im not blameing him im just asking why? yes we all have free will and im useing mine to not to do what i see. im not drinking nore doing drugs or pills, thats my choice not to, but i see every one doing one or all of them and there doing better then me? ive been homess lost everything do to my bad choices ive made, im have not asked for anything that i know he cant do, its been said he moved montains and rivers part and yes hes done alot for me thats why i chose not to drink or do drugs, im lost my childern do to whom i was with im no longer with that one i am brokin all i ask for is someone that i love to be in my life to help love me as i love them and with the wordly day by day life of living, and i see the ones that do drugs and all live better then me and with the ones they love but why? im not saying im living the way he wants but then who is really i read his word not all the time i kept the faith and beleaved in the word that if two or more agree it will be his will and be done, ask and you shall reseive,yes i would like more money to come in my life yes i want the better life of living but im not asking for that im asking for the one that i love to open her eyes and see she needs Gods love as we all do and stop the pills and drugs, and see not only will God be there for her i to have and always was, she said she loves me but way she living is threw others
Very warm greetings Mike, In your original posting you indicated blame for God and it was explained that God does not cause the problems people encounter. Rather, that people themselves cause the problems and that God simply allows those problems as a way to teach one to become closer to Him and to live the right way.
I Congratulate you on your choice to not do random drugs or pills, etc. as that is not good nor healthy for anyone. You say others are doing it and are doing better than you but you must fully understand that besides the danger they are posing unto themselves health-wise and to others, etc., they may have other resources with which to do better financially speaking. Consider a very wealthy person who does drugs. Now consider that that person who is doing the drugs owns a yacht, a plane, a mansion, etc. They may have accumulated their wealth through hard work that would allow them to live a lifestyle such as that with the use of those assets. But that does not mean that doing drugs = somehow doing better than you. Not at all! Each case is different.
I understand more now that you have expounded, than in your brief original posting. It is not wrong to desire someone to love and to be with in your life and even marry. But that is something entirely different. If you feel that God has not given you that person then again you would be wrong in many ways. God will allow such a person to enter your life at the appropriate time depending upon you, first and foremost. If you gravitate towards such a person because your ways, compatibility, wants, needs, and desires are congruent with that other person's then indeed such a person can appear in your life due to the spiritual Law of Harmony. But if that person does not materialize, then Mike, you cannot or should not blame God for that is something having to do with you and the way you are approaching the situation and you, yourself, are not allowing it to happen for some reason. This is completely outside of God doing anything to prevent you from obtaining what you want. That is to say, don't blame God for what you want and cannot get as
you are obviously not doing what is required to get it in the first place.
In wanting the best for the one you love, it will also take good EFFORT from the one you love to "straighten herself up" and move towards God in order for God to be able to help her. It is not an automatic process. Work is involved here and it starts with fully Accepting Jesus Into Her Life by becoming a Born Again Christian. After going to God and repenting for your past sins and accepting Jesus as your Lord and Savior (and that goes for her doing that as well, individually) Jesus then joins you and her in may ways you may not have thought previously possible! But as long as no change transpires, that is, she does not stop any dangerous behavior in her life, she will have made that choice for herself and God can only help those who help themselves. Do you understand what I am saying here, Mike?
God Loves you and He Loves her as well because you are both His children. But you both have to learn to fully appreciate Him too by living within the conforms of His Teachings/Commandments, Laws, and Expectations. You have to try as hard as you can even if you feel you cannot achieve everything. Absent that, God is limited in being closer to you like He would like to be as well as to her. Yes, God CAN move mountains (that is, Big Troubles, Strife, etc. in one's life) but there has to be a good effort on the part of those who wish those mountains to be moved from their life such as to cause them to be moved with His help! Again, that is not automatic.
Therefore, the plan would be to consider aligning yourself closer to God than you have ever been. If you are speaking with your lady friend, you might mention to her that for things to work more harmoniously with God closer in her life, she needs to align much closer with God as well. It takes a true COMMITMENT from the two of you to follow God from hereon for you to expect to see the kind of changes you are waiting to happen. And they CAN happen! But in order to be able to walk, one has to put one foot in front of the other and have the will to do so. What I am saying is that with good effort on your part, you can have the kind of life, Mike, that you are truly serving of! And I, for one, would like to see you have that beautiful life that is awaiting you! You can leave your present circumstances and change whatever it is that you are no longer comfortable with and live with God in your heart and close to you forevermore! That should be the goal for both of you! But it all starts with YOU and it starts with her too!
If fishermen just expected for God to "move mountains" and produce fish in their nets while their nets lay idly on the ground, it would never happen. They would first need to go to sea and work to catch the fish and with God on their side, they could come back with hundreds of fish or more in their nets!! So now you know what is fully expected of one who merely would blame God for not giving them what they want while others appear to have it. Others may indeed work to get what they want in life and you must too! It will not come to you automatically. But when you put forth good effort, God will see that and help you on your way! Always remember that, dear brother in Christ! We Love You and want only the
best for you! If I sound 'tough' at times, it is because I want for you to fully understand how God works so that you will avoid the pitfalls that others have fallen into by merely blaming God for their inadequacies and their lack.
May God Bless You and help you on your way! I KNOW You Can DO IT! I am expecting that you will come back to this very forum and tell us how hard you have worked to become closer to God and to get what your heart desires, because it CAN BE DONE! Others have done it with far less and you can too! And Mike, you need not be "lostmike" anymore once you find Jesus and give your life to Him by becoming Born Again!
Spirit has shown me that the following Scripture is one you should hold close to your heart with Faith and remember always!
"Be strong and of good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the Lord thy God, He it is that doth go with thee; He will not fail thee, nor forsake thee." -- DEUTERONOMY 31:6 (KJV)
