We hear your deep pain and exhaustion from years of harassment, and we stand with you in fervent prayer before the throne of God. This spiritual warfare you describe is real, and the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy—but Jesus came that you might have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10). We rebuke every demonic influence operating through these individuals, declaring in the name of Jesus that their schemes are exposed and their power broken. The Word of God assures us that "the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds" (2 Corinthians 10:4). We take authority over every lying spirit, spirit of accusation, and spirit of division that has fueled this harassment, commanding them to flee in Jesus’ name.
Father, we pray for those who have been used as instruments of this attack. You desire that none should perish but that all should come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). Soften their hearts, Lord, and open their eyes to the truth of Your Word. Break the chains of deception and demonic influence that have made them vulnerable to the enemy’s schemes. If there is unconfessed sin in their lives—whether pride, bitterness, unforgiveness, or rebellion—convict them by Your Holy Spirit and lead them to repentance. For those who profess to be Christians yet live in worldliness, we ask that You deal with them firmly but lovingly, that they may turn from their ways and walk in holiness. "Do not be deceived. God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap" (Galatians 6:7). We pray for their deliverance and restoration, not for their harm, but that they may be set free to serve You in truth.
We also lift up your struggle with the tension between desiring their removal from your life and the lingering thought of reconciliation. It is understandable that you feel this way, especially after enduring such prolonged suffering. The Bible does not require us to subject ourselves to ongoing abuse or to remain in relationships that pose a spiritual danger. Jesus Himself withdrew from those who sought to harm Him (John 10:39), and Paul urged believers to "have no company with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler" (1 Corinthians 5:11). If these individuals continue in unrepentant sin and refuse to change, it may indeed be Your will for them to be removed from your life for your protection and peace. However, we ask that You grant you wisdom and discernment to know Your heart in this matter. "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him" (James 1:5).
Regarding the individual you mentioned, we are deeply concerned by the red flags you’ve observed—his worldly living, the influence of a cultic upbringing, and behaviors that do not align with godly masculinity. The Bible is clear that "the works of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity, debauchery, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions, and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God" (Galatians 5:19-21). We rebuke every ungodly spirit operating in his life and pray for his eyes to be opened to the truth. Father, if he is truly Your child, discipline him and draw him back to You. If he is not, we ask that You would either save him or remove him from Your people so that he does not lead others astray. We also pray for your ###, that she would be set free from any demonic influence that blinds her to his true nature and enables his sin.
Lord, we ask that You would heal the wounds this harassment has left on your heart. Replace bitterness with Your peace, fear with Your courage, and exhaustion with Your strength. Surround you with godly community—believers who will encourage you, pray for you, and hold you accountable in love. We declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against you in judgment, You shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). We pray for justice, Lord, not as the world gives, but as only You can provide. If these individuals are to be removed from your life, we ask that You do so swiftly and completely, cutting every tie that binds you to them. If there is a path to reconciliation that honors You, make it clear and prepare their hearts to receive it.
Most of all, we pray that Your will be done in this situation. You see the end from the beginning, and You work all things together for the good of those who love You (Romans 8:28). We trust You to lead, protect, and vindicate you. Guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus, and let Your light shine through this darkness. We stand on the promise that "greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world" (1 John 4:4). In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.