We hear your urgent cries and the deep longings of your heart, longings for provision, protection, family unity, and God’s favor. Your words carry a sense of desperation, and we want to meet you with the truth and love of Scripture. First, we must address the way you are approaching God in this prayer. While your passion is evident, we must gently correct some things to align with God’s Word.
You speak of "claiming," "decreeing," and "demanding" as if these are ways to manipulate God or force His hand. Scripture teaches us that we do not command God, He commands us. We come to Him in humility, surrender, and faith, not with formulas or incantations. Jesus taught us to pray, "Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven" (Matthew 6:10 WEB). Our prayers should seek God’s will, not our own demands. The power is not in our words or declarations but in the blood of Jesus, which you rightly mention. It is only through His sacrifice that we have access to the Father, and it is only by His name that we are saved (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). We must approach God with reverence, not as if He is a genie who grants our wishes.
You also mention Haggai 1:6-8, which says:
"You have sown much, and bring in little. You eat, but you don’t have enough. You drink, but you aren’t filled with drink. You clothe yourselves, but no one is warm, and he who earns wages earns wages to put them into a bag with holes. Yahweh of Armies says: ‘Consider your ways. Go up to the mountain, bring wood, and build the house; and I will take pleasure in it, and I will be glorified,’ says Yahweh."
This passage is a call to prioritize God’s kingdom and His purposes above our own desires. It is not a promise that God will fill our bags with material wealth if we simply "declare" it. Instead, it is an invitation to seek Him first, and then He will provide what we truly need (Matthew 6:33). Your focus on material provision, land, jobs, shipments, Venmo accounts, must not overshadow the deeper spiritual truth: God cares for you, but His greatest desire is for you to trust Him, not just for things, but for His presence and His will in your life.
Now, let us address the specifics of your prayer with biblical truth and correction where needed.
You ask for a "Boaz" for yourself and your children, not a "Bozo." We understand this as a desire for godly, faithful spouses. This is a good and biblical desire! Scripture tells us, "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from Yahweh" (Proverbs 18:22 WEB). However, we must emphasize that marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman, as God designed (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Any relationship outside of this design, including same-sex relationships, is not in alignment with God’s Word. If you or your children are pursuing relationships, they must be with fellow believers who share your faith in Christ and are committed to marriage as God intended. Courtship should always have marriage as its goal, not just companionship or temporary fulfillment.
You also mention your pets and their well-being. While we can pray for God’s blessing on all His creation, we must remember that our primary focus should be on the souls of people, our own, our spouses, our children, and those around us. Animals are a part of God’s creation, but they are not equal to human life, which is made in God’s image (Genesis 1:27). We can ask God to bring peace and harmony to your home, including among your pets, but we must not elevate them above the spiritual needs of your family.
Your request for a job in another state or country is understandable, especially if you are seeking better opportunities. Scripture encourages us to work diligently and trust God for provision: "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men" (Colossians 3:23 WEB). However, we must also remember that God’s timing is perfect, and His plans for us may not always align with our urgency. We should seek His will above all else, trusting that He knows what is best for us and our families.
You mention "uncommon favor" and ask for it permanently. While God does bless His children, we must be careful not to treat His favor as something we can claim or demand. Favor comes from walking in obedience to Him, not from our own declarations. "The Lord’s loving kindnesses indeed never cease, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness" (Lamentations 3:22-23 WEB). His favor is already upon you if you are in Christ, but it is not a guarantee of a life without trials or challenges.
We must also address the tone of your prayer, which includes phrases like "no crap captain," "rock crap man," and other language that does not reflect the reverence we should have before God. Scripture tells us, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear" (Ephesians 4:29 WEB). Our words should be seasoned with grace, even in our prayers.
Now, let us pray together in a way that aligns with God’s Word and His heart for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we can be saved and through which we have access to You. Lord, we lift up this sister and her family to You. You know the desires of her heart, her longing for provision, for godly spouses for herself and her children, for harmony in her home, and for Your favor and blessing. We ask that You would meet her needs according to Your riches in glory in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19).
Father, we pray for her marriage. If she is single, we ask that You would bring a godly man into her life, a man who loves You above all else and who will cherish and lead her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). If she is married, we pray that You would strengthen her marriage, heal any brokenness, and restore love and unity. Help her and her spouse to honor You in their relationship and to reflect Your love to one another.
For her children, we pray that You would prepare godly spouses for them, men and women who will walk in Your ways and lead their families in righteousness. Guard their hearts from the temptations of this world, and draw them closer to You each day.
Lord, we ask for Your provision in her life. Open doors for employment that align with Your will, whether in her current location or elsewhere. Give her wisdom to discern Your leading and the courage to follow where You call. Provide for her financial needs and restore anything that has been lost or stolen, as You promise to restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25).
Father, we pray for peace in her home. Bring harmony among her pets and among her family members. Help her to cultivate an atmosphere of love, patience, and kindness. If there is any strife or division, we ask that You would heal it and bring unity.
Lord, we also pray for her spiritual growth. Help her to seek You first above all else, trusting in Your timing and Your plans. Teach her to pray with humility and faith, not with demands or declarations, but with a heart that surrenders to Your will. Fill her with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and remind her that You are her Provider, her Protector, and her Shepherd.
We rebuke any spirit of fear, lack, or anxiety that may be trying to take hold of her heart. We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her (Romans 8:37), and that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We pray that she would walk in the fullness of Your blessings, not because she has declared it, but because she is Your beloved child.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would draw her closer to You. Help her to see that You are her greatest treasure, and that in You, she has everything she needs. May she find her joy and satisfaction in You alone, and may her life bring glory to Your name.
We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to continue seeking God, not just for what He can give you, but for who He is. Spend time in His Word, meditating on His promises and allowing them to shape your heart. Trust in His timing, even when it feels urgent to you. Remember that God’s ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts are higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). He loves you deeply, and He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
If you have not already, we urge you to surrender your life fully to Jesus Christ. Confess your sins, repent, and ask Him to be the Lord of your life. Only then can you experience the fullness of His love, peace, and provision. If you have already done this, continue to grow in your relationship with Him, seeking His will above all else.
You are not alone in your struggles. God sees you, He hears you, and He cares for you. Keep pressing into Him, and He will guide your steps.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
