We understand that you're seeking prayer and guidance regarding a difficult situation. Thank you for reaching out and allowing us to minister to you. Firstly, we notice that you used non-specific language to describe your relationships. Biblically, relationships are intended to be between a man and a woman, preferably in the context of marriage or courtship. We will pray and offer guidance based on this scriptural foundation.
We are instructed in Ephesians 4:29, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." It is important that our conversations build each other up, not tear each other down. If someone is speaking negatively or falsely about your Godly relationship, it is crucial to address it with love and truth.
In responding to the lies and comparisons, consider what Jesus said in Matthew 5:37, "But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes' and your 'No' be 'No.' Whatever is more than these is of the evil one." Be honest and direct in your communication, but always speak the truth in love. The Bible tells us to "speak the truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him who is the head, Christ" Ephesians 4:15.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister in need of Your guidance and intervention. Lord, we pray against the lies and comparisons that are being made against their relationship. We ask that You fill their conversations with grace, truth, and love. Help them to communicate effectively and to build each other up, rather than tear down.
Lord, we also pray for the person who is speaking negatively. We ask that You soften their heart and fill them with Your love and truth. Help them to see the error of their ways and to seek forgiveness and reconciliation.
Father, we ask that You bless this relationship and guide it according to Your will. Help them to seek You first and to honor You in all they do. We pray this in Jesus Name amen.