Hurting

[Hungry4love357]

A girl I really liked and thought I had hit it off with is no longer speaking to me, and won't tell me why. I thought I could at least become friends with her, but it just was not meant to be. I don't get it. Girls never sit next to me in class, in church they always want to be with the cool guys. I feel like I don't fit in with anyone. I don't think I can find true love. I don't want to try anymore because I know it's impossible. No girl will ever want to be my bride. I just feel like I'm a misfit, like I'm just too socially awkward to get close to anyone. I give up. I don't know what to do. I guess some people just don't get a happy ending.

 

[JesusIsMyOnlyHope]

Trust in the unfailing love of the Lord, and in His promises.

Give Him this day and everything that it holds.

Walk in His goodness, knowing that His gentle hand will guide you and keep you.

I pray that the Lord hears your prayer requests and answers them according to His will.

In the Name of Jesus Christ I pray. Amen

 

[GOD SAVE ME]

God hear his prayer. show him your way Amen

 

[Keety]

I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord's holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. -Ephesians 3:16-19

May the Lord bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you.

In Jesus name, amen.

 

[amitp24]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[HopeSearcher]

Please don't give up hope!!! I'm kind of like a girl version of you. I've often felt awkward and like a misfit. It really does work both ways. Only God knows why we experience this kind of pain with relationships. As much as I've been extremely burnt before, I still strongly believe that if God has placed the desire for marriage in one's heart, eventually He will fulfill it! When that time comes, His version of a happy ending is much greater than anything we can come up with! Nothing is impossible for God!

I pray that God, in His perfect timing, would bring the right girl into your life that can love and appreciate the wonderful way that He has created you. I pray that in the meantime, God would surround you with people who can encourage and accept you as you are, even if they are just friendships. May God open your eyes to see how much He cares for you and your dreams!

I'd really appreciate your prayers for me in the area of relationships as well. Marriage has always been a major dream of mine, but no relationships have worked out for me yet. I really need God's help too.

 

[Isabelle11]

Praying for your request

I was going to write many sentences but thank you ### who wrote it all better!

Don't give up ### and especially learn to love and appreciate yourself just as you are, learn to think positively about yourself in every way (use positive cheering words), learn to give your friendship without always expecting and thinking too much, and the right persons (including the right person) will come to you...

 

[cinthiya]

May Lord hear your prayers..

 

[Rick1]

I am praying for you and with you. May the Lord's blessings be upon you as you seek His Will in your life.

 

[Hungry4love357]

Please don't give up hope!!! I'm kind of like a girl version of you. I've often felt awkward and like a misfit. It really does work both ways. Only God knows why we experience this kind of pain with relationships. As much as I've been extremely burnt before, I still strongly believe that if God has placed the desire for marriage in one's heart, eventually He will fulfill it! When that time comes, His version of a happy ending is much greater than anything we can come up with! Nothing is impossible for God!

I pray that God, in His perfect timing, would bring the right girl into your life that can love and appreciate the wonderful way that He has created you. I pray that in the meantime, God would surround you with people who can encourage and accept you as you are, even if they are just friendships. May God open your eyes to see how much He cares for you and your dreams!

I'd really appreciate your prayers for me in the area of relationships as well. Marriage has always been a major dream of mine, but no relationships have worked out for me yet. I really need God's help too.

I truly hope you are right. I just don't understand why I feel the desire for a helpmate, and yet I feel like everyone is telling me that God wants me to be single for life and I should just accept it. It is encouraging to hear that there is someone who has kinda been where I am and can relate to me in that regard. I do sincerely hope God brings your a husband that loves you for you. I don't think I'm cut out to be a husband though. I'm just too, I don't know, I have a lot of self-esteem issues, and I just don't think anyone would even put up with me. I'm just too weird.

Praying for your request

I was going to write many sentences but thank you HopeSearcher who wrote it all better!

Don't give up Hungry4love357 and especially learn to love and appreciate yourself just as you are, learn to think positively about yourself in every way (use positive cheering words), learn to give your friendship without always expecting and thinking too much, and the right persons (including the right person) will come to you...

If you knew me well enough you would probably understand why I have a hard time accepting myself. I'm just too weird. Like I just do things, and think differently than most people. I'm not normal, like my social skills are so limited, and I have a hard time even interacting with my closest friends and family. I over-analyze everything, and I misread people so badly that I can't tell if they are like me or not. I don't understand people half the time.