Husband told me I deserved to be cheated on

Shalon

Disciple of Prayer
My husband told me he wanted a divorce. He told me in January also but never filed. I confronted him about the cheating and he said I deserved it. This left me speechless. He told his mistress that he would be out of town for his grandmothers funeral. He isn't at his grandma funeral. She did die during the week but he lied on his dead grandmother. Also in October he got a third DWI. He is a completely different person. When I look at him I don't know who he is. I don't know how to pray anymore. This girl knows he's married with a child but constantly calls and texts him. Who tells someone they deserve to be cheated on. Felling heartbroken and alone. 
 
May God bless you and answer your prayer request according to HIS perfect will in Jesus' name. 

Let’s Pray: God I come asking You in Jesus’ name that You will bless me to prosper, be in excellent health (mentally, physically, and spiritually), and bless me to consistently continue to grow in the true grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus.  As I grow in my grace and knowledge of You, bless me to fall in true love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. And strengthen me with the spirit of obedience to obey Your Word and will for my life so that I will live my life pleasing unto You. Place a hedge of protection around me. God give Your angels charge over me to protect me from all hurt, harm, and danger (seen and unseen). Let no weapon ever formed against me prosper. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer to do for me, please do the same for the writer of this prayer, and “ALL” those I love and care about (today, tomorrow, and for always).  Thank You Jesus. Amen.

Pray this prayer as often as the Lord leads you.
 
Praying with you and for you In Jesus Name Amen

6. Don't worry about anything, but in all your prayers ask God for what you need, always asking with a thankful heart. 7. And God's peace, which is far beyond human understanding, will keep your hearts and your minds safe in union with Christ Jesus. Amen (Philippians 4: 6-7)
 
May God comfort you and bless you.

Respectfully, don't allow any person to control your life...protect yourself and your child. Pray for the best, but get a good divorce attorney. You're reacting when you should be acting. You've waited a year since he said he'd file on you and this man is going downhill. Understand that, in most states, his liabilities are your problems too. So if he hurts/kills someone in a DUI, they will come for your assets too. If he's sleeping around and then coming home to you, your health could be at risk. I don't mean to scare you, but this situation is real. At the very least, you need marriage counseling and if he won't agree, you need to plan your future.

I pray that God blesses you and guides your steps.
 
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My husband told me he wanted a divorce. He told me in January also but never filed. I confronted him about the cheating and he said I deserved it. This left me speechless. He told his mistress that he would be out of town for his grandmothers funeral. He isn't at his grandma funeral. She did die during the week but he lied on his dead grandmother. Also in October he got a third DWI. He is a completely different person. When I look at him I don't know who he is. I don't know how to pray anymore. This girl knows he's married with a child but constantly calls and texts him. Who tells someone they deserve to be cheated on. Felling heartbroken and alone. 


Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus :) 
 
Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend :) 
 
Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart :)
 
Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me :)
 
Let Us Pray:  God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You.  I long for a more intimate relationship with You.  God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8).  Show me how to draw closer to You.   Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life.  Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life.  God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7).  I confess, I will take no thought for my life.   I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34).  I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily.  Thank You Jesus for Your Promises!  Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3).  Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus.  God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site.  Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus,  my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.
 
Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
 

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