Heal Our Pain And Marriage

[Barb111]

We have been married 20 years and the last 10 have been turbulant. Financial issues ,lies and beer nearly caused has put my family and I through hell. My husband has been struggling. In his soul he feels he is missing something. i need to let God handle that and back off. It's hard.

My husband and I both had affairs. i admited to mine. he took two years to disclose his.

Now he needs to DEFINE Himmself. Whatever that means.

He has stopped drinking at th moment. Hoping he is seeing its affects but can't mention it.

I love my husband. Please pray that we can come out of this better then before. Pray that my husband discovers what makes him happy.

 

[lynettepgw]

In the name of Jesus Christ! I believe God will do it! You really have to back off and let God. I have difficulty doing that because I always want to do and say something to Pete. But Pete doesn't answer my messages and I haven't heard from him in 10 days. I realize that sending him messages is not bringing him back so I finally decided to let go and let GOd. God doesn't need our help. He only wants our obedience and submission. I know God is working since I gave up fully to the Lord. And I know that I will hear from Pete sooner than soon because we are meant to be. As far as your husband, he will be delivered but you have to stand focused and in constant prayer. You must call out things that aren't as if they were. I will pray for you guys. And thanks for feeling my pain. Stay positive and think of only the good things. The minute the negative comes to your mind - replace it with the good. In the name of the Lord!