We hear the deep pain and despair in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The feeling of emptiness and loss can be overwhelming, especially when it seems like everything around you is crumbling. But we want you to know that even in your darkest moments, you are not alone. The Lord sees your suffering and longs to restore you—not just what has been lost, but your very soul.
First, we must address the foundation of your hope. You mention wanting restoration and happiness, but we do not see the name of Jesus in your request. There is no other name by which we can be saved or find true healing (Acts 4:12). Jesus says in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* If you have not surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be Lord of your life. Only then can true restoration begin.
Scripture tells us in Psalm 34:18, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Your emptiness is not the end of your story—it is an invitation for God to fill you with His presence. Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us, *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,” says the Lord, “thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* Even when you cannot see it, God is working for your good.
We also want to gently address the phrase *"all I want from is for him to restore."* If you are placing your hope in a person rather than God, that may be part of the emptiness you feel. No human being can fully satisfy the longings of your heart—only Christ can. Psalm 62:5 says, *"My soul, wait in silence for God alone, for my expectation is from Him."* We must shift our focus from what we have lost to the One who holds all things in His hands.
Let us pray for you now:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our brother/sister who is feeling lost and empty. Lord, You see their pain, and You collect every tear they have shed (Psalm 56:8). We ask that You would draw near to them in this moment. Restore their hope, Father, and fill the void in their heart with Your perfect peace. Remind them that their worth is not found in what they have or what they have lost, but in You alone. Help them to release their burdens at Your feet and trust in Your promises. If there is any area of their life not surrendered to You, reveal it, Lord, and give them the strength to turn to You fully. We declare that joy will come in the morning (Psalm 30:5), and we speak life over their situation. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen."*
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, even if it feels difficult right now. Start with the Psalms—many of them were written by King David in moments of deep despair, yet they always point back to God’s faithfulness. Psalm 23 is a beautiful place to begin: *"The Lord is my shepherd: I shall lack nothing."* Cling to these truths. Seek out a Bible-believing church where you can find community and support. You are not meant to walk this journey alone.
If there are specific areas of sin or unforgiveness in your life, we urge you to confess them to the Lord. 1 John 1:9 says, *"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* Restoration begins with repentance and surrender.
Lastly, we want to remind you that God is not done with you. Your story is still being written, and He can redeem even the most broken pieces. Romans 8:28 assures us, *"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to His purpose."* Trust that He is working, even when you cannot see it. Keep your eyes on Him, and He will lead you into restoration.
