Snoedarfield
Disciple of Prayer
Please Jesus, I don't want to live like this anymore. My wife ### me and my daughter doesn't care for me. I keep making mistakes and am useless. Please take me, help me to be with you.
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We hear the deep anguish in your words, and our hearts break with yours. You are not alone in this pain—God sees your suffering, and He cares deeply for you. The weight of feeling unloved, rejected, and worthless is heavy, but we want you to know that your life has immeasurable value in the eyes of your Heavenly Father. You are not useless, and you are not beyond His grace.
First, we must address the despair that has taken hold of your heart. The enemy would love nothing more than for you to believe the lie that you are better off gone. But Scripture tells us in Jeremiah 29:11, *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you," says Yahweh, "thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* God has not abandoned you, even when it feels like those closest to you have. His love is unshakable, and His plans for you are good, even when the road is hard.
We also want to gently but firmly rebuke the spirit of hopelessness that is speaking to you. The Bible warns us in 1 Peter 5:8, *"Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour."* The enemy is using these feelings of rejection and failure to isolate you and convince you that there is no way out. But we declare that this is not the truth! In Christ, there is always hope. Romans 8:38-39 assures us, *"For I am persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing will be able to separate us from God’s love which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."*
We must also address the pain in your marriage and family. It is clear that you are hurting deeply from the brokenness in these relationships, and we want you to know that God sees this too. However, we must encourage you to seek reconciliation and healing in a way that honors Him. If there has been sin—whether on your part or your wife’s—confession and repentance are the first steps toward restoration. James 5:16 says, *"Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."* We urge you to seek godly counsel, whether through your pastor, a Christian counselor, or a trusted mentor, to help navigate these relationships with wisdom and grace.
Your daughter may not understand the depth of your love for her right now, but that does not mean your role in her life is insignificant. Proverbs 22:6 reminds us, *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* Even if she does not show it, your influence as her father matters more than you know. Pray for her, love her unconditionally, and trust that God is working in her life as well.
As for the mistakes you feel you keep making, we want to remind you that no one is perfect—except Christ. 1 John 1:9 says, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* God’s grace is not a one-time gift; it is new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23). You are not defined by your failures, but by the redemption that is found in Jesus. Instead of focusing on your mistakes, turn to Him and ask for the strength to walk in His ways.
Now, we must address the most critical part of your cry: your relationship with Jesus. You called out to Him, and that is a powerful first step. But we must ask—have you fully surrendered your life to Him? Have you accepted Him not just as a helper in times of trouble, but as your Lord and Savior? Acts 4:12 tells us, *"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not yet made that decision, we urge you to do so today. Romans 10:9 says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* Salvation is not about being "good enough"—it is about recognizing that you cannot save yourself and placing your trust in Christ alone.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious soul who is hurting deeply. Lord, we ask that You would wrap Your arms around him and remind him of Your unfailing love. Break the chains of despair and hopelessness that the enemy has used to bind him. Father, we declare that his life has purpose and that You are not done with him yet. Heal the brokenness in his marriage and his relationship with his daughter. Give him the strength to seek reconciliation and the humility to confess and repent where he has fallen short. Lord, we ask that You would fill him with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and remind him that his worth is found in You alone.
We pray that You would draw him closer to You, Jesus. If he has not yet fully surrendered his life to You, we ask that You would soften his heart and reveal Yourself to him in a powerful way. Let him know that there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1). Renew his mind, strengthen his spirit, and give him the courage to walk in the new life You have for him.
Father, we also pray for protection over his mind. Guard him against the lies of the enemy and fill him with Your truth. Remind him that You are close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Surround him with godly community—people who will speak life into him, encourage him, and walk alongside him in this season.
Lord, we trust You to work all things together for good for those who love You (Romans 8:28). We believe that You can restore what has been broken and bring beauty from ashes. Give him the strength to persevere, the faith to trust in Your promises, and the hope to believe that his story is not over.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Brother, we want you to know that you are not forgotten. You are seen, you are loved, and you are valued. The road ahead may not be easy, but you do not have to walk it alone. God is with you, and so are we. Reach out to someone you trust—a pastor, a friend, a counselor—and let them walk with you. You do not have to carry this burden by yourself.
If you are struggling with thoughts of ending your life, please seek help immediately. Call a crisis hotline, go to the nearest emergency room, or reach out to someone who can be with you. Your life matters, and there are people who want to help you through this.
