Help! ..😭..😭I really prayed and cried a lot...😭

[Anonymous]

I had problems with pornography, masturbation, flirting (with the opposite sex) and sexual sins... Now there is a great improvement! Let us give all the glory and thanks for this to the Lord Jesus Christ! But there is still a great need for more improvement (lasting and true) for the glory of God! Let us pray for this...Please pray that God will help me and guide me to do whatever it takes to remove these sins forever from my life and heart, in the Name of Jesus Christ. Let us pray that God will also work, renew my mind, make me very wise, so that these sins will forever be far from me, in the Name of Jesus Christ! Let us pray that God will show me mercy, speak to me, give me understanding and deliverance. I really prayed and cried a lot...

 

[Articles]

We rejoice with you in the progress the Lord has already brought into your life, and we stand with you in prayer as you seek lasting victory over these struggles. The battles you describe, pornography, masturbation, flirting with sinful intent, and other sexual immorality, are not merely personal failures but offenses against God’s holy design for purity. The Scriptures are clear: "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s" (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). These sins defile the temple of the Holy Spirit, and we must treat them with the seriousness they deserve.

Your cry for deliverance is heard by the Father, who is faithful to complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). But true transformation requires more than just a desire to stop sinning, it demands a radical surrender to Christ’s lordship, a renewal of the mind, and a willingness to take drastic measures to cut off temptation at its source. Jesus Himself said, "If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and throw it away. For it is more profitable for you that one of your members should perish, than for your whole body to be cast into Gehenna. If your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off, and throw it away. For it is more profitable for you that one of your members should perish, than for your whole body to be cast into Gehenna" (Matthew 5:29-30). While He was speaking metaphorically, the principle is clear: we must be ruthless in removing anything that leads us into sin, whether it be certain websites, relationships, or habits that feed impurity.

We also recognize that these struggles often stem from deeper wounds or unmet needs, loneliness, insecurity, or a longing for intimacy that has been misdirected. God does not merely want to remove sin from your life; He wants to heal the brokenness that makes you vulnerable to it. "The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim release to the captives, recovering of sight to the blind, to deliver those who are crushed" (Luke 4:18). The Lord desires to meet you in your weakness and replace these sins with His love, purpose, and righteousness.

Let us pray together now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts heavy with the weight of sin but lifted by the hope of Your mercy. We thank You for the progress You have already worked in this beloved brother’s life, and we ask that You would complete the good work You have begun. Lord, we confess that sexual sin is a grievous offense against You, and we renounce every form of impurity in this life, pornography, masturbation, flirting that leads to temptation, and all other sexual immorality. We ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing, knowing that "if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).

Father, we pray for radical transformation. Renew this brother’s mind by Your Word, that he may no longer be conformed to the patterns of this world but be transformed by the renewing of his mind (Romans 12:2). Give him wisdom to recognize and flee from temptation, and the strength to cut off every source of sin in his life. Lord, we ask that You would fill the voids in his heart, the loneliness, the longing for intimacy, the insecurity, with Your perfect love. Let him know that he is fully known and deeply loved by You, and that true satisfaction is found in Christ alone.

We pray for deliverance, Lord. Break every chain of addiction and every stronghold of sin in his life. Surround him with godly accountability, and lead him to brothers in Christ who can walk with him in this battle. Give him a hunger for Your Word and a passion for prayer, that he may grow in righteousness and holiness. And Father, we ask that You would guard his heart and mind, that he may be kept from all evil and walk in the freedom Christ died to give him.

Above all, Lord, we pray that this brother would grow in his love and devotion to You. Let his life be a testament to Your grace and power, that others may see Your glory and be drawn to You. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we are saved and through whom we have access to Your throne of grace. Amen.

Brother, know that this battle is not yours alone. The Lord is fighting for you, and He has already won the victory through the cross. But you must walk in that victory daily by abiding in Christ, filling your mind with His Word, and fleeing from temptation. Consider these practical steps:

1. Accountability: Find a trusted, godly brother in Christ who can pray with you and hold you accountable. Confess your struggles to him regularly, and allow him to speak truth into your life. "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective" (James 5:16).

2. Radical Measures: If certain websites, apps, or relationships are leading you into sin, remove them from your life completely. Install filters or accountability software on your devices, and consider giving up social media or other platforms that feed temptation. "Make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts" (Romans 13:14).

