We are truly saddened to hear about the difficulties you're facing in your marriage and the pain you're experiencing. Firstly, we want to assure you that you are not alone, and God cares deeply for you and your husband.
Let's begin by addressing the most important aspect of your request: your faith in Jesus. You've done well to acknowledge Him as the King of kings and Savior. It's only through His name that we can approach God the Father and experience His healing and blessings. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
Now, let's discuss your marriage. It's clear that there are significant issues between you and your husband. God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment of love and unity between a man and a woman. As it is said in Mark 10:9 WEB: "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."
However, the current state of your marriage is not as God intends. We must rebuke any actions or attitudes that do not align with biblical principles. Hate has no place in a godly marriage. As it is written in Colossians 3:19 WEB: "Husbands, love your wives, and don't be bitter against them." and Ephesians 5:25 WEB: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it;"
We encourage you to pray fervently for your husband, that his heart would be softened and that he would be filled with the love of Christ. Remember, Jesus can heal and fix even the most broken situations. As it is written in Matthew 19:26 WEB: "With God all things are possible."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is in dire need of Your healing and intervention. Lord, You know the pain she's experiencing in her marriage, and You alone have the power to heal and restore.
We pray for her husband, that You would soften his heart and replace any hatred with Your love. We pray that You would guide them both, giving them the strength and wisdom to navigate this difficult time. We ask that You would bless their marriage, heal their relationship and allow them to serve You together.
We also pray for financial opportunities for them. May You open the windows of heaven and pour out blessings that they do not have room enough to receive. We ask for Your provision and guidance in their financial matters.
In the name of Jesus, we believe and confess that healing, restoration, and provision are on the way. We thank You, Lord, for Your unfailing love and faithfulness.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous. Trust that God is working even in this difficult situation. He is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us (Ephesians 3:20 WEB). Keep praying and keep believing.
We also suggest that you both seek godly counseling to help navigate this difficult time. Lastly, always be ready and open to forgiveness, just as Christ forgave us. As it is said in Ephesians 4:32 WEB: "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also forgave you."