Hurting

[christiangnz]

Tonight I saw my wife Charlemae and she tells me to move on with my life, start dating and she does not ever see us together again. She wants me to stop calling, stopping by, etc. I make her 'sick' with sadness and pain and she is happy if I am not around her.

This is killing me. It is breaking my heart more and more each day. I feel as if I was the one who is cheating. I feel discarded and thrown away. I feel so much discouragement and hopeless.

Father, please help me. I want to move on with my life. I want to find someone else who will care about me. I don't understand what I have done to deserve such treatment. This feels like such a punishment and I do not know how to act with her anymore.

-Christian

 

[AMANDA]

i understand what it is that you are going through and what you are feeling. my husband left me a year ago and i have been trying to work our marriage out ever since but he does the same to me and says the same to me as your wife says to you. i feel as if i have nothing anymore and i just cant seem to move on with my life because i dont know a life without him. i have decided that there isnt anything i can do anymore. i have done all that i can to try to fix our marriage so it all comes down to giving him what he wants as always and thats a divorce. it is tearing me apart and i feel like...i really dont know what i feel like cause all i feel is this horrible pain that i have been feeling since the day he walked out of my life. i just think that god doesnt want this for me. he doesnt want me to feel this pain any longer. i am so scared but i dont know what else there is to do. so all i can say is try to focus your mind on something. god will help you. he will guide you in the right direction. be patient and kind and he will help you in you troubled time. i will pray for you. i pray to you lord that you help this man find peace and happiness and to overcome the pain he is feeling with his marriage. let him have the wisdom and understanding to give him the strength to get through what he is going through. amen

 

[Liz1]

Lprd inspire christianz nw to deal with this marriage breakup Amem

 

[HOPE]

I am praying for you and your wife for guidance from the Lord about His will for your lives....

 

[TimMcGrath]

Love is the greatest power in the world, and nothing hurts more than loosing that someone. I am going through a similar event. Just remember your first love...His love, let him be your shelter, let him fill the void...its so much easier said than done I know...but let gods peace comfort you. Im in the same situation almost identical. I feel your pain and know your sorrow. It takes time to heal, and time to let go...I dont think true love ever goes away, just the awareness of how its changed. My prayers and pain go with you. YOU ARE NOT ALONE

 

[Dion]

lord i'm in total agreement with this prayer lord pls heal his heart and guide him to what he needs to do........IN JESUS NAME AMEN....... ( I ALSO UNDERSTAND YOUR PAIN AND VERY MUCH FEEL FOR YOU) JUST KEEP YOUR EYE ON GOD AND IN THE END ALL WILL BE BETTER. I REALLY AGREE WITH TIM POST THAT REALLY WHAT ITS ALL ABOUT.

 

[Wordlessverbs]

Hey friend,

The last contact I had with my wife was similer I understand how you feel stand with you in prayer. I know how dificult it is but, on the other hand I have also experienced Gods greatness as well and as real as what your going through might be. I want to tell you friend that God's reality hold much more truth. It is not our truth and although it may hurt now God has a future of hope, joy and fulfillment for you. Many would say let go, well let me just ad to this "let go and let God". Your are not giving up or throwing in the towel you are merely recognizing God as the ultimate authority of your life, marriage your happiness. Don't lose faith in God for your life and joy: remember the joy of the Lord is our strength! The enemy would love nothing more then to take you strength away by robbing your joy.

Lift your head up and know that God is still God and beleive your Word over what people say over what your circumstances say and over what the devil says. He will be faithfull to you and the promises his makes to us in his word!

You are already in my prayers Amen!

 

[Patrick]

Step Back Christian and Let her miss you. Sometimes we have to be out of the equation for awhile so that the Lord can reach them. Do not become discouraged. Pray, pray, pray, Patrick

 

[kjferg86]

God is in control. I duplicate what wordlessverbs says, let go and let God. He is the Higher Power Highest Power! Use this time to get closer to God and grow spiritually. Pray for your wife constantly. God will give you strength but it is found in His Word and I find help by my friends and family here on this prayer line. God is Awesome. I am waiting for God to bring my husband of almost 28 years out of his affair and home. God will do it Trust Him.

 

[Viktorya]

I SO understand what you are going through. I just had that same conversation with my husband, just in reverse. I know the pain that you are feeling.. I know how deeply it hurts to feel so easily replacable.

As it says in the marriage vows "Let no man put asunder"

Lord, I pray that you step in to all of these marriages that Satan is attacking. Amen