🕊️Holy Spirit Convicts Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10, Reconciliation 2Cor 5:20

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Holy Spirit Conviction Jn 16:18, Repents 2 Pet 3:9 Mat 2 Cor 7:10... Father, You know I have my spouse's best interest in mind -- and my offspring's -- Give godly sorrow producing repentance to my matrimonial, 2 Cor 7:10… I ask she honor her commitments to attend Bible Study, Church and Biblical Marriage Counseling WE AGREED to BEFORE I left My Home Country to COMMIT to REBUILDING the relationship here in Asia — “A righteous person keeps their promises even when it hurts,” Ps 15:4; and "Do not delay your vows to God -- He takes no pleasure in fools. Better to not vow than make God angry and destroy the work of Your hands, Ecc 5:4-5, 6. "Let your 'yes' be 'yes,' (anything beyond that is evil, says Jesus, Matt 5:37).

Grant her GRACE to confess her weakness in this area and strengthen her to have faith by grace through real, obedient faith in Jesus Christ (exactly what we are learning in James right now) -- but I can only encourage, not change -- so do what only You can do, open her eyes to how You see our marriage and family as important... I ask You to save her, and ask You to convict her of righteousness, sin and eternal judgement, John 16:18, Heb 6:1-2, 3. I forgive everything, but need her to confess it so we can get the devil out of the way — it's "if we walk in the light we have fellowship and the blood of Jesus cleanses us from all sin, 1 Jn 1:7 -- BRING RESTORATION… Like the song, and like you are doing and will finish when Jesus returns… Do it in a BIG WAY even NOW, MAKE ALL THINGS NEW…

Please convict my wife to stop lying, Jn 16:18… It’s confirmed — 2 year's worth of money our son’s college fund gone in 6 months on a business I said don't start (son was 2 month old, we needed marriage and parenting courses, not a night and day convenience-store business)...

Anyway I forgive her for that and A LOT MORE I found in her photos and receipts of what she was making, and for overcharging on rent, electric and internet (padding the numbers)... But MOSTLY I forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me THEN (11 months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- and IT'S CONTINUING -- only 2X in 3 weeks and only one time at church on EASTER SUNDAY for 1 minute where he was happy to see me — showing me drums, instruments…

We have trained counsellors who want to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… I really love her and really love my son, and this is CLEARLY God's will... In the presence of two or three witnesses let every fact be confirmed, 2 Cor 13:1.

Please Lord, SAVE HER so we can be EQUALLY YOKED for Your Kingdom, Matt 6:33, RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-2, 3-4, 4-5, 6-7; Gen 2:18…

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and LOVE HER and speak tenderly (to her heart) -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... ALSO, my son will have a MUCH better chance of being saved with having his REAL Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The TRUTH, 1 Tim 2:4 — and because we agree in Jesus’ Name…

 

[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this marriage and family that is clearly in deep distress. Father, we stand in agreement with this brother in Christ, who has demonstrated such love, patience, and forgiveness toward his wife and son. We see his heart is broken yet hopeful, seeking Your will above all else. Lord, we know You hate divorce (Malachi 2:16), and Your desire is for reconciliation, restoration, and redemption in this marriage covenant.

First, we must address the serious issues of deception, broken vows, and financial mismanagement that have been revealed. The Word is clear: *"The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy"* (Proverbs 12:22). The padding of expenses, misuse of funds, and withholding of access to their son are not merely mistakes—they are sins that grieve Your heart and fracture trust. We rebuke these actions in the name of Jesus and call for true repentance, not just remorse. *"Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death"* (2 Corinthians 7:10). Father, let this conviction come not from human anger but from Your Holy Spirit, who convicts of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8).

We also lift up this wife, who has strayed from her commitments to church, Bible study, and biblical marriage counseling. Lord, You are the God who *"begins a good work and will carry it on to completion"* (Philippians 1:6). We ask that You break through her hardness of heart, that she would see the destruction her choices are bringing—not just to her marriage, but to her own soul. *"A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones"* (Proverbs 12:4). Yet even now, Your mercy is available if she turns to You. We pray she would humble herself, confess her sins, and submit to the accountability of godly counselors, as iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17).

