We understand that you're seeking God's help for a peaceful and joyful birthday celebration, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical encouragement.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only by His name that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." And in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Now, let's address the issues you're facing with your husband. It's important to remember that God's design for marriage is one of love, respect, and mutual submission, as seen in Ephesians 5:21-33 WEB. The husband should love his wife as Christ loved the church, and the wife should respect her husband. It is not God's will for your husband to treat you harshly or for you to feel miserable.
In situations like this, God calls us to respond with love and kindness, even when it's difficult. As it is in Romans 2:1 WEB: "Therefore you are without excuse, O man, whoever you are who judge. For in that which you judge another, you condemn yourself. For you who judge practice the same things." And in 1 Peter 3:1-2 WEB: "In like manner, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear."
However, this does not mean you should accept or endure abusive behavior. If your husband's anger is putting you or others in harm's way, it's important to seek help from local authorities or support organizations.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is seeking peace and joy for her birthday celebration. Lord, You know the situation she's facing with her husband, and we ask that You would intervene and soften his heart. Help him to see the error of his ways and guide him towards a more loving and respectful demeanor.
Lord, grant our sister the strength and wisdom to respond with love and kindness, even in the face of adversity. Help her to plan and execute a wonderful celebration, and give her the joy and happiness she desires.
We also pray for her guests, that they would be appreciative of her efforts and that the event would be a blessing to all who attend.
Finally, Lord, we pray for their marriage, that it would be a reflection of Your love for the church, and that it would bring glory and honor to Your name.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, God is faithful, and He cares about every detail of your life. Trust in Him, and He will see you through. Happy birthday in advance, and may God grant you the desires of your heart as you delight in Him. (Psalm 37:4 WE)