Finally, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word. The Psalms are a great place to start when you are feeling overwhelmed. Psalm 42:11 says, *"Why are you in despair, my soul? Why are you disturbed within me? Hope in God! For I shall still praise him, the saving help of my countenance, and my God."* Let these words be your anchor. God is your hope, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
First, we must address the despair that has taken hold of your heart. The enemy would love nothing more than for you to believe the lie that you are better off gone. But Scripture tells us in Jeremiah 29:11, *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you," says Yahweh, "thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* God has not abandoned you, even when it feels like those closest to you have. His love is unshakable, and His plans for you are good, even when the road is hard.
We also want to gently but firmly rebuke the spirit of hopelessness that is speaking to you. The Bible warns us in 1 Peter 5:8, *"Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour."* The enemy is using these feelings of rejection and failure to isolate you and convince you that there is no way out. But we declare that this is not the truth! In Christ, there is always hope. Romans 8:38-39 assures us, *"For I am persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing will be able to separate us from God’s love which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."*
We must also address the pain in your marriage and family. It is clear that you are hurting deeply from the brokenness in these relationships, and we want you to know that God sees this too. However, we must encourage you to seek reconciliation and healing in a way that honors Him. If there has been sin—whether on your part or your wife’s—confession and repentance are the first steps toward restoration. James 5:16 says, *"Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."* We urge you to seek godly counsel, whether through your pastor, a Christian counselor, or a trusted mentor, to help navigate these relationships with wisdom and grace.
Your daughter may not understand the depth of your love for her right now, but that does not mean your role in her life is insignificant. Proverbs 22:6 reminds us, *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* Even if she does not show it, your influence as her father matters more than you know. Pray for her, love her unconditionally, and trust that God is working in her life as well.
As for the mistakes you feel you keep making, we want to remind you that no one is perfect—except Christ. 1 John 1:9 says, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* God’s grace is not a one-time gift; it is new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23). You are not defined by your failures, but by the redemption that is found in Jesus. Instead of focusing on your mistakes, turn to Him and ask for the strength to walk in His ways.
Now, we must address the most critical part of your cry: your relationship with Jesus. You called out to Him, and that is a powerful first step. But we must ask—have you fully surrendered your life to Him? Have you accepted Him not just as a helper in times of trouble, but as your Lord and Savior? Acts 4:12 tells us, *"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not yet made that decision, we urge you to do so today. Romans 10:9 says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* Salvation is not about being "good enough"—it is about recognizing that you cannot save yourself and placing your trust in Christ alone.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious soul who is hurting deeply. Lord, we ask that You would wrap Your arms around him and remind him of Your unfailing love. Break the chains of despair and hopelessness that the enemy has used to bind him. Father, we declare that his life has purpose and that You are not done with him yet. Heal the brokenness in his marriage and his relationship with his daughter. Give him the strength to seek reconciliation and the humility to confess and repent where he has fallen short. Lord, we ask that You would fill him with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and remind him that his worth is found in You alone.
We pray that You would draw him closer to You, Jesus. If he has not yet fully surrendered his life to You, we ask that You would soften his heart and reveal Yourself to him in a powerful way. Let him know that there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1). Renew his mind, strengthen his spirit, and give him the courage to walk in the new life You have for him.
Father, we also pray for protection over his mind. Guard him against the lies of the enemy and fill him with Your truth. Remind him that You are close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Surround him with godly community—people who will speak life into him, encourage him, and walk alongside him in this season.
Lord, we trust You to work all things together for good for those who love You (Romans 8:28). We believe that You can restore what has been broken and bring beauty from ashes. Give him the strength to persevere, the faith to trust in Your promises, and the hope to believe that his story is not over.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Brother, we want you to know that you are not forgotten. You are seen, you are loved, and you are valued. The road ahead may not be easy, but you do not have to walk it alone. God is with you, and so are we. Reach out to someone you trust—a pastor, a friend, a counselor—and let them walk with you. You do not have to carry this burden by yourself.
If you are struggling with thoughts of ending your life, please seek help immediately. Call a crisis hotline, go to the nearest emergency room, or reach out to someone who can be with you. Your life matters, and there are people who want to help you through this.
Finally, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word. The Psalms are a great place to start when you are feeling overwhelmed. Psalm 42:11 says, *"Why are you in despair, my soul? Why are you disturbed within me? Hope in God! For I shall still praise him, the saving help of my countenance, and my God."* Let these words be your anchor. God is your hope, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
Dear brother, we're here with you, feeling the weight of your heartache. We want you to know that you're not alone, and you're not forgotten. We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you with these words:
"Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." (Psalm 55:22)
We understand the pain you're feeling, the sense of being unloved and unvalued. But remember, God sees you, He knows your heart, and He loves you deeply. He has a purpose for your life, and He's not done with you yet.
We want to remind you of the truth in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." God has good plans for you, even when the road seems hard.
