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First of all, let me express your gratitude to my message. I do not have anyone in my life to talk about it really, so it's much appreciated that you're reading it and will understand my prayer request hopefully. Over the last ### years of my life I met guys (more than ###) with whom my communications or dating ended up with them requesting just sex. I am Christian and always tried to explain why I am not able to provide what they need. Every time I ended up with crying as all of them just wanted to have fun. I am not sure whether God wants me to be alone or maybe there's something with me after my father's death. My mum and sister do not understand me at all and I'm just crying and stay with my negative emotions alone. I do not know what to do, but thank you for reading and if you will even think about me in your prayers, may God bless you and that you will never be alone with your pain. I pray that God will bless the person who reads this message...
 
We hear the deep ache in your heart, and we want you to know that you are not alone—God sees your pain, your loneliness, and your longing for love that honors Him. Your struggle is real, and we grieve with you over the way you’ve been treated by men who sought only to gratify their own desires rather than cherish you as a daughter of the King. The fact that you have stood firm in your faith, even in tears, is a testament to the Holy Spirit’s work in you. Do not let the enemy convince you that your worth is tied to the rejection of those who failed to see your value. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). The men who pressured you for sex outside of marriage were not just rejecting you—they were rejecting God’s design for purity and love. Fornication is a sin against your own body and against God (1 Corinthians 6:18), and we praise you for refusing to compromise, even when it cost you emotionally.

Your question about whether God wants you to be alone is one many believers wrestle with, but let us assure you: God’s heart is not to withhold good things from His children. Jesus said, *"Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent? If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!"* (Matthew 7:9-11). If marriage is His will for you, He will provide a godly husband in His timing—a man who loves Jesus more than he loves you, who will lead you spiritually, and who will honor your purity rather than demand you compromise it. But we must also prepare your heart for this truth: if God’s plan for this season is singleness, He will give you the grace to walk in it with joy and purpose. The apostle Paul spoke of the gift of singleness as an opportunity to serve the Lord without distraction (1 Corinthians 7:32-35). Your worth is not defined by your relationship status but by your identity in Christ.

We are deeply concerned, though, by the pattern you’ve described—seeking relationships with men who do not share your faith or your commitment to purity. The Bible is clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). If you are repeatedly finding yourself in situations where men disrespect your boundaries, it may be time to ask the Lord to examine your heart: Are you seeking validation from the wrong places? Are you pursuing relationships with men who do not love Jesus, hoping they will change? Beloved, a godly marriage begins with a godly courtship, and a godly courtship begins with two people who are already sold out for Christ. We urge you to step back from dating altogether for a season and ask the Lord to heal your heart, renew your mind, and prepare you for the spouse He has for you—if that is His will. In the meantime, surround yourself with believers who can speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. If your church does not have a strong community, seek one out where you can grow in faith and fellowship.

Your grief over your father’s death is also something we lift before the Lord. Loss can leave deep wounds, and it’s possible that your longing for love is tangled with the void his absence left. Jesus is the Father to the fatherless (Psalm 68:5), and He wants to comfort you in ways no earthly relationship can. We pray that you would allow Him into that broken place, trusting that He collects every tear you’ve shed (Psalm 56:8). As for your mother and sister, we ask the Lord to soften their hearts toward you and give you wisdom in how to communicate your needs. Sometimes, family members don’t understand because they don’t share our faith or our convictions. But even if they never do, you are not abandoned—you have a heavenly Father who understands you perfectly.

Lastly, we notice that your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not already, we urge you to surrender your life fully to Jesus, confessing Him as Lord and believing in your heart that God raised Him from the dead (Romans 10:9). If you *have* trusted in Christ but have not been praying in His name, we encourage you to do so, for Jesus Himself said, *"Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it"* (John 14:13-14). There is power in the name of Jesus—power to heal, to deliver, and to restore.

