🕊️Holy Spirit Conviction Every Day Jn16:18, Matrimonial Spouse Repents 🧎🏽‍♀️2Pet 3:9, Repentance to Life 2Cor 7:10, Reconciliation 2Cor5:20, or???

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Holy Spirit Conviction of righteousness, sin and judgement to come, Jn16:18, Matrimonial Spouse doesn't perish but rather Repents, 2Pet 3:9. Godly Sorrow Produces Repentance unto Life 2Cor 7:10, Reconciliation if possible, 2Cor 5:20, Salvation, 1 Tim 2:3-4...

Father, thank You for working behind the scenes, even Your kindness that leads us to repentance, Rom 2:4, as Jesus says, "My Father is always working even until now, and I, too, am working," Jn 5:17. For the sake of Your Word, Eph 5:32, living, active and piercing, Heb 4:12, Our vows, Ecclesiastes 5:2, and our offspring, Mal 2:15. Grant the free gift of godly sorrow producing a lasting change of heart, mind and behavior described in 2 Cor 7:9-11, from dishonoring Your Name, Ex 20:7, committing adultery, Ex 20:14, stealing, Ex 20:15, the deception occurring during all that and lying to cover it up and once it was found out and it's continuance, Ex 20:16. As far as depends on me I forgive that she did not honor her commitments to attend Bible Study, Church and Biblical Marriage Counseling we agreed to before I left My Home Country Nor her commitment to rebuilding the relationship while there in Asia, but instead deserted me with the young one, causing the dishonoring of a father, Ex 20:12, and lack of biblically ordained respect toward marriage, Eph 5:32-33, and rearing of godly children, Eph 6:1-4.

Again, in mercy, release the CONVICTION of The Holy Spirit's righteousness, sin and judgement to come, John 16:18. I ask, as You will, that she would not PERISH but come to REPENTANCE, 2 Pet 3:9. Give Your angels charge over her, him, me, our pastors and prayer partners (including all those who pray and contribute financially's families) -- Grant salvation, 1 Tim 2:4, Acts 16:31-32, and keep us ALL grace to be set apart from sin as Your holy people, Ex 19:5-6, Lev 19:2, Lev 20:26, Zeph 3:13, Matt 5:48, 2 Cor 7:1, 2 Cor 13:7, Eph 1:4, 1 Thes 4:7, Heb 12:14, 1 Pet 1:16, 1 Jn 3:3, Rev 14:5. Keep us from temptation, evil, evil people and the evil one, Luke 11:4, Matt 6:13, 2 Thes 3:2-3, John 17:15 -- keep deception and lies far from us, Prov 30:8. Let trials draw us closer to You, encourage others, Phil 1:12, 2 Cor 1:6, Eph 6:20, and help incite fervency in our prayer, James 5:13-17, Help us study the Bible, 2 Tim 2:15. Open our minds to understand the Scriptures, Lk 24:45...

Help us rejoice in trials and count them joy, James 1:2-4, expediting worship, fasting, seeking, finding, reading, memorizing and writing words of edification and things that accompany salvation, and not shrink back from the warnings of Scripture, but let the Gospel go forth in times of peace and freedom, 1 Tim 2:1-4, and in the midst of opposition, 1 Thes 2:2. Sanctify us in the Truth, Your Word is Truth, John 17:17. Let us hear Your voice, John 10:27, and always be lead by The Holy Spirit as children of God, Rom 8:14 as we are truly adopted children of God, John 1:14, 1 Jn 3:2-3, Let the Word of The Lord Spread RAPIDLY and BE GLORIFIED as YOU keep us from deception, lies, temptation, sin, evil, evil people and the evil one. Thank You in advance, Mk 11:24, in Jesus' Name.

 

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We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting up this deeply personal and painful situation in marriage. The Scriptures remind us that "the Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18). We stand with you in this trial, recognizing the weight of betrayal, deception, and the breaking of sacred vows before God.

First, we must address the seriousness of the sins committed—adultery, deception, lying, and the dishonoring of marriage covenants. The Word is clear: "Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4). The breaking of these commandments is not merely a personal failing but a grievous offense against a holy God. Yet, we also know that "if we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). The path to restoration must begin with true repentance—a godly sorrow that leads to a turning away from sin (2 Corinthians 7:10).

We pray fervently for your spouse, that the Holy Spirit would bring deep conviction—not only of the sin but of the righteousness of Christ and the judgment to come (John 16:8). The Lord is patient, "not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance" (2 Peter 3:9). We ask that He would soften her heart, break the hardness, and lead her to a place of genuine repentance. May she experience the kindness of God that leads to repentance (Romans 2:4), and may she turn fully to Him in humility and brokenness.

For you, dear brother, we pray for strength, wisdom, and a heart that reflects Christ’s love even in this pain. Forgiveness is not a feeling but a choice—a command from our Lord (Matthew 6:14-15). Yet, reconciliation is not automatic; it requires repentance, restoration of trust, and a commitment to walk in obedience to God’s Word. We encourage you to seek godly counsel, to stand firm in prayer, and to guard your heart from bitterness (Hebrews 12:15). The Lord sees your faithfulness, and He will not abandon you.

We also lift up your child, who has been caught in the midst of this brokenness. May the Lord protect their heart, draw them to Himself, and restore the honor due to a father as commanded in Scripture (Exodus 20:12). May this trial become an opportunity for the Gospel to be displayed in power—for the Word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword (Hebrews 4:12).

Father, we ask that You would move mightily in this situation. Convict, heal, restore, and redeem. If it is Your will, bring reconciliation—not for the sake of convenience or appearances, but for the glory of Your name and the testimony of Your grace. If restoration is not possible, grant wisdom and peace to walk in Your perfect will. Sanctify this brother, his spouse, and their child in Your truth. Protect them from further deception, guard their hearts, and let Your Word spread rapidly in their lives. May they walk in holiness, set apart for Your purposes.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Author and Perfecter of our faith, through whom alone we have access to the Father. May His grace, mercy, and peace be upon you all. Amen.

 

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We join you in lifting this matter to the Lord, dear friend. Our hearts ache with yours as you navigate this challenging path in your marriage. We're reminded of the words in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God."

Firstly, we pray for your spouse. We ask the Holy Spirit to work in their heart, to convict them of their sins, but also to reveal the love and grace of God that is greater than any failure (Ephesians 3:18-19). We pray for a genuine repentance, a turning away from sin and towards God (2 Corinthians 7:10). We ask that God would soften their heart, break the hardness, and lead them to a place of humility and brokenness.

For you, dear friend, we pray for strength and wisdom. We pray that you would be filled with the love of Christ, even in the midst of this pain (2 Corinthians 5:14). We ask that you would be able to forgive, as you have been forgiven (Ephesians 4:32), but also that you would be wise and discerning in the process of reconciliation. We pray that you would guard your heart from bitterness (Hebrews 12:15) and trust in the Lord's faithfulness (Lamentations 3:22).

Lastly, we pray for your child. We ask that the Lord would protect their heart, draw them close to Him, and help them to understand and navigate this difficult situation. We pray that this trial would be an opportunity for the Gospel to be displayed in power in their life (2 Corinthians 4:7-12).

Father, we ask all these things in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We trust in Your goodness and Your plan, even when we cannot see the path clearly. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.