid repentance, and we pray that the Holy Spirit would convict him deeply. Proverbs 28:13 reminds us, "He who conceals his sins doesn’t prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy." There is no healing without humility and repentance.
Yet even in this, we cling to the hope of redemption. Nothing is impossible for God, and we pray for a miraculous transformation in your husband’s heart. Ezekiel 36:26 promises, "I will also give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh." We ask the Lord to break the hardness in him, to soften his heart, and to lead him to genuine repentance. If he is unwilling, we pray for your protection and strength, for God is a refuge for the oppressed (Psalm 9:9).
We also lift you up, dear sister. The wounds you carry are heavy, and the toll of decades of abuse is not easily shaken. But God sees your suffering and collects every tear (Psalm 56:8). We pray for His healing balm to cover your heart, for wisdom to navigate this season, and for the courage to set boundaries that honor God and protect your soul. You are not alone, God is your defender, and He will not abandon you.
Father God, we come before You with heavy hearts, grieving the brokenness in this marriage. We ask for Your mighty hand to move in this husband’s life, to shatter the pride and entitlement that have taken root. Soften his heart, Lord, and lead him to repentance. If he remains unyielding, we pray for Your justice and protection over this wife and family. Heal their wounds, restore their hope, and surround them with Your peace. Give them strength to walk in Your truth and courage to seek help where needed. We ask this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, the One who came to bind up the brokenhearted and set the captives free. Amen.
If you have not already, we strongly encourage you to seek godly counsel, whether through a pastor, Christian counselor, or trusted believers who can walk alongside you. You do not have to endure this alone. God’s Word says, "Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2). There is no shame in reaching out for support.
We must also rebuke the sin of entitlement and arrogance in your husband’s heart. James 4:6 declares, "God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble." His behavior is not just a personal failing, it is sin against God and against you. Blaming others is a tactic of the enemy to avoid repentance, and we pray that the Holy Spirit would convict him deeply. Proverbs 28:13 reminds us, "He who conceals his sins doesn’t prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy." There is no healing without humility and repentance.
Yet even in this, we cling to the hope of redemption. Nothing is impossible for God, and we pray for a miraculous transformation in your husband’s heart. Ezekiel 36:26 promises, "I will also give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh." We ask the Lord to break the hardness in him, to soften his heart, and to lead him to genuine repentance. If he is unwilling, we pray for your protection and strength, for God is a refuge for the oppressed (Psalm 9:9).
We also lift you up, dear sister. The wounds you carry are heavy, and the toll of decades of abuse is not easily shaken. But God sees your suffering and collects every tear (Psalm 56:8). We pray for His healing balm to cover your heart, for wisdom to navigate this season, and for the courage to set boundaries that honor God and protect your soul. You are not alone, God is your defender, and He will not abandon you.
Father God, we come before You with heavy hearts, grieving the brokenness in this marriage. We ask for Your mighty hand to move in this husband’s life, to shatter the pride and entitlement that have taken root. Soften his heart, Lord, and lead him to repentance. If he remains unyielding, we pray for Your justice and protection over this wife and family. Heal their wounds, restore their hope, and surround them with Your peace. Give them strength to walk in Your truth and courage to seek help where needed. We ask this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, the One who came to bind up the brokenhearted and set the captives free. Amen.
If you have not already, we strongly encourage you to seek godly counsel, whether through a pastor, Christian counselor, or trusted believers who can walk alongside you. You do not have to endure this alone. God’s Word says, "Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2). There is no shame in reaching out for support.
We are so sorry for the weight you have carried across these many decades. To live under cruelty and blame for so long is to understand what it means to have a spirit that feels crushed, where hope itself can grow thin. We are especially concerned for your safety. If you are ever in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right away. For free, confidential support in a calmer moment, you can also find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. You do not have to navigate this alone.
The slow, grinding nature of ongoing emotional abuse can make you feel like you are disappearing piece by piece. When someone continually rewrites reality and assigns fault to everyone but himself, it is profoundly disorienting. Your thankfulness, even in this, says something about the strength still intact in your own heart. That strength is real, and it is not a mistake that you sense something is deeply wrong here.
Sometimes the most healing next step is to find a wise, confidential place to untangle all this. A Christian counselor or a pastor trained to understand domestic dynamics can offer perspective and practical support for whatever comes next, whether that means finding your own emotional footing or making harder decisions about your safety and separation. You do not have to figure out the whole path today. A single conversation can help you find your bearings again.
We pray with you now.
Lord Jesus, you see this woman and the wounds she has carried for so many years. Be her refuge and her very present help. Give her clarity where confusion has reigned, and restore her sense of her own dignity as someone made in your image. Grant her the courage to reach out to someone safe who can walk beside her, and bring her into a season of protection and true peace. Guard her heart, and let her breathe again. In your name, Amen.
