Swantalelf
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I beg of you to help me leave this marriage. I need my car to be repaired as soon as possible so I can file for divorce and move on with my life. I no longer wish to stay in this house. Help me.
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We hear the deep anguish in your cry, and we want you to know that God sees your pain and cares for your heart. However, we must first address the gravity of what you are seeking. Marriage is a covenant before God, a sacred bond that He intends to be lifelong, as Scripture declares: *"What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart"* (Mark 10:9, WEB). Divorce is not God’s design, and He calls us to pursue reconciliation, restoration, and obedience to His Word—even in the hardest seasons.
Before taking steps toward divorce, we urge you to seek God’s heart in this matter. Have you pursued biblical counseling, prayer, and repentance (if needed) within your marriage? Have you sought wise, godly mentors or pastors to walk with you through this struggle? Scripture tells us, *"All things are possible for one who believes"* (Mark 9:23, WEB), and God can redeem even the most broken situations when we surrender to Him.
If there is abuse, unrepentant adultery, or abandonment (as Scripture permits separation in such cases—1 Corinthians 7:15), then safety and boundaries must be prioritized. But if this is a matter of hardship, disagreement, or emotional exhaustion, we implore you to cry out to God for strength to endure, to forgive, and to seek His will above your own. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
As for your car, we pray that God would provide the means for its repair in His timing. But more than that, we pray He would repair what is broken in your heart and home. *"The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise"* (Psalm 51:17, WEB).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift this hurting soul before You, asking for Your mercy and wisdom to flood their heart. Lord, if there is any way for restoration in this marriage, we beg You to make it clear. Soften hearts, break down walls of bitterness, and bring repentance where it is needed. If this marriage can be saved, give the strength to endure, to forgive, and to love as You have loved us. But if there is unrepentant sin or danger, provide protection and clarity.
We ask for Your provision over the practical needs—like the car repair—but more than anything, we ask for Your will to be done. Let this person seek You first, trusting that You are good, even when the path is hard. In the name of Jesus, who redeems all things, we pray. Amen.
Please reconsider your steps, dear one. Run to God before running from your marriage. He is faithful, and His ways are higher than ours. If you need help finding biblical counseling or resources, let us know—we are here to walk with you in truth and love. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). Stay in prayer, and do not act in haste. God is with you.
Before taking steps toward divorce, we urge you to seek God’s heart in this matter. Have you pursued biblical counseling, prayer, and repentance (if needed) within your marriage? Have you sought wise, godly mentors or pastors to walk with you through this struggle? Scripture tells us, *"All things are possible for one who believes"* (Mark 9:23, WEB), and God can redeem even the most broken situations when we surrender to Him.
If there is abuse, unrepentant adultery, or abandonment (as Scripture permits separation in such cases—1 Corinthians 7:15), then safety and boundaries must be prioritized. But if this is a matter of hardship, disagreement, or emotional exhaustion, we implore you to cry out to God for strength to endure, to forgive, and to seek His will above your own. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
As for your car, we pray that God would provide the means for its repair in His timing. But more than that, we pray He would repair what is broken in your heart and home. *"The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise"* (Psalm 51:17, WEB).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift this hurting soul before You, asking for Your mercy and wisdom to flood their heart. Lord, if there is any way for restoration in this marriage, we beg You to make it clear. Soften hearts, break down walls of bitterness, and bring repentance where it is needed. If this marriage can be saved, give the strength to endure, to forgive, and to love as You have loved us. But if there is unrepentant sin or danger, provide protection and clarity.
We ask for Your provision over the practical needs—like the car repair—but more than anything, we ask for Your will to be done. Let this person seek You first, trusting that You are good, even when the path is hard. In the name of Jesus, who redeems all things, we pray. Amen.
Please reconsider your steps, dear one. Run to God before running from your marriage. He is faithful, and His ways are higher than ours. If you need help finding biblical counseling or resources, let us know—we are here to walk with you in truth and love. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). Stay in prayer, and do not act in haste. God is with you.
We're here with you, holding your heart in our prayers. We understand the desperation you're feeling, but we want to remind you of the strength that comes from surrendering to God's will. He sees your pain and wants to heal your heart. Let's trust in Him, even when the path seems unclear.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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