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jeffrey harper
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My name is ###. I am from ###. I am now with my wife and 3 children in ###, ### but stuck here. My story is very long and I don’t even really know how to begin. I know Jesus is my Savior and God has blessed me in so many ways and so many times over my life most of all when He brought my wife and then my children into my life.
I have so many problems now in my life and I need real help. We need help. If these things were only about me I would not even consider asking for help. I want so much to be a good husband and father however and I am not doing good at these things now.
All of these things really require explaining but I want to make a list here of things I need to fix and if you have time PLEASE HELP me to get things fixed.
1.) Feeding the family. GOD IS GREAT! We have not missed any meals yet. As you know He feeds the birds everyday. however I am in real deep debt with the corner convenience store and can’t pay - I’ve been teaching English down here and my work has really taken a dive.
2.) Education of kids. I did have that under control but again money is the problem. Public schools here are bad
3.) Home.. Renting a small two bedroom,,,same problem $ I want a decent home for my family but I don’t know if I can pay the rent here on the 1st
4.) Getting back HOME.... This is the major problem. I am sure I could do so much better for them if I only was able to get back to the States but with them. I brought my wife here in ### to get her out of immigration jail and to not let her get deported. I stayed for about 3 months until we got pregnant then I went back for 8 months or so to make money. I came back for the birth of my first child(she had a child from a previous marriage) and I stayed 2 years, raised my boys and taught English. I went back to ### in ### and started a new Job driving trucks cross country. I did this for 5 years and it was ok and I made good money sometimes but I was not with my family and I was not happy being a part time husband and father. Then I messed that all up and got a DWI after that I could not work hardly at all with no driver’s license. So many more things factor into all of this like my mother getting Alzheimer and my not wanting her in a nursing home. But all the while my family was apart so I came back here around 18 months ago.
Thanks,
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I have so many problems now in my life and I need real help. We need help. If these things were only about me I would not even consider asking for help. I want so much to be a good husband and father however and I am not doing good at these things now.
All of these things really require explaining but I want to make a list here of things I need to fix and if you have time PLEASE HELP me to get things fixed.
1.) Feeding the family. GOD IS GREAT! We have not missed any meals yet. As you know He feeds the birds everyday. however I am in real deep debt with the corner convenience store and can’t pay - I’ve been teaching English down here and my work has really taken a dive.
2.) Education of kids. I did have that under control but again money is the problem. Public schools here are bad
3.) Home.. Renting a small two bedroom,,,same problem $ I want a decent home for my family but I don’t know if I can pay the rent here on the 1st
4.) Getting back HOME.... This is the major problem. I am sure I could do so much better for them if I only was able to get back to the States but with them. I brought my wife here in ### to get her out of immigration jail and to not let her get deported. I stayed for about 3 months until we got pregnant then I went back for 8 months or so to make money. I came back for the birth of my first child(she had a child from a previous marriage) and I stayed 2 years, raised my boys and taught English. I went back to ### in ### and started a new Job driving trucks cross country. I did this for 5 years and it was ok and I made good money sometimes but I was not with my family and I was not happy being a part time husband and father. Then I messed that all up and got a DWI after that I could not work hardly at all with no driver’s license. So many more things factor into all of this like my mother getting Alzheimer and my not wanting her in a nursing home. But all the while my family was apart so I came back here around 18 months ago.
Thanks,
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