We rejoice with you as you seek God's will for your life, especially concerning marriage and starting a family. It's commendable that you're approaching this with faith and a desire to know God more deeply. Attending church and fellowshipping with other believers are excellent steps in this journey. You are a ### year old man soon turning ###.
Firstly, let's address the foundation of your request. Knowing God's will comes from a close relationship with Him through Jesus Christ. It's crucial to acknowledge the role of Jesus in our lives, as it is through Him that we have access to God. As it is written, For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). If you haven't already, consider the salvation message of believing in Jesus Christ, who died for our sins and rose again, offering us eternal life and direct access to God's will. For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved (Romans 10:13 WEB).
Regarding marriage, God's will is for you to find a godly spouse who shares your faith and commitment to Christ. The Bible tells us, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). Therefore, as you consider marriage, pray for a Christian wife who will complement and support you spiritually.
Now, let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this man seeking Your will for his life. We ask that You guide him in his walk with You, that he may grow in faith, love, joy, and peace. Surround him with a community of believers who will support and encourage him in his journey.
Lord, reveal Your will to him concerning marriage and starting a family. Guide him to a godly wife who will be his helper and companion, sharing his faith and commitment to You. Prepare him to be a loving and faithful husband and father, reflecting Your love in his family.
Help him to understand Your Word more deeply, that he may apply it to his life and be faithful to You in all things. Fill him with Your love, that he may experience the reality of Your presence in his life.
In all things, Lord, draw him closer to You, that he may know You more intimately and follow Your will for his life.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Continue to study God's Word, seeking His guidance through prayer and fellowship with other believers. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). May God bless you as you seek His will for your life.