He’s been bullying me since we were children, why does he do these things?

Anonymous

Beloved of All
Dear Heavenly Father I pray my ### stops bullying me and looking for ways to mess up my life Dear God I beg for him to be Blessed or find healing from my mistakes I know I said something out of anger and hurt due to the provoking nature and environment, I prayed and have apologized so many times to him he only comes around to remind me of it after he said he forgives my God I beg to remove this away from me and my life I don’t throw in his face the things he has done to me ever after he apologized I ask if the relationship can not be fixed Heavenly Father remove it from me and my ###’s lives and I pray you expose the things he’s doing to me behind closed doors so others can see clearly that he provokes these reactions out of me Heavenly Father I am begging you. Please protect me and my ### always Amen
 
We hear the deep pain and weariness in your heart, and we join you in lifting this burden before the Lord, for He is the God of justice, healing, and deliverance. The Scripture reminds us in **Psalm 34:18**, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* You are not unseen, and your cries have reached the ears of the Father, who cares deeply for you.

The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but we know that God’s desire is for you to walk in freedom, peace, and restoration. The fact that you have sought forgiveness and extended grace—even when it has not been reciprocated—demonstrates a heart that is tender toward the Lord. **Romans 12:18** tells us, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."* You have done your part in seeking reconciliation, but true repentance and forgiveness require a changed heart, something only God can bring about in this person.

It is not your responsibility to fix this relationship or to continue subjecting yourself to abuse. The Lord does not call us to remain in cycles of harm, especially when someone uses forgiveness as a weapon to manipulate or revisit past wounds. **Proverbs 22:24-25** warns, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger, lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* If this person refuses to let go of offense and continues to provoke and bully you, it may be time to pray for God’s wisdom in setting healthy boundaries—or even removing this relationship entirely if it is causing more harm than godly growth.

You have also asked for exposure of the truth, and we know that **Luke 8:17** declares, *"For nothing is hidden that will not be revealed, nor anything secret that will not be known and come to light."* The Lord sees what is done in secret, and in His timing, He will bring justice. However, we must also be cautious in our motives. **Romans 12:19** instructs, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"*) Our prayer should not be rooted in a desire for retaliation but in trust that God will handle this situation righteously.

As for your request regarding your "###," we assume you are referring to your family or loved ones. We will pray for their protection and peace, but we must gently address something important: prayer is most powerful when offered in the name of Jesus Christ. You began your prayer by addressing the "Heavenly Father," which is good, but we are commanded in **John 14:13-14**, *"Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."* And in **Acts 4:12**, we are reminded, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!"* Jesus is the only way to the Father, and it is by His authority that we approach God’s throne. We encourage you to always pray in the name of Jesus, for He is our mediator and advocate.

Now, let us pray together for you:

*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up Your child who is weary from the weight of relentless bullying and manipulation. Lord, You see the pain, the tears, and the longing for peace. We ask that You would intervene in this situation and break the cycle of harm. If this relationship can be restored in a way that honors You, then soften both hearts and bring true repentance and healing. But if this person remains hardened and continues to bring destruction, we pray for Your wisdom and strength to set godly boundaries—or even to remove this relationship entirely if it is Your will.

Father, we ask that You expose the truth in Your timing and in Your way, not for vengeance, but for justice and for the protection of Your child. Guard their heart and mind from bitterness, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. We pray for their family and loved ones, that You would surround them with Your protection and favor.

Lord, we also ask that You would heal the wounds from past words spoken in anger. Where there has been genuine repentance, let there be freedom from condemnation. Where there has been unforgiveness, we pray for supernatural grace to release it into Your hands.

We declare **Psalm 91** over this situation: *'He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of Yahweh, “He is my refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust.”'* May Your child find refuge in You alone.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would remind them of their identity in Christ—that they are loved, valued, and redeemed. Let them walk in the confidence that You are fighting for them, even when they cannot see it. We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."*

We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s face in this matter. Spend time in His Word, particularly in the Psalms, where David often cried out to God in the midst of persecution. **Psalm 27:13-14** says, *"I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of Yahweh in the land of the living. Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh."* Keep trusting Him, even when the answer tarries. He is faithful, and He will bring you through this.
 
Dear friend, we're right there with you, feeling the weight of the relentless bullying you've been enduring for so long. It's exhausting, isn't it? But remember, you're not alone. We're here, and more importantly, God is here. He sees you, He hears you, and He cares deeply about what you're going through.

We've been praying for you, asking God to intervene and break this cycle of harm. We've been asking Him to soften both hearts, to bring true repentance and healing if this relationship can be restored in a way that honors Him. But we've also been asking for wisdom and strength to set godly boundaries, or even to remove this relationship entirely if that's what's best for you.

We've been praying for exposure of the truth, but we've also been praying that your heart would be guarded from bitterness. We want you to be filled with God's peace, the kind that surpasses all understanding. We've been praying for your family and loved ones too, asking God to surround them with His protection and favor.

We've been reminding you of your identity in Christ, that you are loved, valued, and redeemed. We've been praying that you would walk in confidence, knowing that God is fighting for you, even when you can't see it.

Keep trusting Him, even when the answers tarry. He is faithful, and He will bring you through this. Spend time in His Word, particularly in the Psalms. David often cried out to God in the midst of persecution, and we can find comfort and strength in his words.

We're here for you, and we'll keep praying. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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Dear Heavenly Father I pray my ### stops bullying me and looking for ways to mess up my life Dear God I beg for him to be Blessed or find healing from my mistakes I know I said something out of anger and hurt due to the provoking nature and environment, I prayed and have apologized so many times to him he only comes around to remind me of it after he said he forgives my God I beg to remove this away from me and my life I don’t throw in his face the things he has done to me ever after he apologized I ask if the relationship can not be fixed Heavenly Father remove it from me and my ###’s lives and I pray you expose the things he’s doing to me behind closed doors so others can see clearly that he provokes these reactions out of me Heavenly Father I am begging you. Please protect me and my ### always Amen
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