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before You, knowing that You see her pain and collect every tear she has cried. Lord, she has been wounded by the selfishness of men who sought only to use her, and her heart is heavy with loneliness and grief. We ask You to bind up her broken heart (Psalm 147:3) and remind her that she is *yours*—bought with the precious blood of Jesus. Father, forgive her for any times she may have sought love or validation outside of You, and lead her into a season of healing and preparation. If it is Your will for her to marry, we pray You would bring a godly man into her life—a man who loves You wholeheartedly, who will lead her spiritually, and who will honor her purity. But if Your plan for her is singleness, grant her contentment and joy in serving You without distraction. Break any ungodly soul ties from past relationships and restore her confidence in Your goodness.

Lord, we rebuke the lies of the enemy that tell her she is unlovable or that she must compromise to be wanted. Your Word says she is *chosen*, a royal priesthood, holy and dearly loved (1 Peter 2:9). Let her find her identity in You alone. Comfort her in her grief over her father’s death, and be a Father to her in ways no earthly man can. Soften the hearts of her mother and sister toward her, and surround her with godly community that will uplift and encourage her.

Most of all, Father, draw her closer to Yourself. Let her find in You the love she longs for, the validation she seeks, and the purpose she was created for. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in wisdom, discernment, and purity. We pray all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of all praise and glory. Amen.

Beloved sister, we leave you with this promise: *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Cling to Him. Seek Him first (Matthew 6:33), and trust that He will either fulfill the desires of your heart or replace them with something even better—Himself. Stay in the Word, stay in prayer, and do not lose hope. We are praying for you.
 
Dear friend, we're here with you in spirit. We've been thinking about your situation and wanted to share a few more thoughts and prayers.

Firstly, we want to echo what was already said - you are not alone. God sees you, He knows your pain, and He's walking with you through this. Remember, even Jesus wept (John 11:35), so it's okay to feel your emotions. God is big enough to handle them all.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face. In times like these, it's easy to question God's plan or His love for us. But remember, He who did not spare His own Son, but gave Him up for us all - how will He not also, along with Him, graciously give us all things? (Romans 8:32)

As for your question about being alone, we want to assure you that God has a purpose in everything He does. If you're feeling lonely, it might be an opportunity for you to draw closer to God, to deepen your relationship with Him. He can fill that void in your life that no human relationship can. And remember, even if you're single, you're never alone - you have the Holy Spirit living in you.

We also want to pray for your healing. We pray that God would heal your heart from the pain of your past relationships and your father's death. We pray that He would fill you with His love and His peace, and that you would find your worth and identity in Him.

Lastly, we want to remind you to keep praying in Jesus' name. There's power in His name, and He promised that if we ask anything in His name, He will do it. So keep asking, keep seeking, and keep knocking (Matthew 7:7).

We love you, and we're praying for you. You're in our thoughts and in our prayers. Keep trusting in God, and keep seeking His face. He's got you, and He's not finished with you yet.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
We hear the deep ache in your heart, and we want you to know that you are not alone—God sees your pain, your loneliness, and your longing for love that honors Him. Your struggle is real, and we grieve with you over the way you’ve been treated by men who sought only to gratify their own desires rather than cherish you as a daughter of the King. The fact that you have stood firm in your faith, even in tears, is a testament to the Holy Spirit’s work in you. Do not let the enemy convince you that your worth is tied to the rejection of those who failed to see your value. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). The men who pressured you for sex outside of marriage were not just rejecting you—they were rejecting God’s design for purity and love. Fornication is a sin against your own body and against God (1 Corinthians 6:18), and we praise you for refusing to compromise, even when it cost you emotionally.

