GodMyAdvocate
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Jesus knows I did not disrespect ###. Do not allow her to mistreat me, father God. She is my aunt. Reconcile, forgive and love without wasting time. No stubborn. No anger. Jesus amen..
God be my advocate and truth
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We understand your heart’s cry for justice, reconciliation, and peace in this difficult situation with your ###. It is clear you desire God’s intervention, and we join you in seeking His will, knowing that He is a God of truth, justice, and restoration. The pain of being mistreated—especially by family—can feel overwhelming, but we must remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of division and bitterness. As believers, we are called to respond in a way that honors Christ, even when we have been wronged.
The Scriptures remind us in **Colossians 3:12-13 (WEB)**, *“Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, even as Christ forgave you. And above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfectness.”* This does not mean we ignore injustice or allow mistreatment to continue, but it does mean we must examine our own hearts first. Have you extended forgiveness, even if she has not asked for it? Forgiveness is not excusing wrongdoing—it is releasing the debt to God, who judges righteously. **Romans 12:18-19 (WEB)** tells us, *“If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’”*
At the same time, we must also address any hint of bitterness or demand in our prayers. While it is right to ask God to defend us, we must surrender the *how* and *when* to His wisdom. Your prayer for reconciliation is good, but we must also pray for *her* heart to be softened—not just for her to stop mistreating you, but for God to work in her life in a way that leads to repentance. **2 Timothy 2:24-26 (WEB)** says, *“The Lord’s servant must not quarrel, but be gentle towards all, able to teach, patient, in gentleness correcting those who oppose him: perhaps God may give them repentance leading to a full knowledge of the truth, and they may recover themselves out of the devil’s snare, having been taken captive by him to his will.”* This is our hope—for her to be freed from whatever hardness or deception may be driving her actions.
Now, let us pray together over this situation:
*Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You see the pain and injustice they have endured. Lord, You are the God who defends the oppressed and brings truth to light. We ask that You would be their Advocate, just as Your Word promises in **1 John 2:1 (WEB)**, where Jesus Christ the Righteous is our advocate before You. Father, if there has been any misunderstanding or unintentional offense on their part, reveal it and grant them the humility to make it right. But where they have been wronged, we ask for Your justice—not for vengeance, but for restoration.
Softening the heart of their ### is beyond human ability, but nothing is impossible for You. We pray that You would break down the walls of stubbornness, anger, or pride that stand between them. Convict her by Your Holy Spirit, Lord, and draw her to repentance. Let Your love, which is patient and kind, flow through our brother/sister as they interact with her. Give them wisdom to know when to speak, when to listen, and when to set boundaries in a way that honors You.
We rebuke any spirit of division, bitterness, or strife that may be at work in this family. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command these forces to flee, and we ask for Your peace—which surpasses all understanding—to guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (**Philippians 4:7**). Let this situation be a testimony of Your grace, Father, where reconciliation triumphs over conflict and love overcomes offense.
Finally, we declare that no weapon formed against our brother/sister shall prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**), and that You, Lord, will turn what the enemy meant for harm into good (**Genesis 50:20**). May Your will be done in this family, and may Your name be glorified through it all. We ask this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.*
As you wait on the Lord, we encourage you to **do good even when it is hard** (**Romans 12:20-21**). If there is an opportunity to serve your ### or show kindness without enabling sin, take it. Sometimes actions speak louder than words. But also be wise—if she continues in mistreatment, it may be necessary to set boundaries while still praying for her. Trust that God sees your heart and will honor your obedience.
Lastly, we gently remind you that prayers are most powerful when offered *in the name of Jesus*. You ended your prayer with “Jesus amen,” which is good, but we want to emphasize that our access to the Father is *only* through Christ (**John 14:6, 1 Timothy 2:5**). There is no other name by which we are saved, and no other name that carries the authority to move mountains (**Acts 4:12**). Keep your focus on Him, and He will guide you through this trial. Stay steadfast in prayer, and may the Lord grant you peace as you trust in Him.
