We join you in lifting up your heartfelt requests before the Lord, knowing that He is faithful to hear and answer those who seek Him in truth. It is encouraging to see you turning to Jesus in the midst of your trials, for He alone is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. As you seek His face, remember the words of **Psalm 46:1-3 (WEB)**, *"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we won’t be afraid, though the earth changes, though the mountains are shaken into the heart of the seas; though its waters roar and are troubled, though the mountains tremble with their swelling."*
Your request for your loved ones is heavy on our hearts, and we must address it with both compassion and biblical clarity. While we deeply desire for all to come to repentance and a saving relationship with Jesus Christ, we also recognize that Scripture calls us to honor the covenant of marriage as designed by God—one man and one woman united for life. If the "%23%23%" in your request refers to someone outside of a biblical marriage covenant (such as a romantic relationship that is not a godly courtship leading toward marriage, or any relationship that contradicts God's design), we urge you to examine this carefully in light of Scripture. **2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If this relationship is not aligned with God’s Word—whether through fornication, emotional dependency outside of marriage, or any other compromise—we must pray for repentance and realignment with His will. True love seeks what is holy and pleasing to God above all else.
If this is a family member or friend, we will certainly join you in praying for their salvation and deliverance. However, if this is a romantic relationship that is not centered on Christ or is outside of marriage, we must lovingly but firmly encourage you to seek God’s design for relationships. **1 Corinthians 7:2 (WEB)** says, *"But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband."* If you are not married, the biblical path is to honor God with your body and emotions, pursuing a godly courtship with the intent of marriage to a believer. Anything less is not God’s best and opens the door to spiritual attack, as you’ve described.
We also note that your prayer does not explicitly invoke the name of Jesus Christ, though we see your heart is turned toward Him. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father and authority over the enemy. **John 14:6 (WEB)** declares, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"*) And **Acts 4:12 (WEB)** affirms, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* Let us always approach the throne of grace boldly in His name, for He is our advocate and intercessor.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You that You are sovereign over every storm, every trial, and every battle we face. Lord, we lift up our brother/sister who is seeking Your guidance and strength in the midst of their struggles. Father, we ask that You would anchor their heart in Your truth, that they would fix their eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of their faith. When the winds and waves rise, let them hear Your voice saying, *"Peace, be still,"* and may they trust You completely.
Lord, we pray for the loved ones on their heart. If they are family or friends who do not know You, we ask that You would soften their hearts to receive the gospel. Break the strongholds of the enemy in their lives and draw them to Yourself, Lord Jesus. Let them encounter Your love and truth in a way that leaves no room for doubt. Raise up godly influences in their lives to speak Your word to them, and give our brother/sister the wisdom and courage to share Your truth in love.
But Father, if this relationship is not aligned with Your Word—if it is a romantic involvement outside of marriage or with an unbeliever—we ask for Your conviction and mercy. Reveal any sin or compromise, and grant the strength to walk in repentance and obedience. Lord, You desire holiness for Your children, and we pray that any ungodly soul ties would be broken by the power of the Holy Spirit. If this relationship is not Your will, we ask that You would redirect their heart toward a godly spouse, a believer who will cherish and honor You in marriage. Let them seek first Your kingdom and trust You with their future.
We rebuke every demonic influence and evil spirit that seeks to bring argument, division, or confusion. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command these spirits to flee and be silenced. No weapon formed against Your plan for this life shall prosper. Lord, surround them with Your angels, and let Your peace guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
Father, we pray for Your perfect will to be fulfilled in their life. Open doors that no one can shut, and close doors that are not of You. Give them clarity, discernment, and a heart fully submitted to Your leadership. Let them walk in the good works You have prepared for them, and may their life bring glory to Your name.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your faithfulness and love, knowing that You work all things together for the good of those who love You and are called according to Your purpose. Strengthen them, encourage them, and let them see Your hand moving in their life. We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture, especially during this season. **Psalm 119:105 (WEB)** tells us, *"Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light for my path."* Spend time in prayer, worship, and fellowship with other believers who can speak truth and life into your situation. If there is any area of your life that is not fully surrendered to Christ—including relationships—ask the Holy Spirit to search your heart and lead you into repentance. He is faithful to forgive and cleanse us when we confess our sins (**1 John 1:9**).
Stand firm in the faith, knowing that the battles you face are not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces. **Ephesians 6:10-13 (WEB)** reminds us to *"Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore, put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and, having done all, to stand."* Clothe yourself in His armor daily, and trust that He who began a good work in you will complete it (**Philippians 1:6**). You are not alone in this fight—we are standing with you in prayer, and the Lord is your ever-present help.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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