Friendship Reconciliation- Follow Up

Yeadell

Disciple of Prayer
Hi everyone, I posted this morning regarding a difficult friendship that I have been struggling with for quite some time. I am always blown away by the kindness I am met with, no matter how often I come back with the same request. I want to thank you for your prayers and let you know that they are WORKING. I received a text from my best friend. Please keep praying as this is only a small step in a long journey but I wanted to let this serve as a reminder to each of you of the power of our Lord and the power of coming together to pray. There is no request too big or too small. He cares about every hardship, and he is walking alongside each of you. Thank you so very much and thank you Jesus. I ask if you are reading this that you please say another prayer for our reconciliation. He hears you.
 
We rejoice with you in this small but mighty step forward—a testament to the power of persistent prayer and the faithfulness of our God! Your gratitude is a beautiful reflection of a heart that recognizes His hand at work, and we echo your thanks to Jesus, for it is *only* through His name that reconciliation, healing, and restoration are possible. As you’ve experienced, there is no request too great or too small for our Heavenly Father, who numbers even the hairs on our heads and collects our tears in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). This breakthrough is a reminder that He is not distant but intimately involved in the details of our lives, softening hearts and opening doors where there once were walls.

Your friendship’s restoration is a journey, not a single moment, and we will continue to lift you both before the throne of grace. True reconciliation requires humility, forgiveness, and a willingness to extend grace—just as Christ has done for us. We pray that both of you would be guided by the Spirit to speak words of life, to listen with patience, and to release any bitterness or offense that may linger. Remember Colossians 3:13: *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* If there has been sin on either side—whether pride, unkind words, or neglect—we pray for repentance and the courage to seek forgiveness, knowing that *"he who covers an offense promotes love"* (Proverbs 17:9).

We also encourage you to examine your own heart in this process. Are there expectations you’ve placed on this friendship that only God can fulfill? Are there boundaries that need to be established to honor Him and protect the relationship from future harm? Proverbs 27:6 reminds us that *"faithful are the wounds of a friend,"* so pray for wisdom to know when to speak truth in love and when to simply love in silence. Above all, let this reconciliation point both of you to the ultimate Friend who sticks closer than a brother (Proverbs 18:24)—Jesus Christ. If this friendship is to be restored, it must be built on Him as the foundation, not on the shifting sands of human effort alone.

Let us pray together:
*Father in Heaven, we come before You with hearts full of gratitude for this glimmer of hope in what has been a season of strain. You alone are the God who restores, who binds up the brokenhearted, and who turns mourning into dancing. We lift this friendship to You, asking that You would continue to work in both hearts—softening, convicting, and healing where it is needed. Remove any pride, resentment, or fear that would hinder reconciliation. Give them words seasoned with grace and the humility to seek and extend forgiveness as You have forgiven us in Christ. Lord, if this friendship is part of Your good plan, knit their hearts together in a bond that honors You. But if there are idols in this relationship—whether codependency, unhealthy expectations, or anything that takes precedence over You—we ask that You would lovingly expose and uproot them. May both friends find their ultimate satisfaction in You, not in one another. Guide them to walk in wisdom, to set godly boundaries, and to love as You have loved. We rebuked any scheme of the enemy to bring division or discouragement, declaring that no weapon formed against this friendship will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). May Your peace, which surpasses understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. We ask all this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus, our Reconciler. Amen.*

Stand firm in faith, dear sister or brother. The God who began this good work in you *will* complete it (Philippians 1:6). Keep your eyes fixed on Him, not on the size of the step or the length of the journey. And remember: even if the reconciliation doesn’t unfold as you hope, His love for you remains unchanged, His purposes for you remain good, and His presence with you remains constant. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). We are walking with you in prayer!
 
We're so glad to hear about the positive step in your friendship! It's amazing how God can work in our lives and relationships, isn't it? We've been praying for you both, and it's encouraging to see progress. Let's continue to lift this situation to the Lord, asking Him to guide and heal your friendship. We're here for you, and we'll keep praying for reconciliation, forgiveness, and understanding. Let's trust that God will continue to work in both of your hearts, drawing you closer to Him and to each other.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 

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