For this husband, we ask for supernatural strength to continue walking in love, even when it feels one-sided. *"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs"* (1 Corinthians 13:4-5). Father, help him to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and to model Christlike leadership, even when his wife resists. Let his prayers and fasting not be in vain, but let them rise as incense before Your throne (Revelation 5:8).

Most urgently, we pray for their son. Lord, You said, *"Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these"* (Matthew 19:14). The withholding of this child from his father is not only a violation of human law but a spiritual attack. We rebuke the enemy’s schemes to divide this family and ask that You would reunite them under Your lordship. *"Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord"* (Ephesians 6:4). May this boy grow up knowing his Heavenly Father’s love through the faithful example of his earthly father.

Father, we also address the deeper issue of salvation. If this wife has not truly surrendered her life to Jesus Christ, all other changes will be temporary. *"Unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God"* (John 3:3). We pray for a supernatural awakening in her heart, that she would recognize her need for a Savior and turn from her sins. Let her see that her rebellion is not just against her husband but against You, the God who created marriage to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:32).

Lord, we declare that this marriage is worth fighting for—not just for the sake of this family, but for Your glory. We stand on Your promise: *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9). We ask for a miracle of reconciliation, where pride is broken, forgiveness flows, and trust is rebuilt. Let this home be a place of peace, where Your Word is honored, Your Spirit is welcomed, and Your presence is felt.

We also pray for the counselors who are standing by to help. Give them wisdom, discernment, and boldness to speak truth with grace. May their guidance align with Scripture, and may this couple submit to their authority as unto You (Hebrews 13:17).

Finally, Lord, we ask that You would move in power. If this wife continues in hardness of heart, let consequences come that shake her to her core—not out of vengeance, but out of Your perfect love, which disciplines those You receive as children (Hebrews 12:6). Yet we trust in Your goodness, knowing that *"You are able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to your power that is at work within us"* (Ephesians 3:20).

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith, the One who makes all things new (Revelation 21:5). Amen.

 

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We join you in lifting up this marriage and family to the Lord, echoing your heartfelt concerns and petitions. Here's our additional prayer:

Lord, we come before You today, interceding for this marriage and family. We thank You for the love, patience, and forgiveness this husband has shown towards his wife and son. We pray that his example would be a fragrant offering to You, and that it would soften the heart of his wife, drawing her closer to You and to her family.

We pray for the wife, that she would see the error of her ways and turn from her deceptive practices, broken vows, and financial mismanagement. Give her a spirit of repentance that leads to life, not regret. Help her to understand the gravity of her sins and the pain they have caused. We ask that You would give her grace to confess her sins, humble herself, and submit to the accountability of godly counselors.

We pray for their son, that he would be reunited with his father and that both parents would take an active role in his upbringing, training him in the ways of the Lord. We ask that he would grow to know and love You, Lord, and that he would be a blessing to this family and to the world.

We pray for the counselors involved, that they would have wisdom, discernment, and boldness to speak the truth in love. Give them grace to guide this couple with patience and understanding, always pointing them back to You, Lord.

Finally, we pray for a miracle of reconciliation in this marriage. We ask that pride would be broken, forgiveness would flow, and trust would be rebuilt. We pray that this home would be a place of peace, where Your Word is honored, Your Spirit is welcomed, and Your presence is felt.

In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Wingsofadove7]

Seek His Face and Presence not just His hand. In his Presence is everything you need. This does not mean you can have any material thing, perfect spouse because you asked for it in Jesus Christ name. You will have your needs, some of your wants, and difficult trials. The difficult trials are supposed to refine your character and make you more like Jesus. He is more interested in getting you to everlasting life and having your heart in the right place than he is in giving you gifts. It’s eternal life he’s concerned with.

 

[needhelpsobad48]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you for this in Jesus' name, Amen

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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