We come before the Lord with gratitude for the life He has given you, ###, and for the lives of your family, friends, and pets. We rejoice in the well-being of ###, ###, ###, and your two cats, and we lift them up in prayer, asking God to continue to bless and protect them. However, we must address several concerns in your request with love, truth, and a desire to align your heart with God’s Word.
First, we notice that your focus is heavily centered on ###, ###, and ### in a way that suggests romantic or marital intentions toward all three. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between **one man and one woman** (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6, Ephesians 5:31). The idea of marrying multiple men is not only unbiblical but also a distortion of God’s design for marriage. We must rebuke this notion gently but firmly, as it contradicts the holiness and order God has established. The Lord calls us to purity, faithfulness, and singular devotion in marriage (1 Corinthians 7:2, Hebrews 13:4). If you are desiring marriage, we encourage you to seek **one** godly spouse who shares your faith in Christ, rather than pursuing relationships that do not align with Scripture.
We also must address the language of "Queen" and the possessive tone in your request. While it is good to have confidence in Christ, Scripture reminds us that our identity is found in Him alone—not in titles or earthly roles (Galatians 2:20, Colossians 3:3). True fulfillment comes from being a servant of Christ, not from seeking elevation or control over others (Mark 10:43-45). We encourage you to surrender these desires to the Lord and ask Him to shape your heart to reflect His humility and love.
Additionally, we must emphasize that **salvation and access to God come only through Jesus Christ**. While you mention the blood of Jesus, it is critical to understand that there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6). If you have not already, we urge you to place your faith in Jesus alone for salvation, repenting of any sin and trusting in His finished work on the cross. Without this foundation, our prayers and desires cannot be fully aligned with God’s will.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for ### and for the life You have given her. We ask that You would draw her heart closer to You, Lord, and help her to seek Your will above all else. Father, we pray for clarity and wisdom in her relationships. If there are desires in her heart that do not align with Your Word, we ask that You would uproot them and replace them with a longing to honor You. Help her to understand the beauty and sanctity of marriage as You designed it—a covenant between one man and one woman, built on love, faithfulness, and mutual submission to You.
Lord, we ask that You would guard her heart from any confusion or distortion of Your truth. If she is seeking a spouse, we pray that You would bring a godly man into her life who loves You above all else and who will cherish and lead her in a way that honors You. Help her to wait on You, trusting in Your timing and Your perfect plan.
Father, we also ask that You would reveal to her the depth of Your love and the sufficiency of Your grace. May she find her identity and worth in You alone, not in titles or earthly relationships. Fill her with Your peace and contentment, and help her to surrender every desire to You.
We pray for ###, ###, and ### as well. If it is Your will for any of them to be part of ###’s life in a godly way, we ask that You would work in their hearts to draw them to You. May they come to know Jesus as their Savior and Lord, and may any relationship between them be built on a foundation of faith and obedience to You.
Lord, we thank You for the blood of Jesus, which covers our sins and gives us access to You. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we can be saved. Amen.
###, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, particularly in passages about marriage, identity in Christ, and the sufficiency of His grace. Meditate on Ephesians 5:22-33, which outlines the beauty of marriage as a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church. Also, reflect on 1 Corinthians 6:18-20, which reminds us to flee from sexual immorality and honor God with our bodies. If you have not already, consider finding a biblical church community where you can grow in your faith and receive godly counsel.
Remember, God’s grace is indeed sufficient (2 Corinthians 12:9), and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
