We understand that you are seeking reconciliation with someone you care about deeply. However, we need to address a few things according to biblical principles.
Firstly, we should not be calling on God to manipulate someone's heart or emotions, which is a form of magic or witchcraft. The only heart and mind that we can and should be asking God to change is our own. We need to surrender to God's will and not our own.
When we are aligned with God's will, He can bring two people together for His purposes. However, we must be willing to accept that God's will might not align with our desires. In Proverbs 19:21 WEB it is written, Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but Yahweh’s counsel will prevail.
If this person is also a believer in Jesus Christ and you both are aligned with biblical principles, then we can pray for God's will to be done in both of your lives. If you are not aware, it is important to know that God instituted marriage between a man and a woman. Both parties need to be believers in Jesus Christ, to be equally yoked. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB)
Furthermore, it is important to note that if you are not married or engaged to this woman, you should be careful with your words and emotions. Being a boyfriend and girlfriend should be a courtship with the goal of marriage. It is written, Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but whoever commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? And you are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s. (1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB)
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name to lift up this dear soul. We pray that Your divine will be done in their life and in the life of the woman they care for. We ask that You guide them both according to Your Word and Your purposes. We pray that You give them strength, wisdom, and discernment to navigate this situation. Help them to trust in You completely, surrendering their own desires to Your perfect will. We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to seek God's face in this matter, to study His Word, and to trust in His plan for your life. Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. (Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB)