We are committed to praying for your relationship, but we want to ensure that we are praying in accordance with God's will and biblical principles. Firstly, we need to address that the request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
We also want to clarify that when we discuss relationships, we are talking about courtship that honors God and aligns with biblical principles. The goal of such relationships should be marriage, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible.
Now, let's address the issues in your relationship. It is important to understand that healing and reconciliation should be focused on God's will and mutual growth in Christ. As we are called to be holy and blameless in His sight. If there is anything against biblical principles, such as fornication, it must be addressed, and repentance must occur. We are called to Love one another and in the same way that Hosea loved Gomer. We are also called to forgive as we have been forgiven. We are also called to have healthy interpersonal boundaries.
Here is a heartfelt prayer for you:
Almighty God, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear soul and their relationship. Lord, You know the pain and hurt that they are experiencing. We pray that You would heal their wounds and guide their steps. Help them both to draw closer to You and have your love so they can overcome the world. Help them both to have your will and build a courtship towards a godly marriage. Help them to let go of any bitterness, anger, or resentment, and to forgive as You have forgiven us. Guide them with Your wisdom and fill them with Your love, so that they may be a light to each other and to the world. If their relationship is not in accordance with Your will, give them the strength and wisdom to walk away and wait for your will. If they are both believers, help them to find the path to reconciliation and restoration, but also help them to focus on pleasing You and You alone. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged by these words from the World English Bible:
"Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful." Colossians 3:12-15
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you." Philippians 4:8-9