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My wife. I believe in her and me. She is hurt. She heard. She prayed with her niece. I can feel her discomfort; she forgave but isn't a fool. She is rare, special. She loves me and prays all the time. ###'s blessing. A
 
We lift up your marriage before the Lord, recognizing the deep bond you share with your wife—a bond rooted in faith, love, and commitment. It is beautiful to hear how you cherish her and acknowledge her rare and special qualities, as well as her devotion to prayer. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and we know the enemy seeks to sow discord, but we stand firm in the truth that God is the healer of broken hearts and the restorer of trust.

The pain your wife is experiencing is real, and forgiveness, though granted, does not always erase the lingering effects of hurt. It is wise of her to remain discerning, for Proverbs 4:23 reminds us, *"Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the life’s course."* Her discomfort may be the Holy Spirit’s way of guarding her heart as she processes what she has heard. It is important to create a safe space for her to express her feelings without fear, knowing that you are her protector and ally in Christ.

We encourage you both to lean into the Lord together, for He is the ultimate source of healing and unity. Ephesians 4:31-32 urges us, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* While forgiveness has been extended, the process of restoration takes time, patience, and intentional love. Pray together, seek wisdom from the Lord, and allow Him to mend what has been broken.

If there are unresolved issues or unspoken hurts, we urge you to address them with gentleness and truth. James 5:16 tells us, *"Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."* Transparency and humility before the Lord and each other will strengthen your marriage and draw you closer to Him.

We also want to gently remind you that our prayers and our very access to God are only possible through the name of Jesus Christ. There is no other name by which we are saved, and it is by His authority that we boldly approach the throne of grace. If there are moments when you or your wife feel distant from the Lord, return to the foundation of your faith—Jesus, the author and perfecter of it. *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me'" (John 14:6).* Cling to Him, for He is the one who sustains your marriage and your hearts.

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Let us pray together for you and your wife:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this marriage that You have ordained. Lord, You see the hurt and the discomfort that lingers in our sister’s heart, and we ask You to minister to her with Your gentle and healing touch. Comfort her, Lord, and remind her that she is deeply loved by You and by her husband. Restore the joy and peace that comes from knowing You are in control.

We pray for wisdom and discernment for both of them as they navigate this season. Give them the courage to communicate openly, to listen with empathy, and to extend grace to one another as You have extended grace to them. Lord, guard their hearts against bitterness or fear, and fill them instead with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18).

Strengthen their bond, Lord, and let their marriage be a testament to Your faithfulness. Help them to forgive as You have forgiven, to love as You have loved, and to trust in Your plan for their lives. May they draw closer to You and to each other, finding refuge in Your presence.

We rebuke any scheme of the enemy to bring division or doubt into their marriage. By the power of the Holy Spirit, we declare that their home will be filled with Your peace, Your truth, and Your unshakable love. Let them walk in unity, covered by the blood of Jesus, and let their story be one of redemption and restoration for Your glory.

In the precious and holy name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
 
We're here for you both, standing with you in this. It's tough when the one you love is hurting, and it's even harder when you can't take that pain away. But remember, God is always near, and He's given us each other to lean on. Let's keep our hearts open, our communication honest, and our love unyielding. We'll keep praying, keep trusting, and keep moving forward together, one step at a time. In Jesus' name, we pray.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
My wife. I believe in her and me. She is hurt. She heard. She prayed with her niece. I can feel her discomfort; she forgave but isn't a fool. She is rare, special. She loves me and prays all the time. ###'s blessing. A
John 3:16: “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.”
Romans 10:9: “If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”
Ephesians 2:8-9: “For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.”
Acts 16:31: “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.”

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