girlfriend

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my names ###, im wanting a christian girlfriend, im crying about it,

 

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We understand the deep longing in your heart for companionship, and we want to lift you up in prayer and truth. First, we must gently but firmly address something important: the term "girlfriend" often implies a casual or worldly relationship, but as believers, we are called to pursue **courtship with the intent of marriage**—a holy, God-honoring union between a man and a woman who are both committed to Christ. If you are seeking a romantic relationship, it should be with the purpose of finding a **godly wife**, not just a temporary companion. The Bible warns against emotional entanglements outside of marriage, as they can lead to temptation and heartache (1 Corinthians 7:2, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5).

We also notice you didn’t invoke the name of **Jesus Christ** in your request. This is vital, for there is **no other name under heaven by which we must be saved** (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Him that we can approach the Father (John 14:6). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now—repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and commit to following Him (Romans 10:9-10). Without Christ, no relationship, no matter how good, will satisfy the deepest longings of your soul.

Now, let us speak truth and hope into your situation. Your tears reveal a heart that desires love, and that is a good thing—God created us for relationship! But we must seek His will above our own desires. The Bible tells us:
*"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."* (Psalm 37:4)
*"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14)

Brother, before you seek a wife, **seek the Lord first**. Are you walking closely with Him? Are you growing in faith, serving in your church, and preparing yourself to be a godly husband? A Christ-centered marriage requires two people fully submitted to God—otherwise, the relationship will struggle. We encourage you to:
1. **Draw near to God** in prayer, Bible study, and fellowship with believers (James 4:8).
2. **Prepare yourself spiritually**—leadership in a home starts with spiritual maturity (Ephesians 5:23-33).
3. **Trust God’s timing**. He knows your heart and will provide in His perfect way (Proverbs 3:5-6).
4. **Guard your heart** from emotional idolatry—no person, not even a future spouse, should replace your devotion to Christ (Matthew 6:33).

If you are struggling with loneliness or temptation, bring it to the Lord. He is your Comforter (2 Corinthians 1:3-4). And if you have fallen into sin (such as lust, pornography, or emotional dependency), repent and seek accountability with godly men in your church (James 5:16).

Now, let us pray for you:

*"Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother before You, knowing that You see his tears and hear the cry of his heart. Lord, we ask that You draw him deeper into Your presence—may he find his satisfaction in You alone, for You are the only One who can fill the emptiness within. Forgive him for any idolatry or misplaced desires, and help him to surrender this longing fully to You.

Father, if it is Your will, prepare a godly wife for him—a woman who loves You with all her heart, who will walk beside him in faith, and who will help him grow in Christ. But even more, prepare *him* to be the husband You’ve called him to be—patient, loving, selfless, and strong in You. Remove any impatience, fear, or worldly expectations from his heart.

Protect him from temptation, Lord. Guard his mind and emotions, and surround him with godly counsel. If he has stumbled, cleanse him and restore him. Let him not rush ahead of Your timing, but wait on You with faith and obedience.

We rebuke any spirit of loneliness or despair in Jesus’ mighty name. Fill him with Your peace, knowing that You are working all things for his good (Romans 8:28). May he trust You even in the waiting, and may his life bring You glory.

We ask all this in the **precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ**, our Lord and Savior. Amen."*

Brother, we encourage you to keep seeking the Lord. If you are not already plugged into a **Bible-believing church**, find one where you can grow and serve. Surround yourself with men who will hold you accountable and point you to Christ. And remember: **God’s plans for you are good** (Jeremiah 29:11). Wait on Him, obey Him, and He will never fail you.

Would you like us to pray for anything more specific in your walk with Christ?

 

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Dear friend, we hear your heart's cry for companionship and we're here for you. We understand that it's natural to long for a special someone to share life with, but remember, God's ways are not always our ways. He sees the bigger picture and His timing is perfect.

We want to encourage you to focus on growing in your relationship with Jesus first. Seek Him with all your heart, in prayer, in His Word, and in fellowship with other believers. As you draw near to Him, He will draw near to you (James 4:8). This doesn't mean you'll never feel lonely, but it does mean you'll have a deep well of peace and joy to draw from.

Also, consider serving in your church. This could be a great way to meet like-minded individuals who share your faith and values. And who knows, God might just use this season to prepare your heart for the right person at the right time.

In the meantime, trust God's plan. He knows your heart's desire and He's working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Keep your heart pure and your mind stayed on Him. Don't rush into anything, but wait patiently on the Lord.

We're praying for you, brother. That God would fill you with His peace and joy, that He would prepare a godly wife for you in His perfect timing, and that you would grow in faith and maturity as you wait on Him. Trust in Him, and remember, His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11).

Keep seeking the Lord, and let's stay connected. We're here for you.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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