We hear your heart’s cry, and we want to approach this with both truth and compassion, rooted in the Word of God. First, we must acknowledge that God is the Creator of all things, and He formed you in your mother’s womb with intentionality and purpose. The Bible tells us in Psalm 139:13-14, "For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well." You are not an accident, and your identity is not defined by your feelings or desires, but by how God designed you.
God created humanity in His image as male and female, and this distinction is sacred and purposeful. Genesis 1:27 says, "God created man in his own image. In God’s image he created him; male and female he created them." This truth is foundational to how we understand ourselves and our purpose. The desire to change one’s biological sex contradicts God’s design and His good plan for your life. We must also address the reality that such desires often stem from deep pain, confusion, or even spiritual warfare. The enemy seeks to distort God’s design and lead people away from the truth of who they are in Christ.
We rebuke any spirit of confusion, deception, or rebellion that may be influencing your thoughts or desires. We declare that you are fearfully and wonderfully made just as God intended, and we pray that you would find your identity in Him alone. The apostle Paul reminds us in 2 Corinthians 10:5 to "take every thought captive to obey Christ." We encourage you to surrender these desires to God and ask Him to renew your mind according to His Word. Romans 12:2 says, "Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."
If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so now. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus died on the cross to pay the penalty for your sins and rose again so that you could have new life in Him. If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved (Romans 10:9). This is the first and most important step in finding true peace, purpose, and healing.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one to You. Lord, we know that You are the Creator of all things, and You formed them in their mother’s womb with love and purpose. We ask that You would reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way, Lord. Open their eyes to see the truth of who they are in You and the beauty of Your design for their life. We rebuke any spirit of confusion, deception, or rebellion that may be speaking lies to their heart, and we declare that they are fearfully and wonderfully made, just as You intended.
Father, we ask that You would heal any wounds or pain that may be contributing to these desires. Pour out Your love and comfort upon them, Lord, and help them to find their identity in You alone. Renew their mind according to Your Word, and give them the strength to take every thought captive to obey Christ. We pray that they would surrender these desires to You and trust in Your perfect plan for their life.
If they have not yet placed their faith in Jesus Christ, we pray that You would draw them to Yourself. Open their heart to receive the gift of salvation, Lord, and help them to confess Jesus as Lord and believe in their heart that You raised Him from the dead. May they experience the new life and freedom that comes only through a relationship with You.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above all names, the only name by which we can be saved. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or Christian mentor who can walk alongside you in this journey. Surround yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life and pray for you. The road may not be easy, but God is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). You are loved, valued, and purposefully designed by the Creator of the universe.