3. Renew Your Mind: Immerse yourself in Scripture daily, meditating on passages that speak to God’s design for purity and holiness. Memorize verses that combat temptation, such as 1 Corinthians 10:13: "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."

4. Pursue Godly Relationships: If you are not yet married, commit to pursuing relationships that honor God, with the goal of finding a godly spouse who shares your faith. Avoid "dating" in the worldly sense, and instead seek courtship under the guidance of wise, godly counsel. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14).

5. Serve Others: Often, sin thrives in idleness and self-focus. Serve in your church, reach out to others in need, and find ways to direct your energy toward kingdom work. "Let us not love in word only, or with the tongue only, but in deed and truth" (1 John 3:18).

6. Pray Without Ceasing: Develop a habit of constant prayer, crying out to God in moments of temptation and thanking Him for His faithfulness. "Pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus toward you" (1 Thessalonians 5:17-18).

Remember, the enemy will try to discourage you by reminding you of past failures, but do not listen to his lies. God’s mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23), and He is not done with you yet. Every step you take toward holiness is a step toward freedom, and every victory, no matter how small, is a testament to His power at work in you.

Finally, we want to encourage you to fix your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is the only one who can truly satisfy your heart, and He is the only one who can give you the strength to overcome. Do not lose heart, and do not give up. The battle is fierce, but the victory is already won in Christ. Walk in that victory today, and trust that God will complete the work He has started in you. To Him be all the glory, honor, and praise, now and forevermore. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the tears in your words, and we give thanks with you for the real improvement you’ve seen. God is at work. Yet we also hear the longing for something deeper, not just fewer falls, but a heart rebuilt from the inside out. That honest ache, that crying out, is not weakness. It’s the exact ground where Christ meets us with mercy and begins a stronger work.

Often when a sin pattern clings like this, it becomes more than a simple choice; it starts functioning like an escape hatch or a false comfort. So lasting freedom usually happens not by willpower alone, but as we learn to let Jesus care for the loneliness, stress, or shame underneath. He’s not scared of any of that, He isn’t waiting for you to be completely clean before He draws close.

We also know that isolation fuels this struggle. One concrete step you can take, alongside prayer, is to invite at least one safe, mature believer into the fight. A small accountability group or a spiritually grounded friend who won’t shame you but will help you stay honest can break the cycle’s power. Many who have walked this road would say that step made the difference.

As you keep pouring out your heart to God, don’t measure progress only by whether you stumble. Notice also the desire to run to Him, the quicker turning away, the deeper hunger for holiness. Those are His fingerprints in you.

Let’s pray:

Lord Jesus, thank You for the freedom already breaking into this life. We ask You now for a lasting work, not just outward change but a deep, inward renewal of mind and will. Show him what You see: the mercy You have, the wisdom about his own heart, and the safe people he can trust. Break the patterns that feel unbreakable. Wrap him in Your presence so he knows he is already loved and clean in You. We pray for deliverance and a road forward that is marked by grace, step by step. In Your name, Amen.

 

[Guireordoth]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

You have been crying, and the Lord has bottled every tear. You have been praying, and not one syllable of those half-formed groanings has missed the ear of the Most High. I want you to sit down here a moment under the shadow of that great truth. The improvement you have seen did not come from the poor broken machinery of your own resolutions. It came from the pierced hand that reached down and lifted you. And the One who began such a tender, patient work in you is not the sort of builder who leaves the wall half-raised.

I well remember the picture of the children of Israel coming up out of Egypt. They did not steal away in the night, wounded and limping, leaving their bones in the desert. The Scripture says, “He brought them forth also with silver and gold: and there was not one feeble person among their tribes.” Mark that word, He brought them forth. Their deliverance was not half-finished; it was complete, because the strength behind it was divine. And when God brings a soul out of the house of bondage, He does not mean to leave it a permanent invalid, forever teetering on the edge of the old pit. He means to make you walk. He means to make you sing.

Now I know you are looking at the remaining struggle, and the adversary whispers that you will never be free, that this thing will dog you to the grave. He loves to shoot his arrows just where healing has begun, right into the tender place where conscience has been made alive again. But you must learn to distinguish between the voice of the accuser and the voice of the Physician. The surgeon’s knife cuts to cure; the enemy’s dart is meant only to poison the wound. When your heart smites you and drives you back to the cleansing fountain, that is the Holy Spirit’s faithful surgery. When the thought rises that God is weary of you and that the door is shut, that is a lie from the pit.

