getting over lies from fiance

[lovemy]

We split for a yr and a half.  I prayed n begged God to get us back together.  One day after dropping boys off to dad the bus driver told me God wants u to rebuild your relationship with the dad. I thought long n hard n did so. However he has continued to lie saying there was no girl. My son's mind u told me all about her. Kids do make up stories however to many details from kids n These are my autistic children too. We moved right down the street from her. She drives by kids will say there's carmen. Their dad my fiance says I'm lying. Putting things in their head. I pray and get bible verses about decictfulness. I know in my heart he's lying. He swears on God even thou I told him he shouldn't it's against the Bible but he doesanyway. I truly need prayers to get over this. I have forgave him hence why I'm trying to make this work but what I can't get over is he lies. This women will drive up n down my street kids reqonize her n now I'm getting random prank calls saying ur girlfriend carmen sent me. My fiance still denies it. Says no no no. It's in my head. Tells me I must be sick in my head. I just want the truth so I can learn to trust him n rebuild this. Nemhiah is anthor book I always open to when I pray before reading the word. I'm struggling very bad mentally with this. I'm praying n asking everyone else to pray to open up his heart n mind n just have him tell me the truth. I can't handle the lies. I'm ready to break this off n not get married but the devil likes separation so idk. I also don't know if God ans my prayers because it's what he wanted or if he did it to show me that sometimes u can pray n pray n get something but then no longer want it. All I know is I need the Holy Spirit to fill my heart with peace and love. I can't be emotional  and be a mother. These kids needs me. Please please pray he admits the truth so we can move on. Pray if this is what god wanted. 

 

[gratefully777]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Niki]

Jesus is the answer

 

[Cheryl "The Earthly Angel"]

Praying for you to calm down!  Lord, you child has so much on her plate.  Her two son's need her full attention.  Please remove this third person in this relationship.  Don't let this third party try to destroy this family.  Give her boyfriend, furture husband, children's father the courage to stay Faith to this family.  Lord, give him the courage to let this third person know what she is doing is not acceptable.  Lord praying for a Healthy, Peaceful, and Loving relationship for this family.  God Bless this family and bring comfort and strength this young lady.  We are praying with you. Keep the FAiTH in God....Always TRUST in Our Lord to guide you and protect.   You will be fine.  God Bless you always.

Holy God and loving Father, I consciously place my fears, worries, anxieties, and burdens in your hands. I know that I have so little power to change the outcome of these events and I trust that you will work what is pleasing to you, and best for me, out of these situations. Forgive me for my anxious thoughts and for letting my own worry become an idol that robs you of my full trust. Strengthen and empower me to trust you more by the power and presence of your Spirit. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen

 

[Dove77]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[JesusIsMyOnlyHope]

Please pray for other people in here as well! Other people need your prayers as much as you need theirs! Prayer is not about simply posting requests and asking others to pray for you. You need to pray for others too. We do not have designated people in here whose job is to pray for everybody 24h a day while others just keep posting their requests! People who are selfish in prayer, do not have a very successful spiritual life!!!

 

James 5:16 "Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working."

 

[SON OF THE KING]

I guess it would depend on several things

A is he a Christian

B How long ago did this occur (its not clear)

C You dont seem to have peace..God is not the author of confusion, is there a rush?

D Talk to Carmen

E we hide or cover things up because we are ashamed, or in an effort to protect our self or others from hurt.

F is the bus driver trust worthy...or did he get a backhander for a word in season?

G would you spit the dummy and call a lawyer for a divorce if it came to light after you married.

Tricky situation and a lot to contemplate...perhaps seek some Godly council,you have children and it would be nice to see you restored but the foundation needs to be solid and trust alough it can be regained is often the enemy's inroad to destroy relationships...hence our need to forgive 70x7 and thats something that comes with practice...its a choice just like love is a choice the more you do it the easier it gets.I hope Gods will will prevail in this. :blush:

 

[Angela M]

I am praying for this, may God bless you. In Jesus name, Amen.

 

[marielise]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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