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I trusted someone and got betrayed. I need prayer for protection and forgiveness. It was a romantic relationship. I want to feel strojg in Christ but I don't trust myself. I feel in my life I'm under constant attack and have a very unhealthy way of either intense relationships or complete drought. That has been my life. I know there is a spiritual aspect and I need prayer for that. I've repented but I feel I make mistakes over and over again with people that seem loving but are not.
 
We understand the deep pain of betrayal, especially in a romantic relationship, and we grieve with you over the brokenness you’re experiencing. The wound of betrayal cuts deeply, but we want to remind you that God sees your heartache and is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone in this, and your desire to find strength in Christ is a beautiful testament to your faith, even in the midst of struggle.

First, let us address the spiritual battle you’re facing. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and he often uses relationships—especially romantic ones—to create confusion, pain, and distrust. Your recognition of the spiritual aspect of this struggle is wise, for we do not wrestle against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). You’ve repented, and that is a powerful first step, but repentance is not just a one-time act—it’s a daily turning toward God and away from patterns that lead us into harm. The fact that you feel you’re repeating mistakes with people who seem loving but are not suggests there may be areas where you need to seek God’s wisdom more intentionally before entering into relationships. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* This is not just a suggestion—it’s a command for your protection. Have you sought the Lord’s guidance *before* pursuing relationships, or have you allowed your emotions or loneliness to lead the way? This is a hard question, but it’s one we must ask in love because the stakes are high. Romantic relationships outside of God’s design—whether through premature emotional or physical intimacy, or by yoking yourself with someone who does not share your faith—will always lead to pain.

You mentioned this was a romantic relationship, and we must address this with clarity and love: if this relationship involved any physical intimacy outside of marriage, that is fornication, and it is sin. It’s not just a "mistake"—it’s a violation of God’s holy design for sex, which is reserved for marriage between a man and a woman (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Hebrews 13:4). If this applies to you, we urge you to repent specifically for this and ask God to cleanse you and restore your purity. He is faithful to forgive (1 John 1:9), but true repentance means turning away from that sin and committing to honor God with your body and your heart moving forward. If you’ve been engaging in relationships where physical or emotional boundaries are crossed before marriage, you are setting yourself up for repeated heartbreak. The world tells us to follow our hearts, but Jeremiah 17:9 warns, *"The heart is deceitful above all things, and it is exceedingly corrupt. Who can know it?"* This is why we must guard our hearts (Proverbs 4:23) and submit our desires to the Lord.

You also shared that your life has been marked by either intense relationships or complete drought. This cycle is not of God. It reveals a deep longing for love and connection, but it also suggests that you may be seeking fulfillment in people rather than in Christ. No human relationship—no matter how godly—can satisfy the void in your soul that only Jesus can fill. He is the Living Water (John 4:14), and if you’re thirsty, it’s because you’ve been drinking from broken cisterns (Jeremiah 2:13). We encourage you to take a season to step back from pursuing romantic relationships and instead pursue Jesus with everything in you. Ask Him to heal your heart, to renew your mind (Romans 12:2), and to teach you what healthy, godly relationships look like. A relationship that honors God will be marked by patience, purity, and a shared commitment to Christ—not by intensity or desperation.

As for the hedge of protection, we absolutely agree that you need God’s covering. But let’s be clear: a hedge of protection is not a magical shield that keeps all pain away. It is the result of walking in obedience to God, putting on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18), and staying close to Him through prayer, Scripture, and fellowship with believers. If you’re feeling under constant attack, it may be because there are areas of your life where you’ve stepped outside of God’s protection. This isn’t to condemn you—it’s to empower you! You have the authority in Christ to resist the devil, and he *will* flee from you (James 4:7). But you must submit to God first. That means surrendering your relationships, your desires, and your heart to Him daily.

Now, let’s pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister to You, knowing that You are the God who binds up the brokenhearted and heals their wounds (Psalm 147:3). Lord, she has been betrayed, and the pain of that betrayal has left her feeling weak, distrustful, and vulnerable. But You, O God, are her strength and her shield (Psalm 28:7). We ask that You would surround her with Your hedge of protection—not just to keep harm out, but to keep her *in* Your will. Father, forgive her for any sin in this relationship, whether it was emotional idolatry, physical impurity, or simply stepping ahead of Your timing. Cleanse her, Lord, and restore her purity. Break the cycles of intense, unhealthy relationships or emotional drought in her life. Teach her to find her fulfillment in You alone, so that when You do bring a godly spouse into her life, she will be whole and ready to honor You in that union.

Lord, she feels under constant attack, and we rebuke the enemy’s schemes against her in the name of Jesus. No weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in discernment and wisdom. Give her the courage to set godly boundaries and to wait on Your perfect timing. Heal her heart, Lord, and help her to trust You more than she trusts herself or any human. Let her identity be rooted in Christ, not in her relationships.

We also pray for the person who betrayed her. Lord, if they do not know You, soften their heart and draw them to repentance. If they are a believer, convict them of their sin and lead them to seek forgiveness and restoration. But for our sister, we ask that You would release her from any bitterness or unresolved anger. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her (Colossians 3:13), not because the other person deserves it, but because *she* deserves freedom.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would surround her with godly community—believers who will speak truth into her life, hold her accountable, and encourage her in her walk with You. Let her not walk this road alone.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.

Sister, we want to leave you with this encouragement: God is not done writing your story. The pain you’re feeling now is real, but it is not the end. If you will surrender this area of your life to Him—your relationships, your heart, your desires—He will redeem it. He will teach you to walk in wisdom, to recognize counterfeit love, and to wait for the godly marriage He has for you. But it starts with seeking Him first (Matthew 6:33). Spend time in His Word. Fast and pray. Let Him be your first love (Revelation 2:4). And when you are ready to pursue a relationship again, do so with godly counsel, clear boundaries, and a heart fully submitted to Christ.

You are loved, and you are *not* defined by your past mistakes. Press into Jesus, and watch Him restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25).
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Dear sister,

We're here for you, and we want you to know that we're praying for you. We understand the hurt you're feeling, and we're sorry that you've had to go through this betrayal. It's never easy to trust someone and then have that trust broken.

First, let's ask for God's healing and comfort for your broken heart. Lord, please wrap your loving arms around our sister and heal her wounds. Help her to trust in you more than she trusts herself or anyone else. Give her the strength to forgive, not because the other person deserves it, but because she deserves freedom.

We also want to pray for protection. Lord, please surround our sister with your hedge of protection. Help her to make wise decisions in her relationships and to trust in your timing. Give her the courage to set godly boundaries and to wait on you.

And finally, we want to pray for wisdom. Lord, help our sister to seek your face in all things, especially in her relationships. Give her the discernment to recognize healthy love and to walk away from anything that doesn't honor you.

We're here for you, sister. You're not alone. Let's keep praying together and trusting in the healing power of Jesus.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Father, please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, financial needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26
 

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