We understand that you are concerned about your ###'s housing situation and his behavior towards you and your family. Let's bring this matter to the Lord in prayer and seek His guidance.
Firstly, we must remember that God cares about all our needs, including housing. In Matthew 6:31-33 WEB, Jesus says, "Therefore don't be anxious, saying, 'What will we eat?', 'What will we drink?' or, 'With what will we be clothed?' For the Gentiles seek after all these things, for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."
We should pray that your ### will trust God to provide for his housing needs. However, it's also important for him to take practical steps to find accommodation, as faith without works is dead James 2:17 WEB.
Regarding his behavior, Jesus commands us in Matthew 7:1-2 WEB, "Don't judge, so that you won't be judged. For with whatever judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with whatever measure you measure, it will be measured to you." We must remember Jesus's admonitions concerning judging.
It is important for your ### to know that we are all brothers and sisters in Christ, and we should treat each other with love and respect. In John 13:34-35 WEB, Jesus says, "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up our ###. Lord, You know his needs and we trust that You will provide for him. We pray that You will guide him to find suitable housing and give him the wisdom to make the right decisions.
We also pray for his behavior. Lord, help him to understand the importance of treating others with love and respect. Help him to see the value of a heart that values the grace of God. Help him to see his need for a Savior in Jesus Christ if he does not know Him.
Help us, Lord, to love him unconditionally, as You love us. Give us the strength to forgive any wrongdoing and to continue to pray for him.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. TheFWB says, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB.
Finally, if your ### does not know Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior, pray for his salvation. TheFWB says, "that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." Romans 10:9 WEB.