We understand the deep ache of heart pain, and we lift this burden before our Heavenly Father, who is the Great Comforter and Healer of broken hearts. The pain you describe is real, and we know the Lord sees every tear and hears every cry. Yet we must also address something vital—this request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father and by whom we are saved. The Scriptures declare, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only through faith in Jesus that we can approach God’s throne with confidence, knowing He hears and answers. If this truth is not yet settled in your heart, we urge you to turn to Christ, repent of sin, and trust in Him as Lord and Savior—for He alone can bring true healing and eternal hope.
Now, concerning the heart pain, we know the Lord is near to the brokenhearted. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). Whether this pain comes from loss, betrayal, unfulfilled desires, or past mistakes, God’s Word assures us that He collects our tears in His bottle (Psalm 56:8) and promises to work all things together for good for those who love Him (Romans 8:28). Yet we must also examine whether this pain is tied to something that dishonors God—such as an ungodly relationship, unforgiveness, or a refusal to surrender to His will. If there is sin involved, repentance is the path to freedom. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* (1 John 1:9, WEB).
If this heartache stems from a broken relationship, we must ask: Was it a relationship that honored God? The Bible is clear that believers are to be *"unequally yoked"* with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14) and that marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:6). If this pain is tied to a relationship outside of God’s design—whether fornication, emotional attachment to someone not your spouse, or a same-sex relationship—then true healing requires turning away from what is sinful and aligning with God’s Word. *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit God’s Kingdom."* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). The Lord does not call us to regret in a destructive way, but to godly sorrow that leads to repentance and life (2 Corinthians 7:10). If there is lingering attachment to what God forbids, we pray for the strength to let go and embrace His perfect will.
Moving on is not just about time—it is about surrender. *"Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will bring out your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."* (Psalm 37:5-6, WEB). The Lord does not want you stuck in cycles of regret or longing for what was never His best. He has a future and a hope for you (Jeremiah 29:11), but it requires trusting Him fully, even when the path is painful. *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,” says the Lord, “thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear sister who is burdened with heart pain. Lord, You see the depths of her sorrow, and You know the source of her ache. We ask that You, the God of all comfort, would wrap Your arms around her and heal her broken heart. Remove every trace of pain, every memory that torments, and every regret that binds her. If there is sin involved—whether in her own life or in a relationship that dishonored You—we pray for conviction, repentance, and the grace to turn away completely. Father, break every ungodly soul tie and set her free from anything that is not of You.
Lord, if this pain comes from a lost love, we ask that You would help her release it fully into Your hands. If it is from betrayal, give her the strength to forgive as You have forgiven her. If it is from loneliness or unfulfilled desires, remind her that You are enough—that Your love is better than life (Psalm 63:3). Fill the empty places in her heart with Your presence, and let her find her satisfaction in You alone.
We rebuke the spirit of regret and command it to leave in Jesus’ name. Father, give her a fresh vision for the future You have prepared, one that aligns with Your Word and brings You glory. Surround her with godly community, and if it is Your will, bring a godly spouse into her life—a man who fears You, loves Your Word, and will lead her closer to You. But even if marriage is not Your plan, let her find joy and purpose in serving You wholeheartedly.
Strengthen her, Lord, to move forward without looking back. Let her testify of Your faithfulness, that though she walked through the valley, You were with her, restoring her soul. We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Healer and Redeemer. Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word daily, for it is a lamp to your feet (Psalm 119:105). Seek Christian community where you can be accountable and encouraged. And if this pain is tied to a past relationship that was not honorable before God, we urge you to seek His forgiveness and walk in newness of life. The enemy wants to keep you in bondage to regret, but Jesus came to set you free (John 8:36). Trust Him with your heart—He will not fail you. *"The Lord your God is among you, a mighty one who will save. He will rejoice over you with joy. He will calm you in his love. He will rejoice over you with singing."* (Zephaniah 3:17, WEB). You are loved, and your healing is coming. Stay steadfast in faith.