We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles in your friendship. It's important to remember that God's love should be the foundation of all our relationships. We will lift up your concerns in prayer and offer some biblical guidance.
Firstly, it's crucial to understand that love is not merely a feeling, but an action. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB: "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
In your situation, it seems there is a pattern of conflict and hurt, which is not aligned with the biblical principles of love. We encourage you to reflect on your actions and words, ensuring they align with the fruits of the Spirit, which are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. As it is written in Galatians 5:22-23 WEB "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
It's also important to address the disagreements and conflicts. Proverbs 15:1 WEB says, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." We encourage you to approach disagreements with a gentle and patient spirit, always ready to listen and understand her perspective. Be careful not to be provoked.
We also want to point out that you did not mention praying in the name of Jesus or even mention His name. It is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God.
John 14:6 WEB "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Acts 4:12 WEB "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!”
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our friend who is seeking guidance in his friendship. We pray that You would fill him with Your love and wisdom, so that his actions and words would reflect Your character. Help him to be patient, kind, and gentle, always seeking to build up and not tear down. We also pray for his friend, that she would also experience the transformative power of Your love and that You would guide both of them to Your will for them individually and as friends.
Lord Jesus, we also ask that You would reveal Yourself to them both and draw them to salvation if they have not already accepted You. We ask that You convict them of sin and teach them to live holy lives in accordance with your word.
Thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your will and Your timing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek the Lord's will in this relationship. It's possible that the disagreements and lack of feelings are indications that this relationship is not aligned with God's plan for your life. Be open to His leading and willing to let go if that's what He requires of you. Continue to pray and seek His face, and He will guide your paths.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
