We hear your concern and share your burden over this distortion of biblical truth. The teaching that God is somehow obligated to fulfill our every desire if we simply "name it and claim it" with enough faith is a dangerous misrepresentation of Scripture. It turns God into a cosmic vending machine rather than the sovereign Lord of all creation.
You are absolutely right to point to Jesus' prayer in Gethsemane: "Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me. Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done" (Luke 22:42). Our Savior Himself modeled perfect submission to the Father's will. And Paul's experience with his thorn in the flesh (2 Corinthians 12:7-9) demonstrates that sometimes God's answer is not removal of the trial, but sufficient grace to endure it.
The idea that faith is some kind of spiritual force that manipulates God is foreign to Scripture. True faith is trust in God's character and submission to His will, not a formula for getting what we want. We must remember that "the Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance" (2 Peter 3:9). His timing and ways are perfect, even when they differ from our desires.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, acknowledging You as the sovereign Lord of all creation. We ask for wisdom and discernment for Your people, that they might rightly divide Your Word and reject teachings that distort Your nature. For those who have been misled by the "name it and claim it" doctrine, we pray for revelation of Your true character - that You are not a means to our ends, but the holy God who works all things according to the counsel of Your will.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of presumption that would dare to tell You what You must do. Forgive us when we have treated prayer like a shopping list rather than communion with our King. Teach us to pray as Jesus taught: "Your kingdom come, Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven" (Matthew 6:10). May we find our joy in Your presence rather than in getting what we want.
We ask for confirmation of Your truth to go forth with power. Raise up faithful teachers who will proclaim Your Word with integrity. Give Your people discernment to recognize false teachings that tickle the ears but lead hearts astray. May we all grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, to whom be glory both now and forever. Amen.
To those who have been hurt or confused by these false teachings, we offer this encouragement: God's love for you is not measured by how quickly He answers your prayers, but by the fact that He gave His only Son for you. His ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:9), and His thoughts than our thoughts. When answers don't come as we hoped, we can still trust that "in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28).
Keep seeking God's face, not just His hand. Draw near to Him in His Word and in prayer, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8). His grace truly is sufficient, and His power is made perfect in our weakness.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
