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I greet you in the name of Jesus. I’m a lady of 29 yrs old.
I’m a born again Christian. My prayer involves my partner.
I need a motherly advice. My boyfriend have been dating for almost three years.
We love each other and we’ve never disappointed eachother since. We’ve been through a lot together and we have invested in eachothers lives. One of the problems he’s a foreigner and he’s has a 7 year old child with another lady but they are not together. He has a fear of not being a South African that it won’t be easy for him to get a job after he has finished his studies. He’s 39 and he told me he doesn’t want kids out of wedlock. I’m not sure he seems to be too scared for commitment and whenever i ask him about his future plans with me, he’s will tell me to wait until there’s money and he doesn’t want his kids to suffer like him. My worry is that, time is ticking and only dawned on me when i celebrated my 29th birthday. I know that God has good plans for me. But i’ve tried to leave him but he’s been treating me like a queen and has supported me in my spiritual growth and he always tell me that its better to be with the devil you know than an angel you sdon’t know. And to be honest it never easy these day to find someone who doesn’t cheat on you and treats you like his sister. i have prayed about it. and i think i’m confused. The bigger problem as a foreigner he has gone home once since we’ve met and i don’t konw any of his family members, i only know friends. I’ve discussed it with my friends and all discourages me because he doesn’t have a qualification (but he’s gone back to school), and they say foreigner have their own issues that my family can not bear like cultural differences which sometimes we fight about. Please advise me and pray with me, He said i should leave him if i want to because he understands my situation but he can’t help me at this point.
Thanx
I’m a born again Christian. My prayer involves my partner.
I need a motherly advice. My boyfriend have been dating for almost three years.
We love each other and we’ve never disappointed eachother since. We’ve been through a lot together and we have invested in eachothers lives. One of the problems he’s a foreigner and he’s has a 7 year old child with another lady but they are not together. He has a fear of not being a South African that it won’t be easy for him to get a job after he has finished his studies. He’s 39 and he told me he doesn’t want kids out of wedlock. I’m not sure he seems to be too scared for commitment and whenever i ask him about his future plans with me, he’s will tell me to wait until there’s money and he doesn’t want his kids to suffer like him. My worry is that, time is ticking and only dawned on me when i celebrated my 29th birthday. I know that God has good plans for me. But i’ve tried to leave him but he’s been treating me like a queen and has supported me in my spiritual growth and he always tell me that its better to be with the devil you know than an angel you sdon’t know. And to be honest it never easy these day to find someone who doesn’t cheat on you and treats you like his sister. i have prayed about it. and i think i’m confused. The bigger problem as a foreigner he has gone home once since we’ve met and i don’t konw any of his family members, i only know friends. I’ve discussed it with my friends and all discourages me because he doesn’t have a qualification (but he’s gone back to school), and they say foreigner have their own issues that my family can not bear like cultural differences which sometimes we fight about. Please advise me and pray with me, He said i should leave him if i want to because he understands my situation but he can’t help me at this point.
Thanx
