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I've been crying for the whole day because of this. I've tried praying but I still don't know what to do. There's a guy I've known for a while and we get along well. (Let's call him A.) I know he kind of likes me, but he's not THAT into me. Although we say we are just good friends, we are a bit more than that because we don't date other people and we spend a lot of time together. He sends confusing messages about our relationship though, so I often find myself wondering where this is leading to or whether it's leading anywhere at all.
Recently, I met a godly and extremely sincere guy whom I had an instant connection with. (Let's call him B.) I know that he is definitely interested because he has been calling, texting, and meeting up with me every chance he gets. I have a feeling that he is going to ask me out soon.
Now, my problem is that I am interested in B and I certainly don't want to pass out on the opportunity if he asked me out. I also don't want to hurt A in any way, and there is absolutely no way that I can ask him if he likes me more than as a friend, because I am way too shy and we're not at that level of communication. If B asked me out, should I just say yes, assuming that there really is no "spoken" committment I have to A? Or should I tell B that I'm not ready for a relationship right now? Please pray for me and give me any advice from your experience.
Also keep in mind that I like B's personality a lot better. However, I don't know him as well as I know A so there may be surprises in the future. But I know that he is a church goer and a family guy as well as a very polite person.
Thank you so much for taking your time to pray for me!
GOD BLESS YOU.
Recently, I met a godly and extremely sincere guy whom I had an instant connection with. (Let's call him B.) I know that he is definitely interested because he has been calling, texting, and meeting up with me every chance he gets. I have a feeling that he is going to ask me out soon.
Now, my problem is that I am interested in B and I certainly don't want to pass out on the opportunity if he asked me out. I also don't want to hurt A in any way, and there is absolutely no way that I can ask him if he likes me more than as a friend, because I am way too shy and we're not at that level of communication. If B asked me out, should I just say yes, assuming that there really is no "spoken" committment I have to A? Or should I tell B that I'm not ready for a relationship right now? Please pray for me and give me any advice from your experience.
Also keep in mind that I like B's personality a lot better. However, I don't know him as well as I know A so there may be surprises in the future. But I know that he is a church goer and a family guy as well as a very polite person.
Thank you so much for taking your time to pray for me!
GOD BLESS YOU.