Hold On Change Is Coming

[lilian3]

what can I say, God has answered by prayers. I been married for seven months, and eversince

I prayed for my husband, his words and what he says has broken me completely, in this six months he never slept with me, I was asking God why are you punishing me, it's not my problems, but my husband, he could never see my pain, I cried myself to sleep at night, the morning I got up went to work, pretend I'm okay, but trusting in God not to give up, I have done everything to make this marriage work, I never thought about my problem, my goal was

that God should heal my husband, the weekend past my husband told me he wants a divorce, he never loved me, he sees me as his friend, I never shed a tear in front of him, the Saturday I called my Mom and explained to her what happened, without telling my husband

I called her, after that I took a walk to the shop I met 3 men who were handling pamphlets

out of a church rival happening in the area, and they are spreading the work of God, one

of the men approached me, and asked is there anything which we can do for work, I explained

to them what my husband told me and then they prayed for me and my husband, after praying

for me it felt a big weight was off my shoulders, and I could handle any situation and not

be scared, but got myself together.

when leaving home, I told my husband I can't be here, how can I sleep next to him and see

me as his friend and not his wife. That was too much for me. I told him I forgive him what he did to me, because I'm faithful to God, because he loves me and he forgives me.

when returning on Sunday I took some clothing and told him I will pick up the rest of my things later. After that I went to his mum and sister and sent my goodbyes they listened

and said they don't know what to tell me, maybe call him or went to visit him after

I left. They never wish we well after I have spoken to them. This morning my husband

sent me a message to my phone, he got advice from family and outsiders what he must do in this marriage, not even Godly people or positive people he surrounds him with.

he said he is not going to satan the change the intervene in this marriage but he loves me as his wife, He phoned me this morning to tell me even if we have to go see a counselor, he will try harder to let this marriage work and be the man he was when we first met.

I feel even giving him the charge he got his advice from his family to probably say this, how do I know he is telling the truth, and what happens next after a year still tell me the same thing, and tell him he will take what's his, because he bought it from his money.

I have to make this decision today, cause I have to call my landlord tomorrow if we're gonna extend the contract of the flat we live in.

please pray for me, what my decision will be.

in Jesus name - amen

 

[peacock]

Dear Jesus. I ask you to pray for this couple, while you are standing in front of the God our Father, and Jesus you pray for us, because we are the children of God of Israel. Dear Father, please send your answer and help to these lovely people. Let them be free and love each other as man and wife should. Thank you Lord.

 

[Vinita]

Lord, I pray for ### and her Husband. Lord Jesus, please save this marriage. Put in your love in her Husband's heart so that she comes back to her forever. Change the husband's heart Lord, Make the marriage work Lord. Lord Jesus nothing is impossible for you. Lord this marriage cannot break because then it will lead to further sins Lord. Lord I humbly pray to you to make this marriage work Lord in your loving kindness and mercy, Amen.

 

[Action238]

Lord in the name of Jesus touch ### and her marriage. Bring her husband to a place that Your Love overflows in his heart for his wife. Bring them together in body and soul and use them for the glory that You alone have intended for both of them individually and together as a couple for the Glory of Your kingdom. Touch ### with the wisdom and knowledge of how to please her husband in a godly way and be all that she can be so her husband sees her as his helpmate and allow her to encourage him with no fear or anxiety of what she needs and expects in this marriage. Continue to bring him to the place of leadership and protection for his wife and his family. in Jesus name...sister there is no guarantee for any marriage it's all what you put into it....never be afraid of love it never fails...people fail but love never fails...whatever may or may not happen in the future...enjoy the moment...as long as you know you have given your all it's a choice that no one can force you to do...love is unconditional and never comes back void in the eyes of God...He is the only one you have to answer to in the end and if you can answer Him knowing you did all you could for this marriage...that's a good thing...don't make your marriage into a corner where you have your husband trapped..he obviously has some serious issues in his mind..and that's not wrong...he is just where he is and only he can change that...so give him a reason to change toward you...try not to be defensive or pushy or neeeeedddddyyyy or insecure (those actions are not of God)...even though it feels that way...feelings are not truth...God's word is Truth, follow that not wavering and God will always bring you to the place HE INTENDED for you...One certain thing is the word of God says He wants your marriage to work...so lift it up to Him, and no matter what believe Him and follow Peace, if whatever you say or do is in peace then it's God..if you feel anxiety or anger and proceed to act out that feeling..I'm SURE it's not of God and you are probably making it worse..just because your asking this man to act a certain way..His "feelings" are speaking to him loud and clear and he can not hear or feel anything else because of panic in himself..Your husband has freedom of choice...but you can show him God's love and allow God to bind you together as one...God bless sister follow Peace and whatever happens you will be on the right path....God bless

 

[Gee]

Lord Jesus will bless your married life! Amen... stay there... He will work miracles

 

Lord let the prayer decide and you shall know. Amen. Give peace understanding and a bit of time..........Amen.