My dear sweet Sister. I encourage you to pray not for "getting back together or even staying together" but rather for God's PERFECT will! It's so scary to give up your will and ask God for HIS, but I can tell you that you will never regret what He does in your life. He has given me some things I thought I really didn't want, but as time went by I realized that I'm sooo glad He took over and gave me His will, and not my own!!I'm Happy with my Life and what He is doing in it! TRUST HIM AND NOT YOUR OWN WILL and He will bless you beyond anything you can imagine!! Now don't get me wrong... I have no idea what God plans for you in this matter. But I pray for you to have love and peace and God's perfect will. That's the best prayer!!