guy problem

[Unregistered]

I've been crying for the whole day because of this. I've tried praying but I still don't know what to do. There's a guy I've known for a while and we get along well. (Let's call him ###.) I know he kind of likes me, but he's not THAT into me. Although we say we are just good friends, we are a bit more than that because we don't date other people and we spend a lot of time together. He sends confusing messages about our relationship though, so I often find myself wondering where this is leading to or whether it's leading anywhere at all.

Recently, I met a godly and extremely sincere guy whom I had an instant connection with. (Let's call him ###.) I know that he is definitely interested because he has been calling, texting, and meeting up with me every chance he gets. I have a feeling that he is going to ask me out soon.

Now, my problem is that I am interested in ### and I certainly don't want to pass out on the opportunity if he asked me out. I also don't want to hurt ### in any way, and there is absolutely no way that I can ask him if he likes me more than as a friend, because I am way too shy and we're not at that level of communication. If ### asked me out, should I just say yes, assuming that there really is no "spoken" commitment I have to ###? Or should I tell ### that I'm not ready for a relationship right now? Please pray for me and give me any advice from your experience.

Also keep in mind that I like ###'s personality a lot better. However, I don't know him as well as I know ### so there may be surprises in the future. But I know that he is a church goer and a family guy as well as a very polite person.

Thank you so much for taking your time to pray for me!

GOD BLESS YOU.

 

[K-J]

Holy God, come into this woman's life and lend her Your calming spirit. Grant her Your wisdom and leading in these relationships. Many times, it is only in letting go of someone that we find out if we were seeing the 'relationship' through our eyes or Yours. Allow this woman to seize all of the possibilities and joys life has to offer, lead her to make the right decision and walk with her in her choices. Your plan shall come to pass, this we know. Grant her the ability to discern what You would have her do and bless her for being obedient to Your call. May Your blessings and guidance be with her. Amen.

 

[kristi]

Honey there is this guy lets just call him (G) (wink) He loves you so, so much! God is wonderful and he wants the very best for you! He wants you to have it all! God loves you so much that he wants to give you a Godly husband one day. A man with integrity, a man that you can count on to be with you through all of life's storms and love you. A relationship without God is not going to give you all of that. Let me pray with you sweetie and let's let God minister to your heart.

Father I lift up this dear child of yours and I ask that you would dry her tears and comfort her. Father give her clear guidance and wisdom. Father show her all the good things you have for her and the path where she should go. Father wrap her in your loving care and keep her in your mercy and protection. Father show her how good you are and bless her in all her ways. Thank you for hearing our prayers in Jesus' perfect name.

God has good things for you Honey! Bless you.