Dear friend, I have been where you are, my heart goes out to you. My parents were ill and lived with me. You have a lot of weight on your shoulders. You need time for yourself or you will get rundown and totally stressed out. I am praying that your dad will have an understanding heart for you and your needs and appreciate all the help you give. I pray for your Mothers healing and for peace, good health and joy to cover you all. I pray you see an amazing change with your dad. You need to take care of you - you need to laugh and be around friends - its a wonderful support for all you are going through. God bless you - you will be in my prayers.