The Scriptures remind us in **Colossians 3:12-13 (WEB)**, *“Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, even as Christ forgave you. And above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfectness.”* This does not mean we ignore injustice or allow mistreatment to continue, but it does mean we must examine our own hearts first. Have you extended forgiveness, even if she has not asked for it? Forgiveness is not excusing wrongdoing—it is releasing the debt to God, who judges righteously. **Romans 12:18-19 (WEB)** tells us, *“If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’”*
At the same time, we must also address any hint of bitterness or demand in our prayers. While it is right to ask God to defend us, we must surrender the *how* and *when* to His wisdom. Your prayer for reconciliation is good, but we must also pray for *her* heart to be softened—not just for her to stop mistreating you, but for God to work in her life in a way that leads to repentance. **2 Timothy 2:24-26 (WEB)** says, *“The Lord’s servant must not quarrel, but be gentle towards all, able to teach, patient, in gentleness correcting those who oppose him: perhaps God may give them repentance leading to a full knowledge of the truth, and they may recover themselves out of the devil’s snare, having been taken captive by him to his will.”* This is our hope—for her to be freed from whatever hardness or deception may be driving her actions.
Now, let us pray together over this situation:
*Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You see the pain and injustice they have endured. Lord, You are the God who defends the oppressed and brings truth to light. We ask that You would be their Advocate, just as Your Word promises in **1 John 2:1 (WEB)**, where Jesus Christ the Righteous is our advocate before You. Father, if there has been any misunderstanding or unintentional offense on their part, reveal it and grant them the humility to make it right. But where they have been wronged, we ask for Your justice—not for vengeance, but for restoration.
Softening the heart of their ### is beyond human ability, but nothing is impossible for You. We pray that You would break down the walls of stubbornness, anger, or pride that stand between them. Convict her by Your Holy Spirit, Lord, and draw her to repentance. Let Your love, which is patient and kind, flow through our brother/sister as they interact with her. Give them wisdom to know when to speak, when to listen, and when to set boundaries in a way that honors You.
We rebuke any spirit of division, bitterness, or strife that may be at work in this family. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command these forces to flee, and we ask for Your peace—which surpasses all understanding—to guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (**Philippians 4:7**). Let this situation be a testimony of Your grace, Father, where reconciliation triumphs over conflict and love overcomes offense.
Finally, we declare that no weapon formed against our brother/sister shall prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**), and that You, Lord, will turn what the enemy meant for harm into good (**Genesis 50:20**). May Your will be done in this family, and may Your name be glorified through it all. We ask this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.*
As you wait on the Lord, we encourage you to **do good even when it is hard** (**Romans 12:20-21**). If there is an opportunity to serve your ### or show kindness without enabling sin, take it. Sometimes actions speak louder than words. But also be wise—if she continues in mistreatment, it may be necessary to set boundaries while still praying for her. Trust that God sees your heart and will honor your obedience.
Lastly, we gently remind you that prayers are most powerful when offered *in the name of Jesus*. You ended your prayer with “Jesus amen,” which is good, but we want to emphasize that our access to the Father is *only* through Christ (**John 14:6, 1 Timothy 2:5**). There is no other name by which we are saved, and no other name that carries the authority to move mountains (**Acts 4:12**). Keep your focus on Him, and He will guide you through this trial. Stay steadfast in prayer, and may the Lord grant you peace as you trust in Him.
We stand with you in this challenging situation, dear friend. We've been praying for you, asking God to be your advocate and to bring truth to light. We've also been interceding for your ###, asking God to soften her heart and bring about reconciliation.
We want to encourage you to keep forgiving, even if she hasn't asked for it. Forgiveness isn't about excusing her actions, but about releasing the debt to God, who judges righteously. It's also important to set boundaries if her mistreatment continues, while still praying for her and showing kindness where possible.
Remember, our battle isn't against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces. So, let's keep our hearts pure and our focus on Jesus. He's our advocate, our peace, and our strength. Trust in Him, and let's keep praying together for justice, forgiveness, and love to reign in your family.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We want to encourage you to keep forgiving, even if she hasn't asked for it. Forgiveness isn't about excusing her actions, but about releasing the debt to God, who judges righteously. It's also important to set boundaries if her mistreatment continues, while still praying for her and showing kindness where possible.
Remember, our battle isn't against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces. So, let's keep our hearts pure and our focus on Jesus. He's our advocate, our peace, and our strength. Trust in Him, and let's keep praying together for justice, forgiveness, and love to reign in your family.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
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