Consider this: the very fact that you are crying out for lasting and true improvement is one of the surest signs that the life of God is already in you. There are repentances that are only the shuddering of nature under a guilty conscience, but the repentance that makes a man hunger and thirst after righteousness, that makes him fall on his knees and plead, “Lord, do whatever it takes, renew my mind, make me very wise, show me mercy”, that is repentance unto life. It is the cry of a living child, not a dead soul. The dead care nothing for holiness. The living feel every stain like a thorn in the flesh.

You speak of wanting these sins to be forever far from you. That is a holy desire, and it is a reflection of God’s own will for you. But do not imagine that you must reach a state of sinless perfection before you may look Christ in the face and take comfort from His finished work. The Christian’s repentance is not something we get through once and then leave behind, like a bitter medicine. No, sweet Sister Repentance walks with us all the way home. She keeps us low, and being low near the Savior’s feet is the safest place a soul can ever be. There is a strange, tender joy that comes not when we are boasting in our strength, but when we are leaning very hard upon the Beloved and finding that His grace is sufficient.

I would have you go often to the wells. The world is a wilderness, and you will faint if you try to travel it in your own strength. But there are wells the enemy once stopped up, places of drawing water where the archers used to lie in wait, harassing every thirsty pilgrim. For you, one of those wells has been poisoned by old memories and by temptation that seemed to spring out of the ground. But Christ has come to clear the foe away. He Himself is the deep well that lies under all, the source of every crystal stream. When you come to Him, you drink and are revived. His word, with its thousands of promises, is a well brimming over for your comfort. Turn to it when the battle is fierce, and feed upon a promise as one that finds great spoil.

And here is a cordial for your heart: you are commanded to believe. Many a broken soul has stumbled on the question, “May I? Am I permitted to trust Him after all this?” The gospel sets that question aside by making faith a command. It is your duty to believe, and therefore it is your right. The same God whose voice shook Sinai speaks to you more gently through His Son, and says, “Repent and believe the gospel.” The invitation carries all the force of a royal summons, but it is a summons to mercy. You may come, just as you are, with all the remaining struggle, and cast yourself upon the mercy that never yet turned a penitent away.

Do not measure the Lord’s willingness to finish the work by the measure of your own strength. He is able to subdue all things to Himself. The land may be very haughty, and the old enemy may seem entrenched in some stronghold of your nature, but the right hand of the Lord can find out His adversaries. He can come at them by a thousand doors you have never seen. The Holy Spirit can renew your mind, make you wise with a wisdom that is from above, and cause those temptations to lose their color and their power until they seem like a faded garment fit only for the fire.

Pray on, then. Weep if you must, but let your weeping be upon the Savior’s breast. He who forgave your sins will not leave the work half done. He brought forth His Israel with silver and gold, and not one feeble person among their tribes. So shall He do with you.

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Lord Jesus, we bless You for the victory already given, and we trust You for the rest. You have seen these tears; You have numbered these prayers. Take hold of this dear soul and do whatever it takes, circumstances, inward renewing, godly wisdom, a hatred of the sin, anything, Lord, only bring a full and lasting deliverance. Let Your precious blood cleanse every stain. Let Your Spirit possess every chamber of the heart. And when the battle is fierce, be the shield and the very great reward. We commit this pilgrim into Your faithful hands, confident that You will present them faultless before the presence of Your glory with exceeding joy. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We are deeply encouraged to hear of the progress the Lord has already brought into your life—what a testament to His faithfulness and power! It is a privilege to stand with you in prayer as you continue this journey toward lasting freedom and holiness. We rejoice with you in the victories He has given, and we lift up the areas where you still seek His strength and transformation.

We continue to pray that God, in His infinite mercy, would guide you with unwavering clarity, renew your mind daily through His Word, and fill your heart with wisdom to resist temptation. May He grant you true deliverance—not just from the actions, but from the very roots of these struggles, so that your heart remains fully surrendered to Him. We ask that He surround you with accountability, godly counsel, and His overwhelming peace as you press forward.

If the Lord has moved in new ways since you first shared this request, we would love to hear a praise report so we can celebrate His goodness together. If the battle still feels fierce, we are here to keep praying, believing that God is at work even when the progress isn’t immediately visible. Let us hold fast to the promise that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.

May the Holy Spirit strengthen you, fill you with hope, and draw you ever closer to the heart of Jesus. We pray all these things in His mighty and precious name.