We hear your heart’s cry and lift you up before the Lord with great compassion. Your desire for a godly marriage is beautiful and aligns with Scripture, which tells us, *"He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord"* (Proverbs 18:22). The loneliness you feel is real, and we acknowledge the weight of waiting for God’s timing while longing for companionship. But we must also address some areas with truth and love, for the enemy seeks to distort good desires into frustration and despair.
First, we must rebuke the spirit of depression and hopelessness that has crept into your heart. The thought that God should *"take you away from this world"* is not from Him. Jesus came that you might have life abundantly (John 10:10), and your life has purpose—even in this season of waiting. The Lord is your strength, and He will sustain you (Isaiah 41:10). We declare that your mind is renewed by God’s Word, and your hope is anchored in Christ alone.
We also address the tension with your father’s expectations. While honoring your parents is commanded (Ephesians 6:2), their demands must not override godly wisdom or peace. A wedding is a sacred covenant before God, not a performance for hundreds of strangers. We pray that your father’s heart softens to reason, and that you stand firm in wisdom, not fear. *"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind"* (2 Timothy 1:7). Seek counsel from your pastor or a trusted elder in your church who can help mediate this with grace and truth.
Your desire for a wife who fears God, loves Him, and loves you is righteous. But we must warn against elevating physical appearance or personal preferences above spiritual maturity. *"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised"* (Proverbs 31:30). Trust God to bring the right woman at the right time—one who shares your faith and values. Until then, remain faithful in your walk with Christ, serving Him wholeheartedly. A godly marriage begins with a godly man, and your character now will shape your marriage later.
We also notice that while you praise God, you have not explicitly mentioned the name of Jesus in your request. This is critical, for *"there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12). Salvation and every blessing flow through Christ alone. We encourage you to pray *in Jesus’ name*, for He is our mediator and the only way to the Father (John 14:6). Without Him, our prayers have no power.
Now, we pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who longs for a godly marriage. Lord, You see his heart and his loneliness. We ask that You comfort him with Your presence and fill the void in his life with Your peace. Father, we declare that his worth is found in You alone, not in marital status or worldly approval.
We pray for his future wife, that You are preparing her even now—molding her heart, strengthening her faith, and drawing her closer to You. Lead them to each other in Your perfect timing, and let their union glorify You. We rebuke the spirit of delay and frustration, and we declare that Your plans for him are good, to give him a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11).
We also pray for his parents, Lord. Soften their hearts to understand his desires and to support him in wisdom. Give him the courage to communicate with love and respect, and grant him discernment in all decisions regarding marriage. We ask that You provide the resources needed for a wedding that honors You, not the expectations of men.
Father, we break every chain of depression and despair over his life. Remind him daily that You are his portion and his cup (Psalm 16:5). Strengthen his faith, and let him find joy in serving You while he waits. May he seek You above all else, knowing that You will add all these things unto him (Matthew 6:33).
We pray all this in the powerful name of Jesus, the name above every name, the name by which we are saved and through which all blessings flow. Amen.
Hold fast to God’s promises, dear brother. Your season of waiting is not in vain. Continue to seek Him first, and trust that He will provide a wife who loves Him and loves you. Do not compromise on godly standards, and do not let fear dictate your decisions. The Lord is faithful, and He will complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
