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I trusted someone and got betrayed. I need prayer for protection and forgiveness. It was a romantic relationship. I want to feel strong in Christ but I don't trust myself. I feel in my life I'm under constant attack and have a very unhealthy way of either intense relationships or complete drought. That has been my life. I know there is a spiritual aspect and I need prayer for that. I've repented but I feel I make mistakes over and over again with people that seem loving but are not.
 
We understand the deep pain of betrayal, especially when trust was placed in someone who did not honor that trust in a romantic relationship. The wound is even greater when it feels like a pattern in your life—either intense, unhealthy connections or seasons of isolation. But we want to remind you that your worth and security are not found in people or relationships, but in Christ alone. He is the only One who will never betray you, and His love is the only love that can truly satisfy and heal your heart.

First, we must address the spiritual reality of what you’ve described. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and he often targets our relationships to create cycles of pain, distrust, and confusion. But Jesus came to give us life abundantly, and that includes freedom from these patterns. Your awareness of the spiritual aspect of this struggle is important, and we will pray with you for God’s protection, wisdom, and deliverance from the enemy’s schemes.

We also want to gently but firmly address the nature of romantic relationships in your life. The Bible is clear that intimacy—emotional, physical, or spiritual—is reserved for marriage between one man and one woman (Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 7:2). If this relationship involved physical or emotional intimacy outside of marriage, we encourage you to repent and turn away from that path, as it leaves you vulnerable to betrayal, heartache, and spiritual attack. God’s design for relationships is for our protection and flourishing. Courtship should be intentional, honorable, and centered on seeking a godly spouse—not just companionship or emotional fulfillment. We pray that moving forward, you will seek relationships that align with God’s Word, where both parties are committed to purity, honesty, and the goal of a Christ-centered marriage.

You mentioned feeling under constant attack, and we want to assure you that this is not God’s will for you. While trials will come, Jesus promised that in Him, we can have peace (John 16:33). The fact that you’ve repented is a sign of God’s work in your heart, but the enemy will try to condemn you and make you feel like you’re beyond God’s grace. That is a lie. Scripture tells us that if we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Your struggle is not evidence of God’s rejection but of your need for His strength. You *can* trust yourself—not in your own ability, but in the power of Christ within you. Philippians 4:13 says, *"I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."*

The pattern you described—intense relationships or complete drought—suggests a deep longing for love and connection, but also a fear of vulnerability. This is a wound that only God can heal. We encourage you to surrender this area of your life to Him completely. Ask Him to break the cycles of unhealthy attachments and to teach you what it looks like to find your fulfillment in Him first. Psalm 62:5-8 says, *"My soul, wait in silence for God alone, for my expectation is from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation, my fortress. I shall not be shaken. With God is my salvation and my honor. The rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God. Trust in him at all times, you people. Pour out your heart before him. God is a refuge for us."*

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we lift up your beloved child to You, knowing that You see every tear, every wound, and every betrayal they have endured. Lord, we ask that You would surround them with Your hedge of protection—a protection not just from external harm, but from the lies of the enemy that seek to keep them in bondage to fear, distrust, and unhealthy patterns. Break every cycle of pain in their relationships, Lord. Where there has been sin, bring conviction and repentance. Where there has been betrayal, bring healing and restoration. Where there is fear, replace it with Your perfect love that casts out all fear (1 John 4:18).

Father, we rebuke the spirit of betrayal, deception, and emotional manipulation that has operated in their life. We command these spirits to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. We ask that You would fill every void in their heart with Your presence, so they are no longer driven by loneliness or the need for human validation. Teach them what it means to abide in You, to find their identity in You alone. Give them discernment, Lord, to recognize wolves in sheep’s clothing and the wisdom to walk away from relationships that do not honor You.

We pray for forgiveness—forgiving those who have betrayed them, and receiving Your forgiveness for any sin on their part. Help them to release the bitterness and pain, knowing that vengeance is Yours (Romans 12:19). Restore their trust in You, Lord, and in Your plan for their life. If it is Your will, bring godly, trustworthy people into their life who will point them to You and encourage them in their walk. But most of all, let them find their satisfaction in You.

For those who have hurt them, we pray that You would deal with their hearts. If they are Your children, bring them to repentance. If they are not, use this situation to draw them to Yourself. But we ask that You would close the door to any relationship that is not of You, Lord. Guard their heart, for it is the wellspring of life (Proverbs 4:23).

Finally, Father, we ask that You would strengthen them in their inner being through Your Spirit (Ephesians 3:16). Let them know that they are not defined by their mistakes or their past, but by the blood of Jesus that cleanses them from all sin. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).

We declare all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone has the power to heal, restore, and protect. Amen.

We want to encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, especially meditating on His love and faithfulness. Psalm 34:18 says, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He is near to you right now. Lean on Him, not on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). Seek Christian community where you can be accountable and encouraged. And remember, the battle is not yours to fight alone—it is the Lord’s (2 Chronicles 20:15).

If you feel led, we also encourage you to fast and pray, asking God to break every ungodly soul tie and to renew your mind in His truth. You are not a victim; you are an overcomer in Christ. Keep pressing into Him, and He will lead you into freedom and wholeness.
 
We're right there with you, sister. We've all felt that deep sting of betrayal, especially in a relationship where trust was placed. It's like a part of you is ripped away, leaving a gaping wound. But remember, your worth is not defined by others' actions or inactions. You are a cherished daughter of the King, loved unconditionally.

We've been praying for you, asking God to surround you with His hedge of protection. Not just from external harm, but also from the lies that try to keep you bound in fear and distrust. We've asked Him to break every cycle of pain in your relationships, to bring healing and restoration where there's been betrayal, and to fill you with His perfect love that casts out all fear.

We've also been interceding for those who have hurt you. If they're God's children, we've asked Him to bring them to repentance. If not, we've asked Him to use this situation to draw them to Himself. But we've also asked Him to close the door to any relationship that's not of Him.

Now, we want to encourage you to keep leaning on Him. Spend time in His Word, especially meditating on His love and faithfulness. Remember, He is near to those who have a broken heart, and He saves those who have a crushed spirit. Lean on Him, not on your own understanding. Seek Christian community where you can be accountable and encouraged. And remember, the battle is not yours to fight alone - it's the Lord's.

If you feel led, we also encourage you to fast and pray, asking God to break every ungodly soul tie and to renew your mind in His truth. You are not a victim; you are an overcomer in Christ. Keep pressing into Him, and He will lead you into freedom and wholeness.

We're here for you, praying for you, and believing with you for a turnaround in your story. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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