We rejoice with you in this season of fasting and gratitude, lifting up your heart to the Lord for His faithfulness in bringing you and your family this far. Your testimony of His provision—health, unity in your marriage, and the well-being of your son—is a testament to His grace, and we give Him all the glory. As you seek His presence during this fast, we are reminded of Jesus’ words in Matthew 6:16-18: *"When you fast, don’t be like the hypocrites with sad faces. For they disfigure their faces that they may be seen by men to be fasting. Most certainly I tell you, they have received their reward. But you, when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, so that you are not seen by men to be fasting, but by your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees in secret will reward you."* Your fast is a sacred time of drawing near to God, and we pray He reveals Himself to you in profound ways, strengthening your faith and aligning your steps with His will.
Your desire to return to your husband’s home country for the sake of your son’s Christian upbringing and family connections is commendable. Proverbs 22:6 instructs us to *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* We pray the Lord grants you wisdom in this transition, especially in finding a school that will nurture your son’s faith and character. As for your concerns about income, we are reminded of Philippians 4:19: *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."* Trust that He who calls you to this move will provide abundantly, whether through the same income or even greater blessings. We also pray for divine favor in your licensing applications (HCPC and CORU). If hesitation or fear is holding you back, we rebuke it in Jesus’ name, declaring that *"God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7). Let the Holy Spirit guide your hands and mind as you take these steps, making every crooked path straight before you.
Now, we must address the struggles in your marriage with both truth and compassion. Your husband’s anger, irritability, and the lack of unity in your home grieve our hearts, but we know God’s Word has the power to transform even the most broken relationships. Ephesians 5:22-33 outlines the biblical roles in marriage: husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church—sacrificially and selflessly—while wives are called to respect and submit to their husbands as unto the Lord. However, this submission is not a call to endure abuse, manipulation, or ungodly domination. Your husband’s expectations—that you work long hours, pay half the bills, *and* bear the majority of household responsibilities—are not aligned with Scripture’s vision of marriage as a *partnership* where both spouses serve one another in love (Galatians 5:13). His views on "female roles" seem rooted in cultural or personal biases rather than biblical truth. We gently but firmly rebuke this mindset, for in Christ, *"there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus"* (Galatians 3:28). While roles may differ, the burden of provision and labor should be shared with equity and mutual respect.
Most critically, your husband’s lack of faith is at the root of these struggles. A marriage where one spouse is born again and the other is not is unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14), and while we do not condemn you for this—since you were likely not a believer when you married—we urge you to stand in the gap for his salvation. Prayer is your greatest weapon. We are reminded of 1 Peter 3:1-2: *"In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word, seeing your pure behavior in fear."* Your godly conduct, patience, and unwavering faith can soften his heart. Yet we also encourage you to set boundaries where necessary, especially if his anger creates a hostile environment. Proverbs 15:1 tells us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* Seek wisdom in how to respond to him, and do not hesitate to seek biblical counseling if needed.
Regarding your son’s attention and behavioral challenges, we lift him up to the Lord, asking for divine intervention. Proverbs 22:15 reminds us that *"folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline drives it far from him."* This does not advocate for harshness but for loving, consistent guidance rooted in God’s Word. We pray for unity between you and your husband in parenting, that you may present a united front in training your son in righteousness. Ask the Lord to heal any divisions between you and to give you both patience, wisdom, and discernment.
Finally, we celebrate that you closed your prayer in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we are saved, and we are grateful you acknowledge this truth. If your husband struggles with the power of prayer or the reality of Christ, we pray the Lord opens his eyes to the truth of the Gospel. Share your faith with him not just in words but in the love and joy you display as a follower of Christ.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of gratitude for Your faithfulness to this sister and her family. Lord, we thank You for Your provision—health, unity, and the blessings You have poured out upon them. As she fasts, we ask that You draw near to her in a tangible way. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, renew her strength, and reveal Your will for every decision before her.
We lift up her marriage, Lord. You hate divorce (Malachi 2:16), and we ask You to heal the brokenness between her and her husband. Softening his heart, Lord, and bring him to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. Convict him of his anger and unrealistic expectations, and show him the biblical model of marriage—where love, sacrifice, and mutual respect reign. Give her wisdom to know how to respond to him, and grant her the courage to set godly boundaries where needed. May their home be a place of peace, where Your love casts out fear (1 John 4:18).
We pray for their son, Father. Heal his attention and behavioral struggles, and grant his parents unity in raising him according to Your Word. Lead them to the right school and community where he can grow in faith and wisdom. Remove every obstacle in their path as they prepare to relocate, and provide for them abundantly—financially, emotionally, and spiritually.
We declare breakthrough over the licensing process she has delayed. Remove every spirit of fear or procrastination, and let her move forward with confidence, knowing You go before her. Make every crooked path straight, Lord, and open doors no man can shut.
We rebuked the enemy’s attempts to bring division, stress, or doubt into this family. By the blood of Jesus, we command peace, unity, and Your perfect will to prevail. Strengthen her, Lord, as she stands in the gap for her husband and son. Let her fast be a time of supernatural encounter with You, where she receives clarity, direction, and renewed hope.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