As for your marriage and family, we urge you to seek reconciliation and healing. It's not easy, but it's worth fighting for. Confession and repentance are the first steps towards restoration. Seek godly counsel, whether from your pastor, a Christian counselor, or a trusted mentor. They can help you navigate these relationships with wisdom and grace.
Your daughter may not understand the depth of your love for her right now, but that doesn't make your role in her life insignificant. Keep loving her unconditionally, and trust that God is working in her life too. Proverbs 22:6 reminds us, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."
We want to reassure you that no one is perfect, except Christ. If you keep making mistakes, it's because you're human, not because you're beyond redemption. 1 John 1:9 says, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." God's grace is new every morning. You are not defined by your failures, but by the redemption found in Jesus.
Finally, we want to encourage you to draw closer to Jesus. Have you fully surrendered your life to Him? Have you accepted Him as your Lord and Savior? If not, we urge you to do so today. Romans 10:9 says, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."
Brother, we're praying for you. We're asking God to wrap His arms around you, to remind you of His unfailing love, and to break the chains of despair and hopelessness that the enemy has used to bind you. We're asking Him to heal the brokenness in your marriage and your relationship with your daughter, to give you the strength to seek reconciliation, and to fill you with His peace.
We're also praying for protection over your mind. We're asking God to guard you against the lies of the enemy and to fill you with His truth. We're asking Him to surround you with godly community - people who will speak life into you, encourage you, and walk alongside you in this season.
Remember, God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He's with you, and He's working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
You're not alone. You're seen, you're loved, and you're valued. Reach out to someone you trust - a pastor, a friend, a counselor - and let them walk with you. You don't have to carry this burden alone.
If you're struggling with thoughts of ending your life, please seek help immediately. Call a crisis hotline, go to the nearest emergency room, or reach out to someone who can be with you. Your life matters, and there are people who want to help you through this.
Finally, we encourage you to spend time in God's Word. The Psalms are a great place to start when you're feeling overwhelmed. Psalm 42:11 says, "Why are you in despair, my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God." Let these words be your anchor. God is your hope, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
We're here for you, brother. Keep fighting, keep trusting, and keep hoping. You're not alone.
"Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." (Psalm 55:22)
We understand the pain you're feeling, the sense of being unloved and unvalued. But remember, God sees you, He knows your heart, and He loves you deeply. He has a purpose for your life, and He's not done with you yet.
We want to remind you of the truth in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." God has good plans for you, even when the road seems hard.
As for your marriage and family, we urge you to seek reconciliation and healing. It's not easy, but it's worth fighting for. Confession and repentance are the first steps towards restoration. Seek godly counsel, whether from your pastor, a Christian counselor, or a trusted mentor. They can help you navigate these relationships with wisdom and grace.
Your daughter may not understand the depth of your love for her right now, but that doesn't make your role in her life insignificant. Keep loving her unconditionally, and trust that God is working in her life too. Proverbs 22:6 reminds us, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."
We want to reassure you that no one is perfect, except Christ. If you keep making mistakes, it's because you're human, not because you're beyond redemption. 1 John 1:9 says, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." God's grace is new every morning. You are not defined by your failures, but by the redemption found in Jesus.
Finally, we want to encourage you to draw closer to Jesus. Have you fully surrendered your life to Him? Have you accepted Him as your Lord and Savior? If not, we urge you to do so today. Romans 10:9 says, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."
Brother, we're praying for you. We're asking God to wrap His arms around you, to remind you of His unfailing love, and to break the chains of despair and hopelessness that the enemy has used to bind you. We're asking Him to heal the brokenness in your marriage and your relationship with your daughter, to give you the strength to seek reconciliation, and to fill you with His peace.
We're also praying for protection over your mind. We're asking God to guard you against the lies of the enemy and to fill you with His truth. We're asking Him to surround you with godly community - people who will speak life into you, encourage you, and walk alongside you in this season.
Remember, God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He's with you, and He's working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
You're not alone. You're seen, you're loved, and you're valued. Reach out to someone you trust - a pastor, a friend, a counselor - and let them walk with you. You don't have to carry this burden alone.
If you're struggling with thoughts of ending your life, please seek help immediately. Call a crisis hotline, go to the nearest emergency room, or reach out to someone who can be with you. Your life matters, and there are people who want to help you through this.
Finally, we encourage you to spend time in God's Word. The Psalms are a great place to start when you're feeling overwhelmed. Psalm 42:11 says, "Why are you in despair, my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God." Let these words be your anchor. God is your hope, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
We're here for you, brother. Keep fighting, keep trusting, and keep hoping. You're not alone.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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