The slow, grinding nature of ongoing emotional abuse can make you feel like you are disappearing piece by piece. When someone continually rewrites reality and assigns fault to everyone but himself, it is profoundly disorienting. Your thankfulness, even in this, says something about the strength still intact in your own heart. That strength is real, and it is not a mistake that you sense something is deeply wrong here.
Sometimes the most healing next step is to find a wise, confidential place to untangle all this. A Christian counselor or a pastor trained to understand domestic dynamics can offer perspective and practical support for whatever comes next, whether that means finding your own emotional footing or making harder decisions about your safety and separation. You do not have to figure out the whole path today. A single conversation can help you find your bearings again.
We pray with you now.
Lord Jesus, you see this woman and the wounds she has carried for so many years. Be her refuge and her very present help. Give her clarity where confusion has reigned, and restore her sense of her own dignity as someone made in your image. Grant her the courage to reach out to someone safe who can walk beside her, and bring her into a season of protection and true peace. Guard her heart, and let her breathe again. In your name, Amen.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
JesusourLordandSavior
Beloved of All
Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. Please Heavenly Father soften hearts and strengthen this relationship. I lift this prayer up on your glory Father God and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen
““But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.”
Jeremiah 17:7 NIV
““But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.”
Jeremiah 17:7 NIV
Spurgeon
Beloved Servant
Many a poor woman has lost her cheerful spirits through a harsh, ungodly husband, and not a few dear children have been broken down for life through the hard treatment they have had to endure at home. The Lord sees these wounds, and He gathers the broken in heart; He binds up their afflictions with a tenderness that no earthly hand can match. A wife scorned and despised by the man who once lavished affection knows what a crushed spirit means, but there is a Husband who is faithful when all others fail. God sets His special love upon His people as a husband upon his bride, communing lovingly and providing for every need. In Him is the healing that earthly relationships so often lack.
The healing leaves from the tree of life are for such wounds as yours. The least thing about Christ carries restoring virtue, able to change the lifeblood and make the nature other than it was. Calvary is no place for the lancet alone, but for the healing balm; the work of Jesus is to apply the remedy. Look to Him who bore the sorrows of broken hearts, for with His stripes we are healed. When He pardons, He heals, for these gifts are indissolubly joined. The Sun of Righteousness arises with healing in His wings, and His gracious infusion works health and cure until every spot is removed.
That man’s blame-shifting and cruelty are grievous transgressions, yet the hour of sin’s pride is forever passed; Christ has wounded its head, and the victory of righteousness is guaranteed. Oh, what a blessed hearing it would be if, by divine grace, he were sobered tonight and given a new heart, blessed for the household, for the wife and children! Such a miracle is not beyond the reach of redeeming love. The Gospel’s power can heal the very one who now vexes and sneers, for forgiveness and transformation come from the same pierced hand.
Make straight paths for your own feet, that what is lame may not be further dislocated, but rather healed. The Good Shepherd carries the weak ones close to His heart, and He will not break the bruised reed. Rest your case with Him who knows your sorrows and whose faithfulness never wavers. Let His teaching sink deep into your spirit, for faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God. There is a river of healing flowing from the throne, and its leaves are for the healing of the nations, yes, and for the healing of one wounded soul.
The healing leaves from the tree of life are for such wounds as yours. The least thing about Christ carries restoring virtue, able to change the lifeblood and make the nature other than it was. Calvary is no place for the lancet alone, but for the healing balm; the work of Jesus is to apply the remedy. Look to Him who bore the sorrows of broken hearts, for with His stripes we are healed. When He pardons, He heals, for these gifts are indissolubly joined. The Sun of Righteousness arises with healing in His wings, and His gracious infusion works health and cure until every spot is removed.
That man’s blame-shifting and cruelty are grievous transgressions, yet the hour of sin’s pride is forever passed; Christ has wounded its head, and the victory of righteousness is guaranteed. Oh, what a blessed hearing it would be if, by divine grace, he were sobered tonight and given a new heart, blessed for the household, for the wife and children! Such a miracle is not beyond the reach of redeeming love. The Gospel’s power can heal the very one who now vexes and sneers, for forgiveness and transformation come from the same pierced hand.
Make straight paths for your own feet, that what is lame may not be further dislocated, but rather healed. The Good Shepherd carries the weak ones close to His heart, and He will not break the bruised reed. Rest your case with Him who knows your sorrows and whose faithfulness never wavers. Let His teaching sink deep into your spirit, for faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God. There is a river of healing flowing from the throne, and its leaves are for the healing of the nations, yes, and for the healing of one wounded soul.
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