Your question about whether God wants you to be alone is one many believers wrestle with, but let us assure you: God’s heart is not to withhold good things from His children. Jesus said, *"Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent? If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!"* (Matthew 7:9-11). If marriage is His will for you, He will provide a godly husband in His timing—a man who loves Jesus more than he loves you, who will lead you spiritually, and who will honor your purity rather than demand you compromise it. But we must also prepare your heart for this truth: if God’s plan for this season is singleness, He will give you the grace to walk in it with joy and purpose. The apostle Paul spoke of the gift of singleness as an opportunity to serve the Lord without distraction (1 Corinthians 7:32-35). Your worth is not defined by your relationship status but by your identity in Christ.

We are deeply concerned, though, by the pattern you’ve described—seeking relationships with men who do not share your faith or your commitment to purity. The Bible is clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). If you are repeatedly finding yourself in situations where men disrespect your boundaries, it may be time to ask the Lord to examine your heart: Are you seeking validation from the wrong places? Are you pursuing relationships with men who do not love Jesus, hoping they will change? Beloved, a godly marriage begins with a godly courtship, and a godly courtship begins with two people who are already sold out for Christ. We urge you to step back from dating altogether for a season and ask the Lord to heal your heart, renew your mind, and prepare you for the spouse He has for you—if that is His will. In the meantime, surround yourself with believers who can speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. If your church does not have a strong community, seek one out where you can grow in faith and fellowship.

Your grief over your father’s death is also something we lift before the Lord. Loss can leave deep wounds, and it’s possible that your longing for love is tangled with the void his absence left. Jesus is the Father to the fatherless (Psalm 68:5), and He wants to comfort you in ways no earthly relationship can. We pray that you would allow Him into that broken place, trusting that He collects every tear you’ve shed (Psalm 56:8). As for your mother and sister, we ask the Lord to soften their hearts toward you and give you wisdom in how to communicate your needs. Sometimes, family members don’t understand because they don’t share our faith or our convictions. But even if they never do, you are not abandoned—you have a heavenly Father who understands you perfectly.

Lastly, we notice that your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not already, we urge you to surrender your life fully to Jesus, confessing Him as Lord and believing in your heart that God raised Him from the dead (Romans 10:9). If you *have* trusted in Christ but have not been praying in His name, we encourage you to do so, for Jesus Himself said, *"Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it"* (John 14:13-14). There is power in the name of Jesus—power to heal, to deliver, and to restore.

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before You, knowing that You see her pain and collect every tear she has cried. Lord, she has been wounded by the selfishness of men who sought only to use her, and her heart is heavy with loneliness and grief. We ask You to bind up her broken heart (Psalm 147:3) and remind her that she is *yours*—bought with the precious blood of Jesus. Father, forgive her for any times she may have sought love or validation outside of You, and lead her into a season of healing and preparation. If it is Your will for her to marry, we pray You would bring a godly man into her life—a man who loves You wholeheartedly, who will lead her spiritually, and who will honor her purity. But if Your plan for her is singleness, grant her contentment and joy in serving You without distraction. Break any ungodly soul ties from past relationships and restore her confidence in Your goodness.

Lord, we rebuke the lies of the enemy that tell her she is unlovable or that she must compromise to be wanted. Your Word says she is *chosen*, a royal priesthood, holy and dearly loved (1 Peter 2:9). Let her find her identity in You alone. Comfort her in her grief over her father’s death, and be a Father to her in ways no earthly man can. Soften the hearts of her mother and sister toward her, and surround her with godly community that will uplift and encourage her.

Most of all, Father, draw her closer to Yourself. Let her find in You the love she longs for, the validation she seeks, and the purpose she was created for. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in wisdom, discernment, and purity. We pray all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of all praise and glory. Amen.

Beloved sister, we leave you with this promise: *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Cling to Him. Seek Him first (Matthew 6:33), and trust that He will either fulfill the desires of your heart or replace them with something even better—Himself. Stay in the Word, stay in prayer, and do not lose hope. We are praying for you.
Thank you so much for your prompt reply and support, I will try to use this approach and calm down my emotions, so that I can accept and recognise God;s will for me. May God bless you, pray for your need in Jesus's name, amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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