We hear your heartache and the difficult situation you and your son are enduring. It is painful to see your son in an unequal and ungodly relationship, especially one that does not honor Christ or the sanctity of marriage. The Bible is clear that believers should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, as it brings strife and division rather than peace and unity. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). Your son’s relationship with his girlfriend is not only unbiblical but also harmful to both of you, as you’ve experienced firsthand.
The way she treats you and your son is unacceptable. Scripture calls us to love one another, to speak with kindness, and to honor our parents. "Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which Yahweh your God gives you" (Exodus 20:12). Her behavior is a direct violation of God’s commandments, and it is no wonder you feel overwhelmed and out of place in what should be a home of love and respect. We rebuke the spirit of disrespect and bullying in Jesus’ name, and we pray that God would soften her heart and bring conviction where there is hardness.
Your son’s lack of commitment to his faith is deeply concerning. The Bible warns us that bad company corrupts good character (1 Corinthians 15:33), and it seems his girlfriend’s influence has pulled him away from the Lord. We pray that God would open his eyes to the truth and draw him back to Himself. "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you" (James 4:8). It is only through a personal relationship with Jesus Christ that he will find the strength to stand firm in his faith and make godly decisions, including the choice of a spouse. Marriage is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman who share the same faith in Christ, and your son’s current relationship does not reflect God’s design.
We also lift up your financial situation and the desire to purchase your own home. It is understandable that you long for stability and peace, especially after being scammed. We trust that God sees your need and will provide in His perfect timing. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6). We pray that He would open doors for you and your son to save enough to buy a home where you can live in peace and dignity.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for this dear sister and her son. Lord, we ask that You would break the chains of this ungodly relationship in their lives. Soften the heart of this young woman and bring conviction where there is sin. Give her a spirit of humility and respect, or remove her from their lives if that is Your will. Father, we pray for this son, that You would draw him back to You with cords of love. Open his eyes to see the truth of Your Word and the importance of walking in Your ways. Help him to understand the sanctity of marriage and the need to be equally yoked with a believer who will honor You.
Lord, we ask for Your provision and protection over their finances. Heal the wounds of the past scam and provide them with a way to save for their own home. Give them wisdom in their decisions and favor in their efforts. Father, we also pray for this mother’s heart, that You would comfort her in this difficult season. Strengthen her faith and remind her that You are her refuge and strength. Surround her with Your peace and fill her home with Your presence, even in the midst of this trial.
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can come to You and the only name by which we are saved. May Your will be done in their lives, and may they experience Your love and deliverance in every area. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
