i can only imagine how frustrated you get my sister when these things happen & you wish you could stop them from happening, be unhappy no more because today, i am here to tell you that, there's absolutely nothing impossible with God, he will deliever your husband & even his friends if you ask him to, from this drinking sprees & wishing bad on others, that's how amazing our God is, he's the Alpha & Omega, he's seen it all, and seen people through it all, you one of his, there fore by virtue of being his child, anything you desire with all your heart you can have.. the holy book says 'If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.†(James 1:5-8)... so pray harder, believe & leave the rest to God, i will pray with you as well my sister.... be blessed in Jesus name.