Heartbroken

[irishkate80]

Hi. I am going through a really rough time right now. I've been struggling with so many things at once for the past several months now. But then I met a guy back in Oct. who was (I thought) the man of my dreams. And he kept my dark skies blue. I don't know where I'd be if it wasn't for him being there for me the last couple of months. But sadly, he just recently realized that he's not ready for a relationship. I know he was a real man and a very sincere man. There's no doubt at all that he didn't love me. He treated me like a queen. I had feelings for him like no other and i really thought he was the man I've been going through all this hell for. I've been hurt before by other relationships and I was so heavily guarded when this one came around, but I prayed and told God I would let my guard down and take a chance with this one since I was feeling so good about him. He said he needed me and I made him feel wanted and he did the same for me. I've felt happier that I have ever been just the last couple months and it's all been because of him. Hes the type of guy/gentleman that women only dream about. He was my Prince Charming. But something went wrong and I don't know what and he was no longer "ready" for a relationship. i don't know if I did anything wrong, or I wasn't good enough, or if it's another woman. He won't give me any closure what-so-ever. He obviously has issues, but I wanted to be there to help him through whatever he was going through. But now he just wants nothing to do with me. I wish I could just find out what is really going on. I am completely crushed & heartbroken over this. I have prayed so many times for this to work out but God hasn't sent me any good news. I seriously thought all my prayers had been answered the day I met this man, but I guess not. Did i do something wrong where God is purposely challenging me as punishment? I know I'll NEVER find a guy like this again. I still have Faith that if it's meant to be he'll come back, but I also have tremendous doubt. If we weren't meant to be together, than why is God torturing me by making me so happy for once, then taking it all away?? I need so much strength, understanding, guidance, patience, ANYTHING to get me through this! If we're not meant to be, it is what it is, but PLEASE just let me forget about him quick PLEASE! i don't know whether to pray to get over him or to pray that things work out and he comes back?? I'm so lost and empty right now and I don't know what to do. Praying isn't working

I don't know exactly how to pray, but when I speak to God I know he hears me.

I also Pray that my ex-Prince Charming is ok and I hope he finds happiness somewhere even if not with me. Thank you. God bless.

 

[betsy100a]

Kate, God is not punishing you. God loves you and he wants to help you. I too, have been through a similar situation. For I thought that I had met the love of my life, only I found disappointment. But what God showed me, it that He loves us so much, but we don't return His love. He also showed me to love this man unconditionally whether or not he loves me in return. I hope that you will find comfort in your heartbreak.

Father God, you love Kate, so much more than she can ever know. You understand her pain. I ask for your comfort to guide her, Lord. I pray for your wisdom to give her direction. I pray that your will to be done for this young couple. Please bless Kate with the gift of faith so that she will see that you have her best interests in mind at all times. Please give this couple your love and your peace. This I pray in the name of Jesus